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Alyrah
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How do I avoid becoming a college dropout or feeling "stuck" with my degree?
I don't want to get a degree and then feel like what I want or even something that would even be enjoyable is out of my reach. I also don't want to feel like I'd be better off leaving my education and just joining the workforce without a degree. How can I stop this? I like what I want to get a degree in but is that enough? What steps can I take to prevent that 'burn out' feeling?
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Michelle M.
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Hello, Alyrah !
Thanks for reaching out for advice because it's very unsettling when worrying about the future and you're not alone. We have many students that seem to project what their lives may be like in the future. The truth is, your feelings are valid because you want a good life. Your worried feelings may be a sign that you really may not have the necessary interest or passion for your career thoughts of business, hospitality or marketing and advertising. The good part is, that you do not have to decide on this right now.
Can you imagine how it would be if we all had anxious feelings about how our lives would be five years from now ? We'd get nothing done. These feelings often times can act as a barrier in moving forward. This may be the perfect time for you to come to terms with this because other things in life that we plan or want besides a career have to go through a process that leads us to the result. There will be more than college, classes and careers to make decisions about, so now it's good to take time to explore how you generally want your life to be. It's okay to explore more and even test the waters by doing volunteer work, auditing some college classes and researching the opportunities in your town of Mountain City. How do your career plans coincide with your community ?
If you get your degree in Business, I think it would be relevant to hospitality or marketing and advertising. So you can cover those with majoring in Business. You have to do what you really love because you'll spend a third of your day doing it and it should be your own personal choice. You will be pleasantly surprised when you live in the present moment and forget about the worry of the future. Let things happen for you.
Your inquiry seems like you almost expect to drop out or not succeed in your chosen career interest. How did those feelings get there ? Are you comparing yourself with other people ? Do you not like school very much ? Is it plain old fashioned insecurity ? Because you're not burned out right now, your asking for advice for the future which no one can see and no one knows what your circumstances will be either. So in order to gain a more positive, productive outlook, you can start doing volunteer work and building a resume. Join groups at school connected to business, video and even theatre because you can volunteer to do advertising campaigns for their shows. If you see yourself DOING, you won't have time to feel anxious or worried. Overthinking things can also create barriers that prevent moving forward.
So you're just fine and deserving of a lot of credit for your ability to recognize your career interests. Now is the time to do something about it and be involved. You can also ask more specific questions about the career, your present circumstances and anything else you've been wondering about. Be around positive, understanding and supportive people. You can do this !
Best wishes to you in all you do !
Thanks for reaching out for advice because it's very unsettling when worrying about the future and you're not alone. We have many students that seem to project what their lives may be like in the future. The truth is, your feelings are valid because you want a good life. Your worried feelings may be a sign that you really may not have the necessary interest or passion for your career thoughts of business, hospitality or marketing and advertising. The good part is, that you do not have to decide on this right now.
Can you imagine how it would be if we all had anxious feelings about how our lives would be five years from now ? We'd get nothing done. These feelings often times can act as a barrier in moving forward. This may be the perfect time for you to come to terms with this because other things in life that we plan or want besides a career have to go through a process that leads us to the result. There will be more than college, classes and careers to make decisions about, so now it's good to take time to explore how you generally want your life to be. It's okay to explore more and even test the waters by doing volunteer work, auditing some college classes and researching the opportunities in your town of Mountain City. How do your career plans coincide with your community ?
If you get your degree in Business, I think it would be relevant to hospitality or marketing and advertising. So you can cover those with majoring in Business. You have to do what you really love because you'll spend a third of your day doing it and it should be your own personal choice. You will be pleasantly surprised when you live in the present moment and forget about the worry of the future. Let things happen for you.
Your inquiry seems like you almost expect to drop out or not succeed in your chosen career interest. How did those feelings get there ? Are you comparing yourself with other people ? Do you not like school very much ? Is it plain old fashioned insecurity ? Because you're not burned out right now, your asking for advice for the future which no one can see and no one knows what your circumstances will be either. So in order to gain a more positive, productive outlook, you can start doing volunteer work and building a resume. Join groups at school connected to business, video and even theatre because you can volunteer to do advertising campaigns for their shows. If you see yourself DOING, you won't have time to feel anxious or worried. Overthinking things can also create barriers that prevent moving forward.
