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Nicole
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Feeling lost and stuck. How do you decide what career path to take when you have no experience?
Hello, I’m 23 years old. I am about to graduate next year with Bachelor’s in Business Admin with an HR concentration. I am a fully remote student and feel this has hindered me in a lot of ways such as networking etc. I picked my major mostly because I wanted to help others and I had aspirations of being a social worker or counselor but they require a masters/license. Being that I was pushed back from graduating 2 years due to surgery and other things, I felt pressured to just pick something and graduate. I am doubting my major. It’s not that I don’t have interest in HR but feel completely disconnected due to lack of experience. I also am more introverted/shy and the thought of new hire orientation/recruiting sounds dreadful to me. Everything just feels off to me. The only other things I can switch my major to would be accounting or marketing and not push me back further. I’ve learned you can get into HR without a major and most people just sort of land into HR. Which I didn’t know prior to picking my major. As well as that, there are absolutely no entry level jobs for HR. It’s super upsetting. I have been attempting to get an Internship with no such luck. They are few and far in between. I’ve made it to final rounds but have been rejected. What I really want to do is be a counselor, social worker or nurse/mri tech etc. I would love to work in something medical/helping others. Nursing would set me back 3 years since it’s a totally different path. Rad tech etc are two year programs with pre reqs. I just don’t want to waste my college credits and hard work but I feel very confused at this point. For instance I have about 116 credits, as I changed my major once before and took courses I didn’t need. I will graduate with 146 credit hours. I will graduate at 24, before I turn 25 and I feel old and have absolutely no experience besides retail/fast food jobs. I was supposed to graduate in 2024, so it is upsetting seeing peers graduate. I want to graduate and gain experience and maybe potentially go back to school one day once I actually experience the world. I need a break from school and can’t imagine pushing myself back or enrolling in another program once I graduate. I’m just scared and unsure of my future. I don’t know how to stand out or what my next move should be. I don’t know if I should continue with this Business Admin degree with a concentration in HR, but I fear it is what I mostly align with other than Nursing and such. I don’t even feel confident in saying this is my major because I lost all passion/motivation due to rejects of internships. Being an online student, I also know no one else who went to college. All of my friends are mostly in trades. Do you have advice? I’m feeling lost and struggling a lot.
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Michelle M.
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Hi, Nicole !
You are very clearly in tune with what you want and what you feel about the path you have taken so far. I have some advice that hopefully will shine some light on things so you can see that no time on your part has been for naught.
One thing that you have made clear is that you are "not really into" the online college path. That's perfectly okay. You are being true to yourself and that is important. My advice is simple. Keep and finish your Bachelors path for Business. Just Business, drop the Human Resources part. HR is not very understood unless you have experience around it. It also depends on the company. You don't "help people", you basically are there to help the company. Once in a while you will talk with staff, but a lot of times it's in a conflict resolution capacity. There are also actual trainings and presentations you'd be expected to do. So besides knowing everything there is to know about the company, the insurance and pension plans, etc., it is a lot more than "helping people": and many times it's just helping with information or solving issues. So, it's okay to just go for the Bachelors in Business which is broad enough to fit to many careers.
Don't make any plans until you receive your Bachelors Degree. See how you feel at that time - something incredibly wonderful may present itself to you. Focus on your studies for your Bachelors Degree and finishing it for right now.
After you obtain your Bachelors Degree, whatever you choose to do, make sure you attend in person and not online. All paths for all careers are better done in person, on site where people will know who you are. You also get the inside information about opportunities that just seem to pop up which doesn't happen online. Do not worry about having a Bachelors in Business. It is a great degree and can match up with practically any other subject that you may do after you get the Bachelors. You're going to be fine. Just go to an in-person, on site experience for the next thing you enroll for.
As a professional actress myself, I can tell you that you will build up a way to not let the rejections affect you and not take it personally. Every effort you put in is a learning experience. Do not let it have power over you as you are stronger than that because you can go on to the next opportunity. We learn through this. And realize that there are probably a thousand reasons why we were not chosen, but more people have to meet us and we should never give up.
Last, but totally not least, don't worry or overthink the future. Your future is going to unfold naturally, with you making careful choices and only doing things when you are ready and for a good and beneficial purpose. You can do it. Never give up and you will see that things will fall into place for you ! Best wishes in all you do !
You are very clearly in tune with what you want and what you feel about the path you have taken so far. I have some advice that hopefully will shine some light on things so you can see that no time on your part has been for naught.
One thing that you have made clear is that you are "not really into" the online college path. That's perfectly okay. You are being true to yourself and that is important. My advice is simple. Keep and finish your Bachelors path for Business. Just Business, drop the Human Resources part. HR is not very understood unless you have experience around it. It also depends on the company. You don't "help people", you basically are there to help the company. Once in a while you will talk with staff, but a lot of times it's in a conflict resolution capacity. There are also actual trainings and presentations you'd be expected to do. So besides knowing everything there is to know about the company, the insurance and pension plans, etc., it is a lot more than "helping people": and many times it's just helping with information or solving issues. So, it's okay to just go for the Bachelors in Business which is broad enough to fit to many careers.
Don't make any plans until you receive your Bachelors Degree. See how you feel at that time - something incredibly wonderful may present itself to you. Focus on your studies for your Bachelors Degree and finishing it for right now.
After you obtain your Bachelors Degree, whatever you choose to do, make sure you attend in person and not online. All paths for all careers are better done in person, on site where people will know who you are. You also get the inside information about opportunities that just seem to pop up which doesn't happen online. Do not worry about having a Bachelors in Business. It is a great degree and can match up with practically any other subject that you may do after you get the Bachelors. You're going to be fine. Just go to an in-person, on site experience for the next thing you enroll for.
As a professional actress myself, I can tell you that you will build up a way to not let the rejections affect you and not take it personally. Every effort you put in is a learning experience. Do not let it have power over you as you are stronger than that because you can go on to the next opportunity. We learn through this. And realize that there are probably a thousand reasons why we were not chosen, but more people have to meet us and we should never give up.
Last, but totally not least, don't worry or overthink the future. Your future is going to unfold naturally, with you making careful choices and only doing things when you are ready and for a good and beneficial purpose. You can do it. Never give up and you will see that things will fall into place for you ! Best wishes in all you do !
