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What if I don't feel fit?

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Emily’s Answer

That's okay! I also did not feel fit in a certain college. That's why I decided to leave and transfer to a different university that provided me with more opportunities and activities. However, if you don't feel fit in your environment, ask yourself why? Is it the people that you surround yourself with? Is it the clubs that you've joined? If so, maybe branch out to new clubs and activities that you can join and see if you like it!
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Tobias’s Answer

Hello Junhua,
It's okay if you don't feel fit, I have been where you are before but yet I was able to overcome it and I believe you can too. The best advice I can give to you is this if you feel you are uncertain in terms of what you want to do in life my suggestion is take a course in general studies whiles you are in college so that you can have an idea about what you intend to do because that was what I did when I was in college. I will also say that since you don't know what to do I advice you go to a community college first and when you figure out what you want to do you can then transition into a four year university. What you are going through can be overwhelming but never give up but remember that no matter what the circumstances you are going through there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. People have gone through your situation and made it and so can you. Don't give up.
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Divyaa’s Answer

Hi! It's totally normal to feel this way! I think you should try joining clubs that best fit your interests and then you can connect with people who have something in common with you! If it is your friends that make you feel like you don't belong, you should share how you feel with them or it might be time to find others. I hope you feel better!
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Veronika’s Answer

Hi! Junhua, it is OK to feel that way. It is important to investigate the source of discomfort: your college, classmates, family or private issues. Since you tagged college & career, it sounds like you are uncertain which career to pursue, which job fits you the most. If this is the case, then yoy still have time to decide. The career choice is challenging and assistanship is highly recommended. I suggest approaching your advisor or career counselor/consultant, and discuss possible options. Hope you will succeed in this activities!
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