So you're just fine and deserving of a lot of credit for your ability to recognize your career interests. Now is the time to do something about it and be involved. You can also ask more specific questions about the career, your present circumstances and anything else you've been wondering about. Be around positive, understanding and supportive people. You can do this !
Best wishes to you in all you do !
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Michelle, this is fantastic advice! You’ve got Alyrah on the right track, turning worry into action with some great ideas—volunteer work, testing the waters, and staying present. I love how you remind us that the future doesn’t need to be figured out right now. Plus, who has time to stress when there are cool projects to dive into? You've got this, Alyrah! Keep exploring, and the path will unfold.
Dr H
Chinyere Okafor
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Hey Alyrah,
I totally get where you're coming from. The journey through college can feel daunting, and it's understandable to worry about feeling stuck or unsure about the future. Here are some ways to stay on track and keep your motivation alive:
1. Set Clear Goals: Having specific, achievable goals can give you direction and purpose. Break down your long-term goals into smaller, manageable steps to keep you focused and motivated.
2. Stay Connected: Surround yourself with supportive friends, mentors, and professors. Building a strong support system can help you stay engaged and provide valuable guidance when you need it.
3. Explore Opportunities: Get involved in extracurricular activities, internships, or part-time jobs related to your field of study. This hands-on experience can reinforce your passion and show you the practical applications of your degree.
4. Balance is Key: It's important to maintain a healthy work-life balance. Make time for hobbies, relaxation, and self-care to prevent burnout. Remember, taking care of your mental and physical well-being is crucial for long-term success.
5. Stay Open-Minded: Be open to exploring different career paths and opportunities that align with your interests and skills. Sometimes, what you enjoy and what you're good at might evolve over time.
6. Continuous Learning: Keep learning and growing. Even after you get your degree, continue to seek knowledge and improve your skills. Lifelong learning can open new doors and keep your career exciting and fulfilling.
7. Seek Guidance: If you ever feel overwhelmed or unsure, don't hesitate to seek advice from academic advisors or career counselors. They can provide valuable insights and help you navigate your options.
Remember, it's perfectly normal to have doubts and uncertainties along the way. Trust in your abilities and passion, and take proactive steps to create a fulfilling and rewarding career path.
You've got this!
Best wishes!
I totally get where you're coming from. The journey through college can feel daunting, and it's understandable to worry about feeling stuck or unsure about the future. Here are some ways to stay on track and keep your motivation alive:
1. Set Clear Goals: Having specific, achievable goals can give you direction and purpose. Break down your long-term goals into smaller, manageable steps to keep you focused and motivated.
2. Stay Connected: Surround yourself with supportive friends, mentors, and professors. Building a strong support system can help you stay engaged and provide valuable guidance when you need it.
3. Explore Opportunities: Get involved in extracurricular activities, internships, or part-time jobs related to your field of study. This hands-on experience can reinforce your passion and show you the practical applications of your degree.
4. Balance is Key: It's important to maintain a healthy work-life balance. Make time for hobbies, relaxation, and self-care to prevent burnout. Remember, taking care of your mental and physical well-being is crucial for long-term success.
5. Stay Open-Minded: Be open to exploring different career paths and opportunities that align with your interests and skills. Sometimes, what you enjoy and what you're good at might evolve over time.
6. Continuous Learning: Keep learning and growing. Even after you get your degree, continue to seek knowledge and improve your skills. Lifelong learning can open new doors and keep your career exciting and fulfilling.
7. Seek Guidance: If you ever feel overwhelmed or unsure, don't hesitate to seek advice from academic advisors or career counselors. They can provide valuable insights and help you navigate your options.
Remember, it's perfectly normal to have doubts and uncertainties along the way. Trust in your abilities and passion, and take proactive steps to create a fulfilling and rewarding career path.
You've got this!
Best wishes!
Dr H
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Dr’s Answer
Hey Alyrah,
“Am I making the right life choices, or should I just move to the mountains and raise goats?” dilemma. Totally normal. College can feel like a weird, expensive rollercoaster—one minute you're excited about your major, and the next, you’re Googling “high-paying jobs that require zero degrees and zero stress.” But fear not! Here’s how to avoid becoming a college dropout and keep your degree from feeling like a glorified participation trophy.