Yashasvi Raikwar
Project Manager Intern
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Yashasvi’s Answer
Hi Nicole! First of all, I want to say kudos for being so reflective about your future!🤝 This can be a super confusing time, even for people who seem like they have it all figured out. Trust me—most people don’t. Career paths are rarely straightforward, and detours often lead to unexpected but fulfilling opportunities.
I hear your frustration about feeling disconnected from your major, especially with being a remote student and struggling to land internships. The truth is, HR—like many fields—isn’t just about recruiting and new hire orientations. There are different aspects within HR, like employee relations, benefits management, and organizational development, that might align more with your interests. But if you’re feeling strongly that HR isn’t for you, that’s okay too. The good news is that your degree in Business Admin doesn’t limit you to just HR. It can open doors to various roles, including operations, people management, healthcare administration, or even roles in nonprofits or social work-related fields without requiring an immediate master’s degree. Plus, your retail and fast food experience is more valuable than you think. You’ve built skills in communication, problem-solving, adaptability, and customer service—skills that employers across all industries look for. Highlight these on your resume and LinkedIn to showcase your potential.
I know rejections and setbacks can drain your motivation, but they don’t define your worth. Every single successful person has faced obstacles, changed directions, and doubted themselves at some point. You’re not behind—you’re on your own unique path. And I promise, your experiences and struggles are shaping you into someone who will bring depth, resilience, and real-world perspective to whatever you choose.
Also, don’t stress about networking. It doesn’t have to mean attending big, intimidating events. A simple LinkedIn message, a coffee chat with a professional in a field you’re curious about, or joining an online community can open doors. And if you need a break from school, that’s completely valid. Stepping into the workforce will give you clarity, confidence, and a better understanding of what you want long-term.
You’re not lost—you’re in the process of figuring things out, just like everyone else. Keep taking small steps, trust that clarity will come, and most importantly, be kind to yourself. You’ve already come so far, and I truly believe you’ll find your way. You got this! 🚀✨
I hear your frustration about feeling disconnected from your major, especially with being a remote student and struggling to land internships. The truth is, HR—like many fields—isn’t just about recruiting and new hire orientations. There are different aspects within HR, like employee relations, benefits management, and organizational development, that might align more with your interests. But if you’re feeling strongly that HR isn’t for you, that’s okay too. The good news is that your degree in Business Admin doesn’t limit you to just HR. It can open doors to various roles, including operations, people management, healthcare administration, or even roles in nonprofits or social work-related fields without requiring an immediate master’s degree. Plus, your retail and fast food experience is more valuable than you think. You’ve built skills in communication, problem-solving, adaptability, and customer service—skills that employers across all industries look for. Highlight these on your resume and LinkedIn to showcase your potential.
I know rejections and setbacks can drain your motivation, but they don’t define your worth. Every single successful person has faced obstacles, changed directions, and doubted themselves at some point. You’re not behind—you’re on your own unique path. And I promise, your experiences and struggles are shaping you into someone who will bring depth, resilience, and real-world perspective to whatever you choose.
Also, don’t stress about networking. It doesn’t have to mean attending big, intimidating events. A simple LinkedIn message, a coffee chat with a professional in a field you’re curious about, or joining an online community can open doors. And if you need a break from school, that’s completely valid. Stepping into the workforce will give you clarity, confidence, and a better understanding of what you want long-term.
You’re not lost—you’re in the process of figuring things out, just like everyone else. Keep taking small steps, trust that clarity will come, and most importantly, be kind to yourself. You’ve already come so far, and I truly believe you’ll find your way. You got this! 🚀✨
Thank you so much for your kind words❤️ I feel like I’m overwhelming myself by comparing myself to others and feeling nervous about what the future holds. I really really appreciate it.
Nicole
You're so welcome, Nicole! ❤️ Don't be too hard on yourself—you're doing better than you think. Take it step-by-step, and clarity will come. I'm rooting for you—stay strong, you got this! ✨
Yashasvi Raikwar
Dr H
Dr. H's Research
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Dr’s Answer
Hey Nicole, I totally get how overwhelming and uncertain things can feel right now. First off, know that you’re not alone in feeling this way—many graduates, especially remote ones, face similar challenges when it comes to networking and finding their path. It sounds like you have a strong desire to help others, and that’s an amazing quality you can bring to any field.😌
Your Business Admin degree with an HR concentration isn’t a dead end; in fact, it’s incredibly versatile.🙌 HR itself can be a gateway into helping people—whether that’s by building a positive workplace culture, supporting employee growth, or even getting into specialized roles like employee training or benefits management. It’s true that many people enter HR from different backgrounds, so you’re already in a field that welcomes diverse experiences.
That said, your heart is clearly leaning toward careers that have a more direct impact on people’s lives, like counseling, social work, or even healthcare roles. It’s completely valid to feel torn when your passions don’t neatly align with your major. Here are a few thoughts that might help you chart your next steps:
1. Recognize Your Transferable Skills:
Even if you haven’t landed that dream internship yet, your retail and fast-food experience isn’t “nothing” at all. Those jobs teach you customer service, time management, and communication skills—all of which are super valuable in HR and any people-focused role.
2. Embrace the Possibility of a Pivot:
Remember, your degree doesn’t lock you into one career forever. Many people shift fields later on. You could graduate with your current degree, gain some work experience in HR or business, and then decide if you want to pursue further studies or certifications in counseling, social work, or even healthcare. It’s about taking manageable steps without feeling pressured to have it all figured out right away.
3. Leverage Online & Local Networking:
Being an online student can make networking tougher, but there are plenty of ways to connect. Consider:
Joining professional groups on LinkedIn or industry-specific forums.
Attending local career events or meetups if possible.
Reaching out to alumni from your program who might share advice or job leads.
Even informational interviews can be a great way to learn more about fields you’re interested in without the pressure of an actual interview.
4. Explore Hybrid Opportunities:
Since you’re passionate about helping others, you might look for roles that blend business and human services. For example, some organizations focus on employee wellness, corporate social responsibility, or community outreach programs. These roles can let you utilize your business skills while aligning with your passion for making a positive impact.
