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Chirayu Rupani
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Frisco, Texas
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Chirayu’s Answer
Some of the key things to avoid in college especially as a freshmen are e not not to take freshmen year for granted, socializing too much, missing classes, not meeting deadlines, taking too many classes and even going home too much as that means less time to study or finish up homework. During my undergrad I stayed on campus housing and it is understandable that you are away from home and that means more freedom. That is great and you should explore, but in your free time you should attend office hours and ask questions, attend study sessions to get help on your homework, study with classmates, or even do volunteer work if you have the time. Don't party every weekend and then attend class as you will not be able to focus on classwork. Things to avoid would be taking too many classes as that will take your focus away. . Once you get a good understanding you can always increase your class load in the future years. To prepare for college, make a list of things you may need while you are away from home, get a planner and plan things out and stick to it as long as possible because as you skip things, it will throw the rest of the activities way. Time management is key in college and how well you adapt to it as you will have multiple exams or projects come at the same time and prioritizing your work. There are a lot of resources available to students for free and take advantage of it to success in college.
Diane Gibson
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Diane’s Answer
Take advantage of college orientation and knowing where the important services are that college offers (library, tutoring, technical help, medical help) and investigate recreational sports/clubs/fraternities/sororities that have similar values/interests. Don't abandon successful skill sets/work ethics you and/or your parents helped you create to this point. It's easy to allow those to go by the wayside once you're at college and on your own. It's ok to feel homesick! Freshman year at college is a huge step and can be overwhelming so if you are feeling stressed, sad, etc....reach out to friends, family, professionals as we have all been through this.
Erica Bynes
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San Francisco, California
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Erica’s Answer
Preparing to leave for college is different for everyone but for me, my focus was on making sure I had balance. People had warned me about not partying too much and studying often but that advice is very general. I will say, finding the balance thats right for YOU is essential. I went to college with people that partied every night but were still immensely successful and I met people that would go out very little but didn't do homework or reading because they just didn't want to. Really setting goals for yourself before starting college and not subscribing to what seems to be "right" is important and you will find your own groove through trial and error.
Alexa Dzubak
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Carmel, New York
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Alexa’s Answer
Good question, for me leaving for college was hard. A reason for that was how close I was to my family, and dogs! So, you need to find a good group of friends while you are away with similar interests. Join a club, sports team, Greek life etc . Some things to avoid are obviously over using alcohol, drug use, etc. Dont get too caught up in the party scene, find a happy medium. You are there for an education, don’t destroy your grades. Overall just try to stay positive, and make the best of your experience. Also, really think about your major and if there is a job related that you would like to pursue one day.
Olivia Tomoff
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Richmond, Virginia
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Olivia’s Answer
Your first semester GPA will set the tone for the rest of your college years! Try to be as diligent as possible with studying, don't overload your schedule, and stay focused on the grades with all of the distractions. As mentioned previously, time management will be huge for this. There are a lot of resources at various universities to help with this, find them, and use them!!
Nicholas Lust
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Chicago, Illinois
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Nicholas’s Answer
I think it is important to do some self-reflection before you leave for college. Figure out the things you hope to get out of your college experience as well as the things you enjoy doing. These goals and interests will help direct and propel you as you start your college career. Now, obviously your priorities can change a lot throughout your time in school, but having a good sense of who you are and what you like to do will serve you well in the beginning.
Some common pitfalls that I have seen are things a lot of previous answers discussed including: drinking or doing drugs frequently enough to the point where they impede your classwork, not going to class, ignoring basic hygiene, and not getting out there and meeting new people. I think this last one is extremely important, especially if you are going to a school where you do not know many people. It can be very easy to get intimidated with all the new people and just stay in your own room or little bubble. However, the beauty of college is that there is a group or friend for everyone, no matter your interests. If you originally get caught up with people you do not want to be involved with, you can easily find a new group of people who more align to what you like to do. If you get out there, meet new people, and keep your priorities in line, you will have a great college experience.
Some common pitfalls that I have seen are things a lot of previous answers discussed including: drinking or doing drugs frequently enough to the point where they impede your classwork, not going to class, ignoring basic hygiene, and not getting out there and meeting new people. I think this last one is extremely important, especially if you are going to a school where you do not know many people. It can be very easy to get intimidated with all the new people and just stay in your own room or little bubble. However, the beauty of college is that there is a group or friend for everyone, no matter your interests. If you originally get caught up with people you do not want to be involved with, you can easily find a new group of people who more align to what you like to do. If you get out there, meet new people, and keep your priorities in line, you will have a great college experience.
