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For lawyers and psychologists, what are some things you wished you knew when you first started your career, and how does your job deviate from your initial expectations?
Hi! I'm interested in law and psychology. I know the media likes to glorify/stereotype certain jobs, and I'm wondering how reality differs from expectation.
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Zack’s Answer
When most people think of lawyers, the idea of "Law and Order" or other legal dramas come to mind. But most lawyers spend very little time in the courtroom and cases or "matters" can take a very long time resolve. At its core -- the legal profession is about problem solving. Most clients do not want to stand before a judge or a jury. The courtroom is the last resort. Ideally, an issue will be resolved informally before the legal system is involved. This requires lawyers to balance human psychology, practical business concerns, the cost of involving the legal system, and their client's goals. For this reason, the vast majority of legal disputes are settled before trial. Additionally, there are many different sorts of attorneys. Some attorneys practice criminal law, which heavily involves the court system. But many attorneys specializing in different aspects of "business" law and never see a courtroom. They specialize in making deals or "contracts." One's personality tends to dictate the type of legal work that one may find interesting. Above all, practicing law requires attention to detail - every word matters. While the media may stereotype lawyers as individuals who like to argue every point, the best lawyers are those who are good at focusing on what really matters. If you like solving problems - practicing law may be for you.
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Elizabeth’s Answer
This is a great question for all career paths! There are so many things we all wish we knew when we first start out on the career journey, but learning is part of the journey. We make the best decisions with the best information we have at that time! Remember that!
From a 15 year career in a few industries, I can share a few major points of learning. These are truths that I did not know when I started, but rather that I learned along the way and I think may be helpful.
-Work is important, but it does not define us. This is an important truth to help consider the relationship and expectations of work, mission, money, goals, and lifestyle. Do you live to work? Or do you work to live?
-Work is dynamic. The workplace and career opportunities are endless and constantly changing. The job I wanted 15 years ago is not the same one I wanted 10 years ago, 5 years ago, or even a year ago. Believe in the opportunity and never stop learning!
-Reality vs. Expectations is legitimate. Work can be over or under-estimated! But this can differ in each industry but do the research, stick to your values, always ask for help, stay humble, and keep learning!
From a 15 year career in a few industries, I can share a few major points of learning. These are truths that I did not know when I started, but rather that I learned along the way and I think may be helpful.
-Work is important, but it does not define us. This is an important truth to help consider the relationship and expectations of work, mission, money, goals, and lifestyle. Do you live to work? Or do you work to live?
-Work is dynamic. The workplace and career opportunities are endless and constantly changing. The job I wanted 15 years ago is not the same one I wanted 10 years ago, 5 years ago, or even a year ago. Believe in the opportunity and never stop learning!
-Reality vs. Expectations is legitimate. Work can be over or under-estimated! But this can differ in each industry but do the research, stick to your values, always ask for help, stay humble, and keep learning!
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Annah’s Answer
Zori, while I am not a psychologist, I have a master's in clinical counseling and work as an art psychotherapist. I love this question because I entered into the field with a definite glorified sense about the work. And this was after undergoing my own therapy as a patient. I will say that if you choose to enter into psychology the path will be a lot faster if you enter into a graduate program path that will ultimately end in a PhD or Psyd degree. Otherwise, you will be getting the master's first before returning for the doctorate license. It may take a bit longer. Truly it is a personal preference and one that may also be affected by life circumstances. While I chose to enter into community and public health, I had no idea about the strain of working in such environments. These types of jobs (even for psychologists) are poorly paid and rank along with teaching as the lowest paid positions for the most highly educated individuals. The amount of student debt you may carry is another consideration. While community health agencies are meant to provide wraparound care for the most marginalized communities, most employees are overworked and have little bandwidth to perform at their best. Policies for charting and diagnosing patients is also something that in my opinion, is out of control. There are so many rules and regulations in place- by insurance and by each state- it can become a big hindrance to simply getting the job done. I have also seen clinician's terrified of lawsuits and rejecting patients in crisis out of fear they may lose their license. The systemic and institutional issues are indeed problematic. Most new graduates flock to private practice where they can set their own hours and salaries. Yet this creates a desperate need for skilled people in public health settings. No one can sustain the almost minimum wages for entry level graduate positions and thus there is a revolving door that occurs- therapist leaving after a few years and patients being left stranded, having to start over and over again with a new provider. This is the reality you do not hear about as a student.
Now for the bright side- it is a career that allows (and insists) on constant learning. You will grow exponentially as a person because you will also be working on your own self simultaneously. There is a huge need for people who are passionate about improving the mental health and wellbeing of others. There are thousands of ways to conceptualize and provide care; the number of modalities and techniques are astounding. What is great about a doctorate degree is that you can specialize in testing and assessment. You may also travel to (some) countries outside the US and practice. I truly believe art therapy is magical; I have seen people come to new realizations much faster than with talk therapy alone. I loved my graduate studies, but they were absolutely a bubble- as most educational settings are. Upon entering into the 'real' world you will always find discrepancies (between academia and work settings). No matter what, follow your passion as it will continuously point you in a direction that will never be boring! What is great about psychology is that you can literally craft a practice that works for you. I know therapists who offer therapy on the beach, nature/eco-therapy in local parks, art therapy in literal art studios, and mindfulness practice. There is a lot of leeway to follow the niche that speaks to your heart and soul. Psychology may be a science, but there is a spiritual aspect as well. Not many career paths may say the same.