5. Consider a Break and Real-World Exploration:
It’s completely okay to graduate and then take some time to explore different roles. Sometimes, working in an entry-level position—even if it isn’t your dream job—can provide clarity about what you really want. That break from academia might also give you the chance to build confidence and discover unexpected interests.
6. Remember, Rejections Are Part of the Journey:
Internship rejections can feel disheartening, but each “no” is a learning opportunity that gets you closer to the right fit. It might help to ask for feedback when possible, or simply reflect on what you’ve learned from each experience. Persistence really does pay off.
Nicole, your journey is unique, and it’s completely normal to feel lost at times. Trust that your experiences—both academic and personal—are building a foundation for your future. You don’t need to have everything figured out now; sometimes the best moves are the ones that let you gain experience, learn, and then pivot when you’re ready.
Keep your passion for helping others at the core of your decisions, and don’t be too hard on yourself. Every career path is a series of experiments and discoveries, and your willingness to explore different avenues is a huge strength. You’ve got this, and your future is bright! I believe in you! 😉🤗
Your Business Admin degree with an HR concentration isn’t a dead end; in fact, it’s incredibly versatile.🙌 HR itself can be a gateway into helping people—whether that’s by building a positive workplace culture, supporting employee growth, or even getting into specialized roles like employee training or benefits management. It’s true that many people enter HR from different backgrounds, so you’re already in a field that welcomes diverse experiences.
That said, your heart is clearly leaning toward careers that have a more direct impact on people’s lives, like counseling, social work, or even healthcare roles. It’s completely valid to feel torn when your passions don’t neatly align with your major. Here are a few thoughts that might help you chart your next steps:
1. Recognize Your Transferable Skills:
Even if you haven’t landed that dream internship yet, your retail and fast-food experience isn’t “nothing” at all. Those jobs teach you customer service, time management, and communication skills—all of which are super valuable in HR and any people-focused role.
2. Embrace the Possibility of a Pivot:
Remember, your degree doesn’t lock you into one career forever. Many people shift fields later on. You could graduate with your current degree, gain some work experience in HR or business, and then decide if you want to pursue further studies or certifications in counseling, social work, or even healthcare. It’s about taking manageable steps without feeling pressured to have it all figured out right away.
3. Leverage Online & Local Networking:
Being an online student can make networking tougher, but there are plenty of ways to connect. Consider:
Joining professional groups on LinkedIn or industry-specific forums.
Attending local career events or meetups if possible.
Reaching out to alumni from your program who might share advice or job leads.
Even informational interviews can be a great way to learn more about fields you’re interested in without the pressure of an actual interview.
4. Explore Hybrid Opportunities:
Since you’re passionate about helping others, you might look for roles that blend business and human services. For example, some organizations focus on employee wellness, corporate social responsibility, or community outreach programs. These roles can let you utilize your business skills while aligning with your passion for making a positive impact.
5. Consider a Break and Real-World Exploration:
It’s completely okay to graduate and then take some time to explore different roles. Sometimes, working in an entry-level position—even if it isn’t your dream job—can provide clarity about what you really want. That break from academia might also give you the chance to build confidence and discover unexpected interests.
6. Remember, Rejections Are Part of the Journey:
Internship rejections can feel disheartening, but each “no” is a learning opportunity that gets you closer to the right fit. It might help to ask for feedback when possible, or simply reflect on what you’ve learned from each experience. Persistence really does pay off.
Nicole, your journey is unique, and it’s completely normal to feel lost at times. Trust that your experiences—both academic and personal—are building a foundation for your future. You don’t need to have everything figured out now; sometimes the best moves are the ones that let you gain experience, learn, and then pivot when you’re ready.
Keep your passion for helping others at the core of your decisions, and don’t be too hard on yourself. Every career path is a series of experiments and discoveries, and your willingness to explore different avenues is a huge strength. You’ve got this, and your future is bright! I believe in you! 😉🤗
Hunter Sutton
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Hunter’s Answer
This is a question that you’ll need to reflect on deeply. The sooner you embark on your journey to your goal, the better. Consider this: if a plane flies one degree off course from JFK in New York to LAX in Los Angeles, it ends up 40 miles off course in the Pacific Ocean.
**Explanation:**
For every degree that a plane is off course, it misses its landing spot by 92 feet for every mile it travels. Small adjustments can lead to big differences over a long journey. LAX is 2,446.017 miles away from JFK. Now, apply this metaphor to your life. You have a goal; every decision you make is either keeping you on track or moving you away from it. Life is truly about perspective. If you stay with me, you’ll grasp the power of this perspective.
Imagine you receive $1 for every second you count to a million. You would become a millionaire, but there’s a catch: you must count at the same speed as a world clock, without sleeping or eating—just counting: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and so forth. How long do you think it would take to reach a million dollars? The answer is 11 straight days.
Now, think of counting to a billion under the same conditions. How many days, weeks, months, or years do you think that would take? The answer is thirty-one and a half years!
Through this, you begin to understand the importance of perspective in measuring time and value.
Now, consider what you want to accomplish with your work and life: every decision has a consequence. This isn’t necessarily negative; it simply reflects the outcomes of your choices. You may find yourself off track for a few years or propelled forward. We must strive to surround ourselves with the right people, guiding us toward their paths or following you as a leader.
Do you want to be a product of your environment, or do you want your environment to be shaped by you? This is a profound question. Do you prefer less responsibility—simply clocking in and out—or do you want to embrace greater challenges by engaging with clients and forging your own path?
You are defined by the person you choose to be, influenced by the choices you make and how you learn—whether from your experiences or from others. The world may feel small, yet it’s expanding continuously. So, what kind of person do you aspire to be as you spend your $1 each second?
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i like to say this to myself, 'if my mind is lets just say not broken but not complete, i cant use what's broken to fix something that's broken' have the right people in your life
**Explanation:**
For every degree that a plane is off course, it misses its landing spot by 92 feet for every mile it travels. Small adjustments can lead to big differences over a long journey. LAX is 2,446.017 miles away from JFK. Now, apply this metaphor to your life. You have a goal; every decision you make is either keeping you on track or moving you away from it. Life is truly about perspective. If you stay with me, you’ll grasp the power of this perspective.
Imagine you receive $1 for every second you count to a million. You would become a millionaire, but there’s a catch: you must count at the same speed as a world clock, without sleeping or eating—just counting: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and so forth. How long do you think it would take to reach a million dollars? The answer is 11 straight days.