Christina Ridgely Aschenberg
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Christina’s Answer
I did not go away to college. I lived at home while I attended a school that was about an hour away from my parents. Looking back, I would have prepared more financially to live at school. My parents could not afford the living expense at the school I received a scholarship to, so I ended up trying to commute and when I found that was not a reasonable expectation... I dropped out of that school and started working full time and went to school part time. By doing this, I was able to finance most of my education with my company's assistance.
The biggest pitfall that I faced and that a lot of students still face is the cost of college. Most parents can not afford the cost to send their kids to college and pay for them to live there. My parents could not. Kids end up getting student loans that take the rest of their lives to pay back. I would suggest keeping this in mind when looking for schools. An alternative is to work for a company that offers tuition reimbursement or to go to school for your general education credits at community college and then transfer. A lot of kids want the "college experience" but don't understand the cost associated with that. Friends can be met at a community college as well and you will still be able to have fun and not end up going into debt forever. I have seen so many kids that I know get into great schools only to find out in the first semester or a few semesters in that they can't afford to go any more. I would say to look at costs , then realize that friends can be met just anywhere and you can still have a great experience anywhere you go if you just join the right clubs and extracurricular activities :)
The biggest pitfall that I faced and that a lot of students still face is the cost of college. Most parents can not afford the cost to send their kids to college and pay for them to live there. My parents could not. Kids end up getting student loans that take the rest of their lives to pay back. I would suggest keeping this in mind when looking for schools. An alternative is to work for a company that offers tuition reimbursement or to go to school for your general education credits at community college and then transfer. A lot of kids want the "college experience" but don't understand the cost associated with that. Friends can be met at a community college as well and you will still be able to have fun and not end up going into debt forever. I have seen so many kids that I know get into great schools only to find out in the first semester or a few semesters in that they can't afford to go any more. I would say to look at costs , then realize that friends can be met just anywhere and you can still have a great experience anywhere you go if you just join the right clubs and extracurricular activities :)
Sharon Davis
Student
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Browns Summit, North Carolina
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Sharon’s Answer
I did not live on campus, but I went to a local university. I heard some things that the younger crowd dealt with while in college so I know a few things not to do. Avoid a lot of parties, don't do drugs, and make positive friendships that benefit you as a person--not friendships that suck you dry. Also, set your sights on graduation, make friends with your professors, and gets tutors before you need them. There are some great university tutors out there! You are in this for the duration so make the best of it, but you are not there forever. Find the school that has the majors that you are interested in and not because your friends are going there. You can make new friends too! Always be positive! Your future is more important! If you are at school for nursing, volunteer at a hospital to get a feel of the environment. Know that you've got this and you are going to finish! Keep in contact with your family, but don't let them get you down. Have a good time but study, study, study!
anahi diaz
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anahi’s Answer
Preparing for college involves both practical preparations and considerations for your personal well-being. Here are some tips for preparation and pitfalls to avoid in college:
### **Preparation for Leaving for College:**
1. **Financial Planning:**
- Create a budget outlining your expected expenses and income sources. Understand your financial aid package, if applicable, and plan for additional costs.
2. **Packing Essentials:**
- Pack necessary items for your dorm or living situation. Coordinate with roommates on shared items to avoid duplication.
3. **Health Preparation:**
- Ensure you have health insurance coverage. Bring any necessary medications, and schedule a check-up or dental visit if needed.
4. **Academic Readiness:**
- Familiarize yourself with your class schedule, locate classrooms, and review course materials if available. Consider buying or renting textbooks ahead of time.
5. **Communication:**
- Inform friends and family of your moving date and new address. Set up communication plans, especially if you're moving far from home.
6. **Personal Documentation:**
- Bring essential documents, including your ID, insurance cards, and any paperwork required by the university.
7. **Technology Setup:**
- Ensure your computer and other electronic devices are in good working condition. Familiarize yourself with university email and online platforms.
8. **Networking:**
- Join social media groups for incoming students to connect with peers. Attend orientation events to meet people and become familiar with campus resources.
9. **Self-Care Essentials:**
- Pack items that contribute to your well-being, such as personal care products, comfort items, and any tools for stress relief.
### **Pitfalls to Avoid in College:**
1. **Procrastination:**
- Avoid procrastination by managing your time effectively. Create a schedule, set deadlines, and prioritize tasks to stay on top of your coursework.
2. **Isolation:**
- College can be overwhelming, but isolating yourself can contribute to stress and loneliness. Make an effort to socialize, join clubs, and participate in campus activities.
3. **Financial Mismanagement:**
- Be mindful of your budget and avoid unnecessary expenses. Understand your financial aid terms and be cautious with credit cards.
4. **Ignoring Mental Health:**
- Take care of your mental health. Seek support if needed and be aware of available counseling services on campus.