Now for the bright side- it is a career that allows (and insists) on constant learning. You will grow exponentially as a person because you will also be working on your own self simultaneously. There is a huge need for people who are passionate about improving the mental health and wellbeing of others. There are thousands of ways to conceptualize and provide care; the number of modalities and techniques are astounding. What is great about a doctorate degree is that you can specialize in testing and assessment. You may also travel to (some) countries outside the US and practice. I truly believe art therapy is magical; I have seen people come to new realizations much faster than with talk therapy alone. I loved my graduate studies, but they were absolutely a bubble- as most educational settings are. Upon entering into the 'real' world you will always find discrepancies (between academia and work settings). No matter what, follow your passion as it will continuously point you in a direction that will never be boring! What is great about psychology is that you can literally craft a practice that works for you. I know therapists who offer therapy on the beach, nature/eco-therapy in local parks, art therapy in literal art studios, and mindfulness practice. There is a lot of leeway to follow the niche that speaks to your heart and soul. Psychology may be a science, but there is a spiritual aspect as well. Not many career paths may say the same.
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Chinyere’s Answer
Hello Zori,
Good question! It’s fantastic that you’re exploring both law and psychology! Both fields are incredibly rewarding, but often quite different from what media portrays. Here are some insights based on the experiences of professionals in these areas:
Law
What Lawyers Wish They Knew
1. Writing and Research Are Key
A lot of the job involves meticulous legal research and drafting documents, not just dramatic courtroom arguments. Strong writing and analytical skills are crucial.
2. Networking Matters
Building relationships is as important as academic success. Internships, mentorships, and networking can significantly influence your career path.
3. Specialization is Important
Law is vast, and finding a niche (e.g., corporate, family, criminal, or environmental law) takes time and exploration.
4. Self-Care is Essential
The legal profession can be demanding and stressful, especially with long hours. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize mental health early on is key.
How Reality Differs from Expectations
- Courtroom Time is Rare
Most lawyers don’t spend much time in court. A lot of the work happens behind the scenes, in offices, or through negotiations.
- It’s Not Always Glamorous
The media often skips over the late nights reviewing contracts or preparing for cases. Real legal work requires persistence and attention to detail.
Psychology
What Psychologists Wish They Knew
1. It’s Not Just Therapy
Psychology has diverse career paths—research, teaching, consulting, or working in schools or businesses. Explore different areas to find your passion.
2. Patience is Vital
Building trust with clients and seeing progress takes time. It’s not always about instant breakthroughs like in movies.
3. Ongoing Learning is Necessary
Psychology evolves constantly. Staying updated on research and methods is an ongoing commitment.
4. Self-Awareness is Crucial
Helping others requires understanding your own mental and emotional health first.
How Reality Differs from Expectations
- It’s Not a Quick Fix
Therapy often involves small, steady steps rather than dramatic "aha" moments.
- Emotionally Demanding
Listening to difficult stories and staying objective can be challenging. Learning how to separate work from personal life is critical.
If you’re drawn to both fields, consider how they overlap. For example, forensic psychology combines aspects of law and psychology, while mediation or conflict resolution in law often requires psychological insight. Internships, shadowing professionals, or joining relevant clubs can help you gain firsthand experience and clarity about what excites you most.
It looks like you’re on a thoughtful path to making an informed decision.
Best wishes!
Good question! It’s fantastic that you’re exploring both law and psychology! Both fields are incredibly rewarding, but often quite different from what media portrays. Here are some insights based on the experiences of professionals in these areas:
Law
What Lawyers Wish They Knew
1. Writing and Research Are Key
A lot of the job involves meticulous legal research and drafting documents, not just dramatic courtroom arguments. Strong writing and analytical skills are crucial.
2. Networking Matters
Building relationships is as important as academic success. Internships, mentorships, and networking can significantly influence your career path.
3. Specialization is Important
Law is vast, and finding a niche (e.g., corporate, family, criminal, or environmental law) takes time and exploration.
4. Self-Care is Essential
The legal profession can be demanding and stressful, especially with long hours. Learning to set boundaries and prioritize mental health early on is key.
How Reality Differs from Expectations
- Courtroom Time is Rare
Most lawyers don’t spend much time in court. A lot of the work happens behind the scenes, in offices, or through negotiations.
- It’s Not Always Glamorous
The media often skips over the late nights reviewing contracts or preparing for cases. Real legal work requires persistence and attention to detail.
Psychology
What Psychologists Wish They Knew
1. It’s Not Just Therapy
Psychology has diverse career paths—research, teaching, consulting, or working in schools or businesses. Explore different areas to find your passion.
2. Patience is Vital
Building trust with clients and seeing progress takes time. It’s not always about instant breakthroughs like in movies.
3. Ongoing Learning is Necessary
Psychology evolves constantly. Staying updated on research and methods is an ongoing commitment.
4. Self-Awareness is Crucial
Helping others requires understanding your own mental and emotional health first.
How Reality Differs from Expectations
- It’s Not a Quick Fix
Therapy often involves small, steady steps rather than dramatic "aha" moments.
- Emotionally Demanding
Listening to difficult stories and staying objective can be challenging. Learning how to separate work from personal life is critical.
If you’re drawn to both fields, consider how they overlap. For example, forensic psychology combines aspects of law and psychology, while mediation or conflict resolution in law often requires psychological insight. Internships, shadowing professionals, or joining relevant clubs can help you gain firsthand experience and clarity about what excites you most.
It looks like you’re on a thoughtful path to making an informed decision.
Best wishes!