Now, think of counting to a billion under the same conditions. How many days, weeks, months, or years do you think that would take? The answer is thirty-one and a half years!
Through this, you begin to understand the importance of perspective in measuring time and value.
Now, consider what you want to accomplish with your work and life: every decision has a consequence. This isn’t necessarily negative; it simply reflects the outcomes of your choices. You may find yourself off track for a few years or propelled forward. We must strive to surround ourselves with the right people, guiding us toward their paths or following you as a leader.
Do you want to be a product of your environment, or do you want your environment to be shaped by you? This is a profound question. Do you prefer less responsibility—simply clocking in and out—or do you want to embrace greater challenges by engaging with clients and forging your own path?
You are defined by the person you choose to be, influenced by the choices you make and how you learn—whether from your experiences or from others. The world may feel small, yet it’s expanding continuously. So, what kind of person do you aspire to be as you spend your $1 each second?
Hunter recommends the following next steps:
eva svani
medical
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Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
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eva’s Answer
Here’s my advice for you:
I can sense that you’re feeling lost and frustrated, but what stands out most is that you’re holding yourself back with excuses and self-doubt. You’re focusing too much on why you can’t do something instead of how you can. Yes, life has been unfair, and you’ve faced setbacks, but setbacks don’t define you; how you respond to them does.
First, stop comparing yourself to others. Age means nothing when it comes to success. Colonel Sanders started KFC at 65. Vera Wang became a designer at 40. Success has no timeline. Graduating at 24 or 25 doesn’t make you behind—it makes you someone who finished despite the challenges.
Second, sit down and write what you truly want. Forget what’s “practical” or “quick.” If your heart is in counseling, social work, or healthcare, then make a plan to get there. Your business degree with an HR concentration isn’t a waste, it can be a stepping stone. For example, you could work in HR at a hospital, get experience in the healthcare field, and transition later.
As for being introverted, that’s not a reason to hide, it’s a strength. Many successful leaders are introverts. They succeed not by being the loudest but by being the most thoughtful and strategic. You don’t need to change who you are. You just need to put yourself out there in ways that work for you. Start small: join LinkedIn groups, reach out to alumni for advice, or even volunteer somewhere that inspires you.
You say there are no HR entry-level jobs; well, create opportunities. Use your retail and fast-food experience to show you have customer service, problem-solving, and teamwork skills. Tailor your resume, and keep applying. Also, internships aren’t the only way to break in; volunteering, temp jobs, or part-time roles can get your foot in the door.
Lastly, remember this: winners find ways, losers find excuses. Stop telling yourself why you can’t do something and start asking, How can I? You’re not too old, you’re not too late, and you’re not stuck, you’re just scared. And that’s okay. But don’t let fear decide your future. Stand up, face the uncertainty, and take action. The world rewards people who move forward, not people who stand still.
You’ve got this. Now go make it happen.
I can sense that you’re feeling lost and frustrated, but what stands out most is that you’re holding yourself back with excuses and self-doubt. You’re focusing too much on why you can’t do something instead of how you can. Yes, life has been unfair, and you’ve faced setbacks, but setbacks don’t define you; how you respond to them does.
First, stop comparing yourself to others. Age means nothing when it comes to success. Colonel Sanders started KFC at 65. Vera Wang became a designer at 40. Success has no timeline. Graduating at 24 or 25 doesn’t make you behind—it makes you someone who finished despite the challenges.
Second, sit down and write what you truly want. Forget what’s “practical” or “quick.” If your heart is in counseling, social work, or healthcare, then make a plan to get there. Your business degree with an HR concentration isn’t a waste, it can be a stepping stone. For example, you could work in HR at a hospital, get experience in the healthcare field, and transition later.
As for being introverted, that’s not a reason to hide, it’s a strength. Many successful leaders are introverts. They succeed not by being the loudest but by being the most thoughtful and strategic. You don’t need to change who you are. You just need to put yourself out there in ways that work for you. Start small: join LinkedIn groups, reach out to alumni for advice, or even volunteer somewhere that inspires you.
You say there are no HR entry-level jobs; well, create opportunities. Use your retail and fast-food experience to show you have customer service, problem-solving, and teamwork skills. Tailor your resume, and keep applying. Also, internships aren’t the only way to break in; volunteering, temp jobs, or part-time roles can get your foot in the door.
Lastly, remember this: winners find ways, losers find excuses. Stop telling yourself why you can’t do something and start asking, How can I? You’re not too old, you’re not too late, and you’re not stuck, you’re just scared. And that’s okay. But don’t let fear decide your future. Stand up, face the uncertainty, and take action. The world rewards people who move forward, not people who stand still.
You’ve got this. Now go make it happen.
This was super inspiring, I definitely needed to hear this. I appreciate your comment so much, thank you.
Nicole
Gladys "GG" Siebert
Administrative Assistant
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Newfoundland, Pennsylvania
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Gladys "GG"’s Answer
STOP! You sound like my kids, and one of the two is in your exact same shoes. It sounds like you need to stop and take a step back. You can take 6 months off from school before student loans kick in, keep that in mind. I would suggest that you consider taking that time off and letting you school counselor know. Then venture forth, if you feel that working as a nurse or HR is a goal, picture the perfect place to fulfill that and go there. See if they offer a volunteer program and do that once or twice a week. See what's it like in the real world, you may love it or hate it. A lot of hospitals and larger corporations including state and federal offer to pay off your loans in return for working for them for a certain amount of time. Give your self space and time before you keep getting deeper into the spiral you seem to be in.
You say that you are shy and do not like the idea of new hire orientation sounds dreadful, unfortunately that's part of the package, so I suggest looking into joining toastmasters, they help folks learn to speak in front of others, it will build you confidence as well.
Don't look at becoming an RN will set you back, look at it as it will move you forward into what you want.