1. Make Peace with the Fact That Doubt is Your New Roommate
Everyone has those moments where they stare at their textbooks and think, "Is this really my life now?" Doubt is like that one friend who shows up uninvited but eventually leaves when you stop feeding it attention. So, expect it, acknowledge it, and then keep moving forward.
2. Keep a “Why I Started” List
At some point, you thought, “Yes! This is what I want to study!” But stress and deadlines can make you forget that. Write down why you chose your major, what excites you about it, and what future non-broke version of you will thank you for. Then, tape it to your laptop, your wall, or your forehead if necessary.
3. Find the Balance Between "Working Hard" and "Not Losing Your Soul"
Burnout happens when you go too hard without breaks. Imagine trying to run a marathon while chugging espresso—you’ll either pass out or transcend reality. So, schedule breaks, pick up hobbies, and make sure your life isn’t just about assignments and stress. College is also about having ridiculous stories to tell later.
4. Actually Try Out Your Future Career Before You Graduate
Internships, job shadowing, and side projects can help you test the waters before you commit to a lifelong swim. Nothing is worse than getting a degree, starting your first real job, and realizing it’s about as fun as watching paint dry.
5. Remember: Your Degree is a Tool, Not a Life Sentence
Your major isn’t a legally binding contract. Plenty of people pivot into careers that have nothing to do with their degree. Your education is there to open doors, not lock you into a single path forever. It’s like buying a fancy Swiss Army knife—you might use the bottle opener more than the screwdriver, but hey, at least you have options.
6. Befriend People Who Are Just as Confused as You (a.k.a. Everyone)
Spoiler alert: No one really has it all figured out. Befriend classmates, professors, and people in your field. They might help you discover new opportunities or at least confirm that yes, feeling lost is just part of the process.
7. Dropout Fantasies Are Normal—Just Don’t Unenroll on a Whim
Every student has fantasized about dropping out and moving to a beach town to sell coconuts. It’s okay to feel that way. But unless you have a genius-level business idea (or a trust fund), stick with your degree. At the very least, finishing it gives you more choices, not fewer.
So, don’t panic. Keep pushing forward, take breaks, and remember: your degree is a stepping stone, not a cage. And worst case? You can still move to the mountains and raise goats with a degree.
Goood luck kiddo!
“Am I making the right life choices, or should I just move to the mountains and raise goats?” dilemma. Totally normal. College can feel like a weird, expensive rollercoaster—one minute you're excited about your major, and the next, you’re Googling “high-paying jobs that require zero degrees and zero stress.” But fear not! Here’s how to avoid becoming a college dropout and keep your degree from feeling like a glorified participation trophy.
1. Make Peace with the Fact That Doubt is Your New Roommate
Everyone has those moments where they stare at their textbooks and think, "Is this really my life now?" Doubt is like that one friend who shows up uninvited but eventually leaves when you stop feeding it attention. So, expect it, acknowledge it, and then keep moving forward.
2. Keep a “Why I Started” List
At some point, you thought, “Yes! This is what I want to study!” But stress and deadlines can make you forget that. Write down why you chose your major, what excites you about it, and what future non-broke version of you will thank you for. Then, tape it to your laptop, your wall, or your forehead if necessary.
3. Find the Balance Between "Working Hard" and "Not Losing Your Soul"
Burnout happens when you go too hard without breaks. Imagine trying to run a marathon while chugging espresso—you’ll either pass out or transcend reality. So, schedule breaks, pick up hobbies, and make sure your life isn’t just about assignments and stress. College is also about having ridiculous stories to tell later.
4. Actually Try Out Your Future Career Before You Graduate
Internships, job shadowing, and side projects can help you test the waters before you commit to a lifelong swim. Nothing is worse than getting a degree, starting your first real job, and realizing it’s about as fun as watching paint dry.
5. Remember: Your Degree is a Tool, Not a Life Sentence
Your major isn’t a legally binding contract. Plenty of people pivot into careers that have nothing to do with their degree. Your education is there to open doors, not lock you into a single path forever. It’s like buying a fancy Swiss Army knife—you might use the bottle opener more than the screwdriver, but hey, at least you have options.
6. Befriend People Who Are Just as Confused as You (a.k.a. Everyone)
Spoiler alert: No one really has it all figured out. Befriend classmates, professors, and people in your field. They might help you discover new opportunities or at least confirm that yes, feeling lost is just part of the process.
