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How did you feel when you know your going far away from home to college?

I’m a 19 year old who is going to study computer engineering at Missouri of science and technology but I’m a bit nervous about not being able to see my family as much.#july20

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Mula’s Answer

Hi Joshua,

For me I felt excitement. I was ready to find independence and see what it was like to live on my own. It was something new to experience and a journey to be adventured. With that said, it can also be a little bit nerve-wracking when you are away on you own for the first time. Just know that you may feel uncomfortable but know that in being uncomfortable there is an opportunity to grow.

I recently have done a semester abroad being thousands and thousands of miles away from my family. One thing I did was to call my family to check up on them on a biweekly basis for them to know I am safe and for me to know of any important news back home. At first I was a little bit nervous being on a plane and navigating in an entirely new country and way of life. Once that feeling subsided, I started feel confident and grow outside of my shell. I used to be a bit of an antisocial and my experience being independent has helped me become more outgoing.

Ultimately it will be a challenge but I implore to accept and face that challenge head on.

I wish you luck and hope for the best.
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Edward Obasi’s Answer

Hi Joshua,

I second Katie's answer and would add that when I went to college about 1,500 miles away from home I found scheduling a time at least once a week to check in with family to be helpful (for me it was every Sunday).

Best of luck!
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Abbie’s Answer

I totally agree with all the other answers that finding time to consistently call your family helps a lot! On top of this, trying to form a community at your university will help with feeling homesick and make school truly feel like home. This could include getting involved with a close knit club, going to a local church, joining an intramural sports team. There are so many ways to surround yourself with people that make college feel like home without your family there.
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Carina’s Answer

As many others have said, setting up a consistent time to speak with your family can be great. I also recommend (if possible) planning a trip home once during the first term of college can give you something to look forward to and help with homesickness.

Good luck!
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Shay’s Answer

At first, I was a bit nervous because I was a bit of a homebody. But you learn very quickly to adjust to your new circumstances and amid your busy schedule, you don't really think about missing home that much. It's also really nice to have your own independence, make your own decisions, and even learn from your own mistakes. You can always call or text your family members to communicate with them, but it really is nice to be out on your own.
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Nicole’s Answer

There is a mix of emotions one might experience, no matter the distance or level of readiness when going to college. I initially could not wait to have some freedom coming from a large family and being the second oldest of 7 children. The excitement of being more independent was self-motivating. I really did not know anyone at the school I attended so creating a network was critical when I first moved on campus. All interactions were an opportunity to meet new friends. Between meeting other freshmen in my dorm, classmates and new co-workers I was able quickly make campus life feel like home. I also connected with my family and friends back home on regular basis and made weekend trips occasionally to other local colleges my friends attended. I believe that the different relationships I established during this time really allowed for me to grow and mature significantly.

I wish you the best of luck on your next chapter!
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