We've all been there, unsure and scared of "what we want to be when we grow up" you're not alone. Look at this part of your like as a great adventure and look outside of the box, every company has some sort of HR department, maybe start smaller so you can get some experience then consider moving up. An RN degree is always a great career move if you love it, and remember you don't always have to work in a hospital, there are many other places that have nurses, schools, nursing homes, doctor's offices, etc. The world is your oyster, keep your eyes open, it will come to you. Best of luck!
https://www.toastmasters.org/Find-a-Club/
https://learn.org/articles/companies_that_pay_for_tuition.html
https://collegecliffs.com/us-companies-pay-for-college-education/
https://advicewitherin.com/
You say that you are shy and do not like the idea of new hire orientation sounds dreadful, unfortunately that's part of the package, so I suggest looking into joining toastmasters, they help folks learn to speak in front of others, it will build you confidence as well.
Don't look at becoming an RN will set you back, look at it as it will move you forward into what you want.
We've all been there, unsure and scared of "what we want to be when we grow up" you're not alone. Look at this part of your like as a great adventure and look outside of the box, every company has some sort of HR department, maybe start smaller so you can get some experience then consider moving up. An RN degree is always a great career move if you love it, and remember you don't always have to work in a hospital, there are many other places that have nurses, schools, nursing homes, doctor's offices, etc. The world is your oyster, keep your eyes open, it will come to you. Best of luck!
Gladys "GG" recommends the following next steps:
Jose Cardentey
Registerd Nurse
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Miami, Florida
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Jose’s Answer
You're not alone in feeling lost about your career path—so many people in their early 20s (and beyond) experience this uncertainty. It’s totally normal, especially given everything you’ve been through with your extended graduation timeline, health setbacks, and the challenges of being a remote student.
First: Let’s Take the Pressure Off
It sounds like you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself to figure everything out right now. But here’s the reality—your first job will not define your entire career. You have time to explore, pivot, and change direction, and plenty of people find their true career paths later in life. You’re not behind, even if it feels that way.
Second: You Don’t Have to Start at the “Perfect” Job
It seems like your real passion is in helping others, but you’re unsure of how to get there without restarting your education. That’s okay! Your first job doesn’t have to be your dream job—it just has to be a stepping stone that gets you experience and helps you discover what you enjoy (or don’t enjoy).
Here are some ways to gain experience and test the waters without a massive education change:
HR Jobs That Align with Your Introversion & Desire to Help: If new hire orientation and recruiting sound draining, consider roles in HR analytics, employee relations, or benefits administration. These roles still help people but don’t require as much public speaking or high-energy social interaction.
Bridge the Gap Between HR & Healthcare: Look into HR roles in hospitals or healthcare organizations, such as HR coordinator roles in a medical setting. This can help you get a feel for the medical field without switching degrees yet.
Entry Points That Don’t Require HR Internships: Since HR internships are hard to get, consider admin/assistant roles in HR departments, hospitals, or nonprofit organizations to get your foot in the door.
Volunteer or Part-Time Work in Mental Health/Healthcare: Even if you can’t switch to social work or nursing immediately, you can gain experience by volunteering with crisis helplines, working in hospital administrative roles, or getting a job at a healthcare facility (patient services rep, case manager assistant, or behavioral health technician).
Certifications to Boost Your Resume: You can stand out with certifications like:
SHRM-CP or PHR (HR Certification)
Medical Administrative Assistant Cert (if you want to get into healthcare admin)
Mental Health First Aid (if you're interested in counseling/social work)
Third: You’re Not “Too Old” or “Too Behind”
You feel behind, but most people switch careers multiple times. Plenty of people start new degrees in their late 20s, 30s, or later. Right now, you don’t have to make a life-long decision—just find a job that gives you exposure to the field you might enjoy.
If you still feel drawn to nursing or healthcare, you don’t have to start over now. You can graduate, get work experience, save money, and revisit the idea later. Many nursing/Rad Tech programs accept second-degree students with shortened programs.
Final Steps: What to Do Right Now
Graduate with your Business Admin degree – you’re already so close, and it will be useful.
Apply for entry-level roles (not just HR internships) – look for admin/assistant jobs in HR, hospitals, nonprofits, or government programs.
Volunteer or shadow in medical/social work settings – crisis hotlines, hospital admin, or community organizations can give you experience.
Network online since you were a remote student – LinkedIn, local HR groups, or hospital HR contacts can help.
Don’t panic—your first job is just a stepping stone. You can always pivot later.
First: Let’s Take the Pressure Off
It sounds like you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself to figure everything out right now. But here’s the reality—your first job will not define your entire career. You have time to explore, pivot, and change direction, and plenty of people find their true career paths later in life. You’re not behind, even if it feels that way.
Second: You Don’t Have to Start at the “Perfect” Job
It seems like your real passion is in helping others, but you’re unsure of how to get there without restarting your education. That’s okay! Your first job doesn’t have to be your dream job—it just has to be a stepping stone that gets you experience and helps you discover what you enjoy (or don’t enjoy).
Here are some ways to gain experience and test the waters without a massive education change:
HR Jobs That Align with Your Introversion & Desire to Help: If new hire orientation and recruiting sound draining, consider roles in HR analytics, employee relations, or benefits administration. These roles still help people but don’t require as much public speaking or high-energy social interaction.
Bridge the Gap Between HR & Healthcare: Look into HR roles in hospitals or healthcare organizations, such as HR coordinator roles in a medical setting. This can help you get a feel for the medical field without switching degrees yet.
Entry Points That Don’t Require HR Internships: Since HR internships are hard to get, consider admin/assistant roles in HR departments, hospitals, or nonprofit organizations to get your foot in the door.
Volunteer or Part-Time Work in Mental Health/Healthcare: Even if you can’t switch to social work or nursing immediately, you can gain experience by volunteering with crisis helplines, working in hospital administrative roles, or getting a job at a healthcare facility (patient services rep, case manager assistant, or behavioral health technician).
Certifications to Boost Your Resume: You can stand out with certifications like:
SHRM-CP or PHR (HR Certification)
Medical Administrative Assistant Cert (if you want to get into healthcare admin)
Mental Health First Aid (if you're interested in counseling/social work)
Third: You’re Not “Too Old” or “Too Behind”
You feel behind, but most people switch careers multiple times. Plenty of people start new degrees in their late 20s, 30s, or later. Right now, you don’t have to make a life-long decision—just find a job that gives you exposure to the field you might enjoy.
If you still feel drawn to nursing or healthcare, you don’t have to start over now. You can graduate, get work experience, save money, and revisit the idea later. Many nursing/Rad Tech programs accept second-degree students with shortened programs.
