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Angelina
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How can I become a medical doctor if I'm scared of people suffering
I don't think I'm brave enough because it's really hard to see my fellow human suffering .I love helping people but I'm scared of losing them no matter who they are.Its going to be difficult for me#Fall24
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Dilawar Hussain
Veterinarian
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Tando Jam, Sindh
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Dilawar’s Answer
Hello Angelina,
Indeed, the path you're on can be challenging, but remember, your desire to help others is a powerful force. Consider exploring fields like business, sociology, or public health to aid the community in your unique way. There's also the option of partnering with NGOs and offering your skills on a voluntary basis.
There are countless ways to make a difference, sweetheart. Being a doctor is not the only route. People face a myriad of struggles, from poverty and illiteracy to a scarcity of food and resources. You have the potential to alleviate these hardships and bring about positive change. Keep going, Angelina, your journey can truly make a difference.
Indeed, the path you're on can be challenging, but remember, your desire to help others is a powerful force. Consider exploring fields like business, sociology, or public health to aid the community in your unique way. There's also the option of partnering with NGOs and offering your skills on a voluntary basis.
There are countless ways to make a difference, sweetheart. Being a doctor is not the only route. People face a myriad of struggles, from poverty and illiteracy to a scarcity of food and resources. You have the potential to alleviate these hardships and bring about positive change. Keep going, Angelina, your journey can truly make a difference.
Thank you so much for the advice.
Angelina
You are most welcome dear
Dilawar Hussain
Josh Matthews
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New Cumberland, Pennsylvania
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Hello Angelina!
I think the fact that you are burdened with this means you will be a good doctor. It’s human to sympathize and empathize when we encounter hurt, death, pain, and a lack of hope. But, you have an incredible opportunity to be there for them. Doctors can heal in more ways than just physical. Just being present, listening, and doing what you can to ensure they know they are not alone.
But in all of this, never stop feeling, whatever that feeling might, recognizing it and work on coping methods to help you make it through. It is okay to feel because that is what makes you human and from my experience, humans make the best doctors.
I think the fact that you are burdened with this means you will be a good doctor. It’s human to sympathize and empathize when we encounter hurt, death, pain, and a lack of hope. But, you have an incredible opportunity to be there for them. Doctors can heal in more ways than just physical. Just being present, listening, and doing what you can to ensure they know they are not alone.
But in all of this, never stop feeling, whatever that feeling might, recognizing it and work on coping methods to help you make it through. It is okay to feel because that is what makes you human and from my experience, humans make the best doctors.
Thank you for giving me more hope.I really needed this.
Angelina
Thank you, Josh!
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Tara Smith
Flight Paramedic
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Seattle, Washington
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Tara’s Answer
Angelina,
I couldn't have said it any better than Josh did. You are already showing your bravery by sharing this and asking for advice. Humility is one of the strongest attributes a doctor or any healthcare provider can have. I have been working as a flight paramedic for years, and it is never easy when a patient dies. My heart aches for them, and the family they left behind. All you can do is give them every opportunity to survive by providing the best care you can give. I wouldn't be giving you a truthful answer if I said it doesn't hurt. It's okay to feel sorrow for them. It's even okay to cry. All of those things show your level of compassion and it is a testament to why you chose the profession. It's just important to take care of yourself too. You will need healthy coping mechanisms and support networks. You will develop those along the way. All of the positive things you will do - the lives you will touch, will make it all worth it. Follow your dreams! 🙂
Best of luck and may the medical community be lucky enough to have you as a doctor someday!
Tara
I couldn't have said it any better than Josh did. You are already showing your bravery by sharing this and asking for advice. Humility is one of the strongest attributes a doctor or any healthcare provider can have. I have been working as a flight paramedic for years, and it is never easy when a patient dies. My heart aches for them, and the family they left behind. All you can do is give them every opportunity to survive by providing the best care you can give. I wouldn't be giving you a truthful answer if I said it doesn't hurt. It's okay to feel sorrow for them. It's even okay to cry. All of those things show your level of compassion and it is a testament to why you chose the profession. It's just important to take care of yourself too. You will need healthy coping mechanisms and support networks. You will develop those along the way. All of the positive things you will do - the lives you will touch, will make it all worth it. Follow your dreams! 🙂
Best of luck and may the medical community be lucky enough to have you as a doctor someday!
Tara
I really appreciate this.This advice has given me more hope to keep moving.Thank you
Angelina