7. Dropout Fantasies Are Normal—Just Don’t Unenroll on a Whim
Every student has fantasized about dropping out and moving to a beach town to sell coconuts. It’s okay to feel that way. But unless you have a genius-level business idea (or a trust fund), stick with your degree. At the very least, finishing it gives you more choices, not fewer.
So, don’t panic. Keep pushing forward, take breaks, and remember: your degree is a stepping stone, not a cage. And worst case? You can still move to the mountains and raise goats with a degree.
Goood luck kiddo!
Patrick Meyer
Executive - Data Analytics and AI
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Naperville, Illinois
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Patrick’s Answer
To avoid the feeling of becoming a college dropout or "stuck" with your degree, it is essential to cultivate a clear sense of purpose and stay focused on the long-term benefits of your education. While it's natural to question your path and face moments of doubt, it's important to regularly reflect on why you chose this degree in the first place and how it aligns with your personal values and career aspirations. Take the time to explore opportunities within your field, whether through internships, networking, or shadowing professionals. This will not only deepen your understanding of the subject but also remind you of the real-world impact and potential of the degree you are pursuing. If you find yourself losing motivation, consider discussing your concerns with a mentor or academic advisor who can provide guidance and help you stay on track. These conversations often reveal options for career flexibility, allowing you to explore a variety of career paths within your chosen field.
Preventing burnout requires a balanced approach to both your academics and personal well-being. It’s crucial to develop effective time-management skills, allowing for study breaks, extracurricular activities, and self-care routines. Consider setting short-term, achievable goals to maintain momentum and prevent feelings of overwhelm. Acknowledging and celebrating small victories throughout your academic journey can foster a sense of accomplishment and resilience. Additionally, engage with your peers to create a support network, where you can share experiences, encourage each other, and offer insights into navigating challenges together. Staying connected to your passions and maintaining a healthy work-life balance will help you avoid burnout and preserve the enthusiasm that initially led you to pursue this degree.
Preventing burnout requires a balanced approach to both your academics and personal well-being. It’s crucial to develop effective time-management skills, allowing for study breaks, extracurricular activities, and self-care routines. Consider setting short-term, achievable goals to maintain momentum and prevent feelings of overwhelm. Acknowledging and celebrating small victories throughout your academic journey can foster a sense of accomplishment and resilience. Additionally, engage with your peers to create a support network, where you can share experiences, encourage each other, and offer insights into navigating challenges together. Staying connected to your passions and maintaining a healthy work-life balance will help you avoid burnout and preserve the enthusiasm that initially led you to pursue this degree.
Shanti Lall
Director of software training teams
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Indianapolis, Indiana
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Shanti’s Answer
I want to +1 the things already pointed out.
Your feelings and worries are valid. This feels like an irreversible commitment to a future. The good thing is, it's not. Not only can you change your degree but, even after you graduate, you can change your career!
You definitely don't want to waste money so, if you're in a "flunking out" situation, get help ASAP from your advisor and maybe pause your education until you can figure out a way through.
Now, with that said, going to college is 50% about the degree you walk out with and 50% about gaining life skills and learning about yourself (especially if you're living away from home). You're still learning what you need to do to motivate yourself when it's all up to you! You're still learning what foods to eat when and how much caffeine you actually can consume to accomplish that late night project! You're still learning whether you get all A's or not.
Your feelings and worries are valid. This feels like an irreversible commitment to a future. The good thing is, it's not. Not only can you change your degree but, even after you graduate, you can change your career!
You definitely don't want to waste money so, if you're in a "flunking out" situation, get help ASAP from your advisor and maybe pause your education until you can figure out a way through.
Now, with that said, going to college is 50% about the degree you walk out with and 50% about gaining life skills and learning about yourself (especially if you're living away from home). You're still learning what you need to do to motivate yourself when it's all up to you! You're still learning what foods to eat when and how much caffeine you actually can consume to accomplish that late night project! You're still learning whether you get all A's or not.
Rebecca Tang
Banking
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Hong Kong
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. I am sorry to hear that you feel burn out.