Final Steps: What to Do Right Now
Graduate with your Business Admin degree – you’re already so close, and it will be useful.
Apply for entry-level roles (not just HR internships) – look for admin/assistant jobs in HR, hospitals, nonprofits, or government programs.
Volunteer or shadow in medical/social work settings – crisis hotlines, hospital admin, or community organizations can give you experience.
Network online since you were a remote student – LinkedIn, local HR groups, or hospital HR contacts can help.
Don’t panic—your first job is just a stepping stone. You can always pivot later.
Thank you so much for this!! I also had a question- while I am still interested in the HR field and gaining that experience, I can’t seem to help looking into nursing and such. I’m super interested in it and I keep going back to it. I have done some research for accelerated BSN programs. I was planning to job shadow my friend who is a nurse to see if I would like the field . I noticed you are a registered nurse and I was wondering if you have any insights into accelerated BSN programs for non nursing degree holders?
Nicole
Daniela Velasquez
Assistant Manager
9
Answers
Miami, Florida
Updated
Daniela’s Answer
Hi Nicole,
I understand your perspective. At 28, I’m still on my pre-dental journey, working toward my goal of becoming a dentist. It hasn’t been easy knowing that, at this age, I have yet to start dental school or secure a stable future. Time has not always been on my side, but that doesn’t mean I will let it define my future. We have to fight back—age doesn’t matter. What truly matters is waking up each day with a positive mindset, knowing that every step you take is bringing you closer to the future you’ve envisioned.
As my dad always tells me, “Everything happens when it’s meant to happen.” So, don’t be afraid to pursue nursing if that’s what your heart is calling you to do. Time will eventually become your ally, and years from now, you’ll look back and realize that this moment of doubt was just a temporary challenge. It’s normal to feel uncertain, but the most important thing is to follow your passion. Go for what truly makes you happy.
I understand your perspective. At 28, I’m still on my pre-dental journey, working toward my goal of becoming a dentist. It hasn’t been easy knowing that, at this age, I have yet to start dental school or secure a stable future. Time has not always been on my side, but that doesn’t mean I will let it define my future. We have to fight back—age doesn’t matter. What truly matters is waking up each day with a positive mindset, knowing that every step you take is bringing you closer to the future you’ve envisioned.
As my dad always tells me, “Everything happens when it’s meant to happen.” So, don’t be afraid to pursue nursing if that’s what your heart is calling you to do. Time will eventually become your ally, and years from now, you’ll look back and realize that this moment of doubt was just a temporary challenge. It’s normal to feel uncertain, but the most important thing is to follow your passion. Go for what truly makes you happy.
Thank you so much. I wish you the absolute best with dental school in the future and I’m so proud of you for chasing your dreams ❤️ We are all on our own paths in life and we will reach out destinations at different periods. I am planning to job shadow my friend who is a nurse to see if I would enjoy the field. I found the accelerated BSN program for bachelor degree holders in a non related nursing major. I might end up pursing that after I graduate next year. But for now, I will keep trying to land an internship and gain that initial experience! Best of luck to you, you got this!
Nicole
🫶🏻 Thank you!
Daniela Velasquez
Laura Jackson
Adult Gerontology Nurse Practitioner
3
Answers
Atlanta, Georgia
Updated
Laura’s Answer
Hi Nicole,
Focus on your goals and try not to compare yourself to others. I am a Nurse Practitioner, and did not graduate in four years like some of my classmates. You are on your own timeline, and so young. Give yourself grace, and try to enjoy discovering all that you have to share with the world. Tons of people go back to school for second degree or career pivot in their 30's and 40's.
If your heart is not in Business Admin or HR... you have a few options. (take time out of the equation because more than likely you will end up going back to school for your desired major or career--- with or without your Business Admin degree)
Option 1: complete your current program, and apply for Social Work or LPC program
Option 2: change major only if you are certain of newly selected major ( you do not want to waste money on another program you are not truly passionate about)
Your business admin degree can benefit you as SW or LPC or RN. Many RNs go back to school for that degree. So it will definitely not go to waste.
Rather than looking for HR internship (if not required by your program), you can start with other administrative jobs--- office assistant, HR assistant, office manager, administrative assistant. There are tons of remote positions available as well, look into finding a recruiter to assist you with your job search.
I will tell you, if you enjoy helping people---- HR is often employed to protect the company and not their staff. You have more flexibility with your business admin degree so do not limit yourself to HR opportunities only.
Lastly, consider getting guidance from mentor on building your resume and interview skills. Remember what feels like rejection is just redirection.
Good luck, you got this :)
Focus on your goals and try not to compare yourself to others. I am a Nurse Practitioner, and did not graduate in four years like some of my classmates. You are on your own timeline, and so young. Give yourself grace, and try to enjoy discovering all that you have to share with the world. Tons of people go back to school for second degree or career pivot in their 30's and 40's.
If your heart is not in Business Admin or HR... you have a few options. (take time out of the equation because more than likely you will end up going back to school for your desired major or career--- with or without your Business Admin degree)
Option 1: complete your current program, and apply for Social Work or LPC program
Option 2: change major only if you are certain of newly selected major ( you do not want to waste money on another program you are not truly passionate about)
Your business admin degree can benefit you as SW or LPC or RN. Many RNs go back to school for that degree. So it will definitely not go to waste.
Rather than looking for HR internship (if not required by your program), you can start with other administrative jobs--- office assistant, HR assistant, office manager, administrative assistant. There are tons of remote positions available as well, look into finding a recruiter to assist you with your job search.
I will tell you, if you enjoy helping people---- HR is often employed to protect the company and not their staff. You have more flexibility with your business admin degree so do not limit yourself to HR opportunities only.
Lastly, consider getting guidance from mentor on building your resume and interview skills. Remember what feels like rejection is just redirection.
Good luck, you got this :)
Patrick Meyer
Executive - Data Analytics and AI
938
Answers
Naperville, Illinois
Updated
Patrick’s Answer
Nicole, I want you to know that it is important to recognize that feeling lost or uncertain about your career is not unusual, especially at this stage of life. Many people go through this period of questioning, and it’s a natural part of figuring out what you want for your future. You’ve gone through some major setbacks, and despite that, you’re still on track to graduate, which is a huge accomplishment. It’s normal to have doubts, especially when you're juggling feelings of disconnection and a lack of hands-on experience. But your hard work and resilience so far are strengths that will serve you well as you navigate this next chapter.
