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How do I find mentors through my college courses that will help me find out what career I truly want to choose?

Are my professors mentors or are there other people/places around where I can find a mentor? #career-counseling

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Alexis’s Answer

I feel like I'm just following Ken around this forum agreeing with him, but here I go again!

The only thing I can add is that you can find mentors literally everywhere. Everyone has something to teach, and everyone has something to learn. I have 11 formal mentors and I have no idea how many informal mentors I have right now. Every single one of them has not only given me valuable advice, but also opened a door for me. Every time you meet someone, ask yourself, "What can I learn from this person? What do I admire or respect about them?" Then talk to them until you figure out how they did it. And invest in relationships. Keeping in contact can be time-consuming, but it's worth it. You don't know where you'll end up or what opportunity will present itself - relationships are gold.
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Selecting mentors from people who are actually working in your chosen career field would probably be more beneficial to you than your professors. Those working in your chosen field would be able to provide more pertinent information and hopefully offer the opportunity to do shadowing and visitation to places where your career area would be applied, so that you can get a better feel for how you might relate to that career area. However, the first important step is getting to know yourself and how your personality traits relate to people involved in various career opportunities is very important in your decision making process. During my many years in Human Resources and College Recruiting, I ran across too many students who had skipped this very important step and ended up in a job situation which for which they were not well suited. Selecting a career area is like buying a pair of shoes. First you have to be properly fitted for the correct size, and then you need to try on and walk in the various shoe options to determine which is fits the best and is most comfortable for you to wear. After you have completed this important step to verify your direction, you can use the following steps to develop the opportunity to request mentorship from those networking connections which you might deem to be most helpful to you.

Ken recommends the following next steps:

The first step is to take an interest and aptitude test and have it interpreted by your school counselor to see if you share the personality traits necessary to enter the field. You might want to do this again upon entry into college, as the interpretation might differ slightly due to the course offering of the school. However, do not wait until entering college, as the information from the test will help to determine the courses that you take in high school. Too many students, due to poor planning, end up paying for courses in college which they could have taken for free in high school.
Next, when you have the results of the testing, talk to the person at your high school and college who tracks and works with graduates to arrange to talk to, visit, and possibly shadow people doing what you think that you might want to do, so that you can get know what they are doing and how they got there. Here are some tips: ## http://www.wikihow.com/Network ## ## https://www.themuse.com/advice/nonawkward-ways-to-start-and-end-networking-conversations ## ## https://www.themuse.com/advice/4-questions-to-ask-your-network-besides-can-you-get-me-a-job?ref=carousel-slide-1 ##
Locate and attend meetings of professional associations to which people who are doing what you think that you want to do belong, so that you can get their advice. These associations may offer or know of intern, coop, shadowing, and scholarship opportunities. These associations are the means whereby the professionals keep abreast of their career area following college and advance in their career. Here are some tips: ## https://www.careeronestop.org/BusinessCenter/Toolkit/find-professional-associations.aspx?&frd=true ## ## https://www.themuse.com/advice/9-tips-for-navigating-your-first-networking-event ##
It is very important to express your appreciation to those who help you along the way to be able to continue to receive helpful information and to create important networking contacts along the way. Here are some good tips: ## https://www.themuse.com/advice/the-informational-interview-thank-you-note-smart-people-know-to-send?ref=recently-published-2 ## ## https://www.themuse.com/advice/3-tips-for-writing-a-thank-you-note-thatll-make-you-look-like-the-best-candidate-alive?bsft_eid=7e230cba-a92f-4ec7-8ca3-2f50c8fc9c3c&bsft_pid=d08b95c2-bc8f-4eae-8618-d0826841a284&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=daily_20171020&utm_source=blueshift&utm_content=daily_20171020&bsft_clkid=edfe52ae-9e40-4d90-8e6a-e0bb76116570&bsft_uid=54658fa1-0090-41fd-b88c-20a86c513a6c&bsft_mid=214115cb-cca2-4aec-aa86-92a31d371185&bsft_pp=2 ##
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