5. **Skipping Classes:**
- Attend classes regularly. Skipping classes can lead to falling behind and negatively impact your academic performance.
6. **Overloading on Commitments:**
- While it's good to be involved, avoid overloading yourself with commitments. Find a balance between academics, extracurricular activities, and personal time.
7. **Ignoring Academic Support Services:**
- Utilize academic support services early on, such as tutoring centers and writing labs. Don't hesitate to seek help if you're struggling with coursework.
8. **Unhealthy Habits:**
- Be mindful of your health by maintaining a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly. Avoid excessive alcohol or substance use.
9. **Ignoring Career Development:**
- Start thinking about your career early on. Utilize career services, attend career fairs, and explore internships to enhance your professional development.
10. **Failure to Communicate:**
- Keep open lines of communication with professors, advisors, and roommates. If you're facing challenges, seek assistance and communicate your needs.
By preparing thoughtfully and being aware of potential pitfalls, you can navigate the transition to college successfully. Remember that adjusting to college life takes time, and it's okay to seek support when needed.
### **Preparation for Leaving for College:**
1. **Financial Planning:**
- Create a budget outlining your expected expenses and income sources. Understand your financial aid package, if applicable, and plan for additional costs.
2. **Packing Essentials:**
- Pack necessary items for your dorm or living situation. Coordinate with roommates on shared items to avoid duplication.
3. **Health Preparation:**
- Ensure you have health insurance coverage. Bring any necessary medications, and schedule a check-up or dental visit if needed.
4. **Academic Readiness:**
- Familiarize yourself with your class schedule, locate classrooms, and review course materials if available. Consider buying or renting textbooks ahead of time.
5. **Communication:**
- Inform friends and family of your moving date and new address. Set up communication plans, especially if you're moving far from home.
6. **Personal Documentation:**
- Bring essential documents, including your ID, insurance cards, and any paperwork required by the university.
7. **Technology Setup:**
- Ensure your computer and other electronic devices are in good working condition. Familiarize yourself with university email and online platforms.
8. **Networking:**
- Join social media groups for incoming students to connect with peers. Attend orientation events to meet people and become familiar with campus resources.
9. **Self-Care Essentials:**
- Pack items that contribute to your well-being, such as personal care products, comfort items, and any tools for stress relief.
### **Pitfalls to Avoid in College:**
1. **Procrastination:**
- Avoid procrastination by managing your time effectively. Create a schedule, set deadlines, and prioritize tasks to stay on top of your coursework.
2. **Isolation:**
- College can be overwhelming, but isolating yourself can contribute to stress and loneliness. Make an effort to socialize, join clubs, and participate in campus activities.
3. **Financial Mismanagement:**
- Be mindful of your budget and avoid unnecessary expenses. Understand your financial aid terms and be cautious with credit cards.
4. **Ignoring Mental Health:**
- Take care of your mental health. Seek support if needed and be aware of available counseling services on campus.
5. **Skipping Classes:**
- Attend classes regularly. Skipping classes can lead to falling behind and negatively impact your academic performance.
6. **Overloading on Commitments:**
- While it's good to be involved, avoid overloading yourself with commitments. Find a balance between academics, extracurricular activities, and personal time.
7. **Ignoring Academic Support Services:**
- Utilize academic support services early on, such as tutoring centers and writing labs. Don't hesitate to seek help if you're struggling with coursework.
8. **Unhealthy Habits:**
- Be mindful of your health by maintaining a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly. Avoid excessive alcohol or substance use.
9. **Ignoring Career Development:**
- Start thinking about your career early on. Utilize career services, attend career fairs, and explore internships to enhance your professional development.
10. **Failure to Communicate:**
- Keep open lines of communication with professors, advisors, and roommates. If you're facing challenges, seek assistance and communicate your needs.
By preparing thoughtfully and being aware of potential pitfalls, you can navigate the transition to college successfully. Remember that adjusting to college life takes time, and it's okay to seek support when needed.
Janice Ng
Product Manager
8
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San Francisco, California
Updated
Janice’s Answer
Hey! The best thing is to put yourself out there and find a good group of friends. You also don't need to make your best friends right during orientation - it will take time to find your true friends and your support system, so don't give yourself too much pressure.
Finding a balance is a big advice I will give. Whether its with classes, social time, calling your family, fitness, making time for yourself..make sure to find a balance between all of these so you don't burn yourself out and don't regret anything. College is supposed to be exciting and fulfilling, so do that!
Finding a balance is a big advice I will give. Whether its with classes, social time, calling your family, fitness, making time for yourself..make sure to find a balance between all of these so you don't burn yourself out and don't regret anything. College is supposed to be exciting and fulfilling, so do that!