It sounds like your heart is leaning toward things like social work or nursing, but you're also aware of the time commitment required for these paths. While it’s frustrating to feel like you’ve invested so much time and energy into your current major without the passion you once had, remember that your degree isn’t the end, it is a stepping stone. HR might not be your forever career, and that’s okay. What’s important is that you gain some experience in the working world, even if it’s in a role that’s not your ultimate goal. You don’t have to abandon your dreams of working in healthcare or counseling; you could explore those fields later when you have more clarity and stability in your life. Right now, focusing on gaining any relevant experience, whether in HR or another field, can help you build confidence and figure out what you do and don’t enjoy.
Finally, don’t underestimate the value of your existing skills and experience, even if it’s not directly in HR or healthcare. Retail and fast food jobs teach you customer service, patience, and teamwork—qualities that are valuable in any profession. As for feeling “behind” compared to peers, it’s important to remember that everyone’s path is different, and success doesn’t follow a strict timeline. You’re not alone in feeling uncertain, and taking a break to breathe, reflect, and get some hands-on experience is a valid choice. Trust that with time and experience, the path forward will become clearer. You’ve already shown so much perseverance; take things one step at a time, and don’t be afraid to seek guidance or mentorship from those around you.
It sounds like your heart is leaning toward things like social work or nursing, but you're also aware of the time commitment required for these paths. While it’s frustrating to feel like you’ve invested so much time and energy into your current major without the passion you once had, remember that your degree isn’t the end, it is a stepping stone. HR might not be your forever career, and that’s okay. What’s important is that you gain some experience in the working world, even if it’s in a role that’s not your ultimate goal. You don’t have to abandon your dreams of working in healthcare or counseling; you could explore those fields later when you have more clarity and stability in your life. Right now, focusing on gaining any relevant experience, whether in HR or another field, can help you build confidence and figure out what you do and don’t enjoy.
Finally, don’t underestimate the value of your existing skills and experience, even if it’s not directly in HR or healthcare. Retail and fast food jobs teach you customer service, patience, and teamwork—qualities that are valuable in any profession. As for feeling “behind” compared to peers, it’s important to remember that everyone’s path is different, and success doesn’t follow a strict timeline. You’re not alone in feeling uncertain, and taking a break to breathe, reflect, and get some hands-on experience is a valid choice. Trust that with time and experience, the path forward will become clearer. You’ve already shown so much perseverance; take things one step at a time, and don’t be afraid to seek guidance or mentorship from those around you.
Kerri Butler
Vocational RTW Claim Manager
2
Answers
Reno, Nevada
Updated
Kerri’s Answer
Pick claims, pick claims, pick risk management, and pick claims adjuster! The insurance industry offers an impressive array of remote and physical office careers. In line with advice from earlier posts, finish your business degree track with your current distance learning program. If the graduation requirements line up, drop the HR focus and substitute other areas of interest like communication, marketing, or project management. Remember, the deeper purpose of a business degree is to gain proficiency in critical thinking about business dynamics. As a hiring manager, I look for candidates who enjoy learning and exposing themselves to challenges. Your experience with disillusionment in the post-pandemic virtual educational system might be the exact reason I would consider hiring you. Thriving despite adversity is a highly desirable skill.
Workers' compensation is a hidden gem in the world of Human Resources. You mentioned potentially disliking the public-facing aspects of HR (recruiting, hiring, onboarding, payroll, etc.). Take a closer look at workplace safety, injury, and recovery. Workers' compensation adjusters specialize in helping injured employees and their employers navigate injuries that happen at work. A work comp adjuster is the "conductor" of a grand orchestra of specialized business activities. The job is perfect for introverted people who like to work with smaller teams and individually solve problems. Every workplace injury is unique. After nearly 30 years of helping injured workers navigate their recovery, I am still excited because every day brings new challenges.
Here is a fun challenge. Dig in and see if you can discover why the workers' compensation claim management field is currently looking for candidates of your age, degree choice, and work/life experience level. I'll give you a hint. I have been working in the field for 30+ years. My colleagues are also my age, and our grandkids and great-grandkids are a lot of fun. Soon, I will be retiring. Google to learn more about the predicted staffing crisis, the role of the workers' compensation adjuster, and wage potential for the career. I specialize in return-to-work and vocational claims. But there are many other aspects. I have work friends who are medical-only adjusters, judges, wheelchair ramp builders, medical providers, language translators.. and, yes, HR specialists! WCI has an annual educational conference (https://www.wci360.com/) that includes various topics and stakeholders in the workers' compensation system. If you can successfully serve customers in a retail food setting and have completed your business degree in a virtual setting, many career options lie ahead.
Workers' compensation is a hidden gem in the world of Human Resources. You mentioned potentially disliking the public-facing aspects of HR (recruiting, hiring, onboarding, payroll, etc.). Take a closer look at workplace safety, injury, and recovery. Workers' compensation adjusters specialize in helping injured employees and their employers navigate injuries that happen at work. A work comp adjuster is the "conductor" of a grand orchestra of specialized business activities. The job is perfect for introverted people who like to work with smaller teams and individually solve problems. Every workplace injury is unique. After nearly 30 years of helping injured workers navigate their recovery, I am still excited because every day brings new challenges.
Here is a fun challenge. Dig in and see if you can discover why the workers' compensation claim management field is currently looking for candidates of your age, degree choice, and work/life experience level. I'll give you a hint. I have been working in the field for 30+ years. My colleagues are also my age, and our grandkids and great-grandkids are a lot of fun. Soon, I will be retiring. Google to learn more about the predicted staffing crisis, the role of the workers' compensation adjuster, and wage potential for the career. I specialize in return-to-work and vocational claims. But there are many other aspects. I have work friends who are medical-only adjusters, judges, wheelchair ramp builders, medical providers, language translators.. and, yes, HR specialists! WCI has an annual educational conference (https://www.wci360.com/) that includes various topics and stakeholders in the workers' compensation system. If you can successfully serve customers in a retail food setting and have completed your business degree in a virtual setting, many career options lie ahead.
