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What is it like to go to college?
I want to know how it is like to go to college because I will be going to college soon. #college
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Christy’s Answer
Being on campus for the first time is definitely thrilling. You get to meet new people, you have more freedom, you can go wherever you want, you can buy whatever you want, you do not need to ask for permission anymore. However, remember that all of this freedom comes with responsibility. It takes a while to build up this responsibility once you first move in. You will be responsible for your health, your grades, and your relationships. So, you need to try your best to make smart choices. If not, it is ok you will learn. College is a place to try new things. Do not be afraid to try new things, but be responsible.
You will get a lot busier in college. College is what you make of it. Everyone’s college experience is different depending on their social groups and the clubs/activities that they are involved in. One thing for sure is that you may be the most social that you have ever been in your life. You are going to be a lot more social than you were in high school. College is definitely stressful because if you mess up, the only person to blame is yourself. You will have a lot of deadlines and you will learn how to prioritize things. Initially, when you leave for college, your parents will miss you a lot and be more clingy, so you may have to call them everyday. But then later, they will get used to it. Make sure to keep in touch with your parents at least once a week, or else they will think that you’re dead. lol.
You will get a lot busier in college. College is what you make of it. Everyone’s college experience is different depending on their social groups and the clubs/activities that they are involved in. One thing for sure is that you may be the most social that you have ever been in your life. You are going to be a lot more social than you were in high school. College is definitely stressful because if you mess up, the only person to blame is yourself. You will have a lot of deadlines and you will learn how to prioritize things. Initially, when you leave for college, your parents will miss you a lot and be more clingy, so you may have to call them everyday. But then later, they will get used to it. Make sure to keep in touch with your parents at least once a week, or else they will think that you’re dead. lol.
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Aaron’s Answer
Hi Katrina!
I agree with Tamara - college experiences are different for everyone, but I do think that your experience can be defined most specifically by a few factors:
--> Motivation
Some students go to college with the end goal in mind - they work hard and graduate as soon as they can. People in this category sometimes regret not taking the time to enjoy themselves and spend a little longer in college. Others take their time and end up regretting not getting through their certification program so they could move on with their lives sooner. Again it comes down to you - staying true to your personality. If you are a highly motivated student, it would make sense that you'd want to stay motivated to cross that finish line as soon as possible.
--> Socialization
Depending on the social circles in which you involve yourself, your college experience will vary greatly. Students who go to college to party and have a good time end up having a very different experience than students who balance work and play. In addition, many students see college as a time to redefine their identities so you need to be cognizant of the people you choose to spend your time with. Unlike high school where often times the social groups and cliches are already set, college becomes an even greater mixing pot where students truly can choose who they want to be and with whom they choose to socialize. Much more so than high school, you should feel the independence and responsibility to choose for yourself which friends to keep and what activities to participate in with them. As Tamara said, these people could become significant parts of your later life or they could very well be gone from it within a year.
--> Planning Ahead
There is so much opportunity for this time of your life to include experiences that will be beneficial to you later on. Working a job or an internship that is related to the degree you pursue can help you get experience before you fully enter the profession. In addition, your professors are very important resources with tons of content knowledge which you won't fully appreciate until you've already left college and would benefit from their help. Ask as many questions as you can and save that knowledge for later. Planning ahead would mean you make those professional connections and maximize the possible experiences during this time - after all, this is a time of your life where you have plenty of energy to really invest your time in many different outlets.
--> Responsibility
Really one of the biggest differences from high school is the added levels of responsibility. Choosing to jump headfirst into any problems that come up or managing any of your choices and to-do lists as they come up can significantly define not only the student but the adult you become as well. Learn to juggle your own finances and paperwork with the school is prime opportunity to build your own responsibility apart from your parents.
I agree with Tamara - college experiences are different for everyone, but I do think that your experience can be defined most specifically by a few factors:
--> Motivation
Some students go to college with the end goal in mind - they work hard and graduate as soon as they can. People in this category sometimes regret not taking the time to enjoy themselves and spend a little longer in college. Others take their time and end up regretting not getting through their certification program so they could move on with their lives sooner. Again it comes down to you - staying true to your personality. If you are a highly motivated student, it would make sense that you'd want to stay motivated to cross that finish line as soon as possible.
--> Socialization
Depending on the social circles in which you involve yourself, your college experience will vary greatly. Students who go to college to party and have a good time end up having a very different experience than students who balance work and play. In addition, many students see college as a time to redefine their identities so you need to be cognizant of the people you choose to spend your time with. Unlike high school where often times the social groups and cliches are already set, college becomes an even greater mixing pot where students truly can choose who they want to be and with whom they choose to socialize. Much more so than high school, you should feel the independence and responsibility to choose for yourself which friends to keep and what activities to participate in with them. As Tamara said, these people could become significant parts of your later life or they could very well be gone from it within a year.
--> Planning Ahead
There is so much opportunity for this time of your life to include experiences that will be beneficial to you later on. Working a job or an internship that is related to the degree you pursue can help you get experience before you fully enter the profession. In addition, your professors are very important resources with tons of content knowledge which you won't fully appreciate until you've already left college and would benefit from their help. Ask as many questions as you can and save that knowledge for later. Planning ahead would mean you make those professional connections and maximize the possible experiences during this time - after all, this is a time of your life where you have plenty of energy to really invest your time in many different outlets.
--> Responsibility
Really one of the biggest differences from high school is the added levels of responsibility. Choosing to jump headfirst into any problems that come up or managing any of your choices and to-do lists as they come up can significantly define not only the student but the adult you become as well. Learn to juggle your own finances and paperwork with the school is prime opportunity to build your own responsibility apart from your parents.