Below are my suggestions:
1. Take a break: make sure you have enough sleep and eat and do something you like
2. Consider the major you are taking is something you like. If not, consider what careers you would like to do in the future
3. Alternatively, you can explore any internship you have interest.
4. You can also consider to have an working holidays abroad
For 3 & 4, you may need to apply a gap year in the college
You can take some time to think about what you want to do in the future before deciding to leave the college
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Below are my suggestions:
1. Take a break: make sure you have enough sleep and eat and do something you like
2. Consider the major you are taking is something you like. If not, consider what careers you would like to do in the future
3. Alternatively, you can explore any internship you have interest.
4. You can also consider to have an working holidays abroad
For 3 & 4, you may need to apply a gap year in the college
You can take some time to think about what you want to do in the future before deciding to leave the college
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Mars Smith
Facilitated Enrollment Representative Marketplace Sales
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Mars’s Answer
This is a really valid concern, and you’re not alone in feeling this way. Many people worry about whether their degree will truly lead to a fulfilling career or if they’ll feel stuck once they graduate. Here are some things to consider and steps you can take to prevent burnout and regret:
1. Define Your End Goal Beyond the Degree
Liking what you study is a great start, but it helps to ask yourself: What do I want to do with this degree?
Do you see yourself using it in a specific job or industry?
Are there multiple career paths that interest you?
Do you have a backup plan if your first career choice doesn’t work out?
Having a clear sense of direction can prevent that feeling of aimlessness later on.
2. Get Real-World Experience Early
Degrees are valuable, but experience can help you feel more confident in your path.
Try to:
Get an internship, part-time job, or volunteer in your field while studying.
Network with professionals in the industry—talk to people about their jobs, challenges, and opportunities.
Join relevant clubs or organizations to build connections and skills.
3. Keep an Open Mind About Career Options
Your degree doesn’t lock you into just one job. Many fields value skills like critical thinking, communication, and problem-solving, which you can develop regardless of your major. If you start to feel stuck, explore different applications of your skills.
4. Balance Education with Practical Learning
Burnout often happens when you’re only focused on academics without any real-world application.
Try to:
Work on side projects related to your degree.
Learn outside the classroom through online courses, certifications, or self-taught skills.
Stay curious and challenge yourself with small, enjoyable learning experiences.
5. Remember That a Degree is a Tool, Not a Life Sentence
Your degree is meant to support your goals, not define them. If at any point you feel like you’re forcing yourself to follow a path that doesn’t fit, it’s okay to pivot. Many people switch careers or industries later in life and still find success.
6. Don’t Let Fear Make Your Decision for You
It’s easy to think, What if I waste my time? But ask yourself: What if I gain valuable skills, knowledge, and connections that open doors I can’t even see right now? A degree won’t necessarily trap you, but fear of making the "wrong" choice might.
Would you like help researching careers related to your degree interest or finding ways to gain experience while studying?
1. Define Your End Goal Beyond the Degree
Liking what you study is a great start, but it helps to ask yourself: What do I want to do with this degree?
Do you see yourself using it in a specific job or industry?
Are there multiple career paths that interest you?
Do you have a backup plan if your first career choice doesn’t work out?
Having a clear sense of direction can prevent that feeling of aimlessness later on.
2. Get Real-World Experience Early
Degrees are valuable, but experience can help you feel more confident in your path.
Try to:
Get an internship, part-time job, or volunteer in your field while studying.
Network with professionals in the industry—talk to people about their jobs, challenges, and opportunities.
Join relevant clubs or organizations to build connections and skills.
3. Keep an Open Mind About Career Options
Your degree doesn’t lock you into just one job. Many fields value skills like critical thinking, communication, and problem-solving, which you can develop regardless of your major. If you start to feel stuck, explore different applications of your skills.
4. Balance Education with Practical Learning
Burnout often happens when you’re only focused on academics without any real-world application.
Try to:
Work on side projects related to your degree.
Learn outside the classroom through online courses, certifications, or self-taught skills.
Stay curious and challenge yourself with small, enjoyable learning experiences.
5. Remember That a Degree is a Tool, Not a Life Sentence
Your degree is meant to support your goals, not define them. If at any point you feel like you’re forcing yourself to follow a path that doesn’t fit, it’s okay to pivot. Many people switch careers or industries later in life and still find success.
6. Don’t Let Fear Make Your Decision for You
It’s easy to think, What if I waste my time? But ask yourself: What if I gain valuable skills, knowledge, and connections that open doors I can’t even see right now? A degree won’t necessarily trap you, but fear of making the "wrong" choice might.
Would you like help researching careers related to your degree interest or finding ways to gain experience while studying?