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Lori
Student
Rock Hill, South Carolina
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why have a career when you can make one at home?
why do people think having a perfectional career is all people can do or want in life? to be honest I want to be a housewife I want to stay home and take care of my house and my baby because that is a job as well as all these other ones that were listed.
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Priscilla Cardoso
Product Manager
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Cooper City, Florida
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Priscilla’s Answer
Hi Lori,
I think any choice is good, and there's a lot of pressure on both sides of the fence. Working moms (like myself) are always doubting our choice, as we see our kids much less than stay at home moms. We don't participate as much in volunteering at school, watching baseball games, etc. Sometimes
The only thing that I see time and time again, for working moms, is somewhat a lack of independency. If you're taking care of a house and kids, someone will be paying the bills, and somehow you depend on that person. For me, at least, it's not worth it.
Each person is free to make their own choices, and don't let anyone say that one is better than another. It's just different, and society needs to stop judging working moms AND stay at home moms.
I think any choice is good, and there's a lot of pressure on both sides of the fence. Working moms (like myself) are always doubting our choice, as we see our kids much less than stay at home moms. We don't participate as much in volunteering at school, watching baseball games, etc. Sometimes
The only thing that I see time and time again, for working moms, is somewhat a lack of independency. If you're taking care of a house and kids, someone will be paying the bills, and somehow you depend on that person. For me, at least, it's not worth it.
Each person is free to make their own choices, and don't let anyone say that one is better than another. It's just different, and society needs to stop judging working moms AND stay at home moms.
Gabriela Ibarra
Library Assistant/Administrative
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Henderson, Nevada
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Gabriela’s Answer
That would be a good choice for you Lori, but many others might not feel the same. I used to be a stayed-at-home mom when my kids were younger and truly loved it. I wish I wouldn't take advantage of that and taken more education programs that would've helped me grow more in my field now.
I used to do a lot of volunteering back in the day as well and met a lot of wonderful people along the way. I also came across Libraries and their services this made me take a career in Library Science and love it. Not everyone's lifestyle would be the same. A lot of people don't rather be away from home to grow in what they truly love doing. Living situations can also be another factor, do they share homes do they have resources to be at home? Not everyone is a parent either. Finances might be another issue, things change along the way. Kids get older and get interested in many more activities that require payments. We sometimes don't think about that when kids are young until things start piling up on us and have to get a job to cover those expenses.
Cherish every moment you got with your family because they sure grow up quickly. I would always get this from people and now I realize how quickly life truly goes. Now I see how parents are growing and learning more and more in their own homes, or helping others to grow. There's so much to grow.
Maybe join other parents group
Help other parents with advice
Find or do something that makes YOU happy aside from your family
Start setting goals for your young children
Be Happy and keep enjoying your family!!!!
I used to do a lot of volunteering back in the day as well and met a lot of wonderful people along the way. I also came across Libraries and their services this made me take a career in Library Science and love it. Not everyone's lifestyle would be the same. A lot of people don't rather be away from home to grow in what they truly love doing. Living situations can also be another factor, do they share homes do they have resources to be at home? Not everyone is a parent either. Finances might be another issue, things change along the way. Kids get older and get interested in many more activities that require payments. We sometimes don't think about that when kids are young until things start piling up on us and have to get a job to cover those expenses.
Cherish every moment you got with your family because they sure grow up quickly. I would always get this from people and now I realize how quickly life truly goes. Now I see how parents are growing and learning more and more in their own homes, or helping others to grow. There's so much to grow.
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Jennifer Bari
Career Coach / Business Analyst
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Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
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Jennifer’s Answer
Hello Lori,
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a housewife. Being the primary caregiver is rewarding and provides you autonomy on how you want to prioritize your day.
In fact, I know many stay-at-home moms who have started working off their mobile device or computer, just to have some side income. They have created educational programs or courses for students or even just buy and sell on Ebay or Shopify to generate passive income.
The corporate life is not for everyone and there are many ways to fulfill your life without having a career, as long as you have a way to support yourself and your loved ones.
Kind regards,
Jennifer Bari
Career Coach
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-bari-6b162185
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a housewife. Being the primary caregiver is rewarding and provides you autonomy on how you want to prioritize your day.
In fact, I know many stay-at-home moms who have started working off their mobile device or computer, just to have some side income. They have created educational programs or courses for students or even just buy and sell on Ebay or Shopify to generate passive income.
The corporate life is not for everyone and there are many ways to fulfill your life without having a career, as long as you have a way to support yourself and your loved ones.
Kind regards,
Jennifer Bari
Career Coach
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifer-bari-6b162185
William Nwaogu
Construction, CAD and BIM
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Lagos, Nigeria
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William’s Answer
Hi Lori!
Your decision to be a full time house wife is a great career once you are a master in it.
You have many other kinds of work frome home jobs that you can opt for as a full time house wife in case you wish to. All must not follow the same part in life.
So many has neglected their families in pursuit of circular careers if they did not maintain work life balance by giving their family the time and attention they need in exchange for pay.
Success!
Your decision to be a full time house wife is a great career once you are a master in it.
You have many other kinds of work frome home jobs that you can opt for as a full time house wife in case you wish to. All must not follow the same part in life.
So many has neglected their families in pursuit of circular careers if they did not maintain work life balance by giving their family the time and attention they need in exchange for pay.
Success!
David Bunker
Accounting/Finance Manager
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Andover, Massachusetts
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David’s Answer
Hi Lori,
While we have to earn an income, at some level, to live, a career is only one aspect of life. Dedicating the time to raise your children well is an incredibly important pursuit. Preserving a balance between childcare, earning an income and personal growth is important as well. You can continue to grow, if not through a career, then with education/reading while you also care for your child, and you both will likely benefit. Do give yourself options for the long term. Best of luck to you and your family.
While we have to earn an income, at some level, to live, a career is only one aspect of life. Dedicating the time to raise your children well is an incredibly important pursuit. Preserving a balance between childcare, earning an income and personal growth is important as well. You can continue to grow, if not through a career, then with education/reading while you also care for your child, and you both will likely benefit. Do give yourself options for the long term. Best of luck to you and your family.