I love this response @Kerri Butler! So many varying lead ideas with Workers compensation. I am a business owner in the field of anesthesia and have learned soooo much about Workers Compensation.
Cheryl Gamble
El-sent David
Photographer
8
Answers
Lagos, Nigeria
Updated
El-sent’s Answer
Practice makes perfect and the earliest you start to better you become a professional at you work of study
Emily Garcia
Graphic Designer
35
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Apple Valley, California
Updated
Emily’s Answer
Hello Nicole,
As a recent college graduate myself who is also 23-years old, I completely understand feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about your career path given- especially given the circumstances. What has helped me the most is reflecting on your interests, values, strengths, and weaknesses that you possess and consider. What activities make you feel energized and fulfilled? What are some of your key strengths and skillsets that you have? What are your values? Based on your interests in wanting to help others and working in the medical field, here are some ways that you can try to explore this:
Human Resources: While the job market might seem tough, I would still consider try looking for any entry-level roles or internships in related to areas with HR since you already have a concentration. You can try roles like administrative positions or HR assistant roles.
Healthcare Administration: Roles in this position might involve managing healthcare facilities, coordinating services, and ensuring efficient operations. This could be a middle-ground between both business and healthcare.
Social Services: You can also look for roles in other social services that doesn't require a master's degree, such as case management or a community outreach position.
Although you are a remote student, you can still build your network necessary for helping you land a position. Try joining online communities or virtual networking events and webinars related to your field. You can also connect with professionals through profile apps like LinkedIn and ask for any informational interviews or advice.
In terms of trying to gain experience, set achievable short-term goals to keep yourself motivated and grounded to moving forward. Any experience is always good experience that'll add in your resume (volunteer work, freelancing, part-time, internship). Apply and keep track to a certain number of jobs/internships/etc that you've applied for each day/week. It's also important to prioritize yourself and your well-being throughout this process. Take necessary breaks and giving yourself time and recharge while also seeking support from your loved ones that'll help you feel comforted.
It's okay to feel unsure about your future. Myself included, many people go through these similar experiences. It's important to focus on taking small steps towards your end goals and remembering that it's never too late to make any necessary changes that you want to make.
I hope this helps you out a bit more and make you feel better with what you are going through, and I wish you the best with all your future endeavors.
Best Regards,
Emily Garcia
As a recent college graduate myself who is also 23-years old, I completely understand feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about your career path given- especially given the circumstances. What has helped me the most is reflecting on your interests, values, strengths, and weaknesses that you possess and consider. What activities make you feel energized and fulfilled? What are some of your key strengths and skillsets that you have? What are your values? Based on your interests in wanting to help others and working in the medical field, here are some ways that you can try to explore this:
Human Resources: While the job market might seem tough, I would still consider try looking for any entry-level roles or internships in related to areas with HR since you already have a concentration. You can try roles like administrative positions or HR assistant roles.
Healthcare Administration: Roles in this position might involve managing healthcare facilities, coordinating services, and ensuring efficient operations. This could be a middle-ground between both business and healthcare.
Social Services: You can also look for roles in other social services that doesn't require a master's degree, such as case management or a community outreach position.
Although you are a remote student, you can still build your network necessary for helping you land a position. Try joining online communities or virtual networking events and webinars related to your field. You can also connect with professionals through profile apps like LinkedIn and ask for any informational interviews or advice.
In terms of trying to gain experience, set achievable short-term goals to keep yourself motivated and grounded to moving forward. Any experience is always good experience that'll add in your resume (volunteer work, freelancing, part-time, internship). Apply and keep track to a certain number of jobs/internships/etc that you've applied for each day/week. It's also important to prioritize yourself and your well-being throughout this process. Take necessary breaks and giving yourself time and recharge while also seeking support from your loved ones that'll help you feel comforted.
It's okay to feel unsure about your future. Myself included, many people go through these similar experiences. It's important to focus on taking small steps towards your end goals and remembering that it's never too late to make any necessary changes that you want to make.
I hope this helps you out a bit more and make you feel better with what you are going through, and I wish you the best with all your future endeavors.
Best Regards,
Emily Garcia
Natasha Rieder
Occupational Health Nurse
34
Answers
Wentzville, Missouri
Updated
Natasha’s Answer
Hello Nicole,
First off; take a nice big deep breath. You are putting a lot of pressure on yourself to make the exact right choice and there's no need for that! I doubt most of us knew with 100% certainty that the major we picked was "the one" when we picked it at the ripe age of 18. I wouldn't say you've made a mistake; you're taking the scenic route to the life that you want and while I can absolutely empathize with that not being ideal, it's not wrong or a waste. My vote; change your major if that is what will make you happiest in the end. Yes up front you may feel like you "wasted" your time and some of your college credits but you don't want to get into a career (or forever searching for a career) only to end up miserable just to hurry up and graduate.
Some good news; not all of those college credits have to go to waste. There's a very good chance that many of the classes you took to get where you are will transfer to a new school (if that's what you choose) or will qualify for your new program of study. I am a nurse myself and I love it! One of the concerns you voiced was experience and the anxiety of onboarding. Guess what? When you onboard as a nurse everyone already knows you have no clue what you're doing, and that's not a joke! There are so many facets to nursing they can't teach you everything in four years, so you'll be paired with someone to show you the ropes because it's expected that you have to learn a completely new way of thinking.
A critical note about a nursing degree; it gives you countless career options! You can work for the Red Cross, work in manufacturing, work with the elderly, with babies, work at a middle school, do private home health care, the options are endless! As a current nurse, I can tell you that you won't be at a huge disadvantage for going to a state school vs some fancy private nursing school when it comes time to get a job. You of course want to pick the best option you have, but just don't let that stress you out too bad because no matter what school you go to, we all take the same test at the end (that'd be the dreaded NCLEX).
Also, many nurses go on to managerial and administrative roles later on in their careers, so you very well may use all of your HR education, just not right away, and that's okay too! If there is an HR-esque position that opens up for you as a nurse, your previous education will put you leaps and bounds ahead of other potential candidates.
There's also the option of joining the military if that is something you're interested in, and most branches start people off at a higher rank if they already have a college degree. If you'd like more information on that I'd post that specific question so you can get more expert advice, but as someone who went that route, it is definitely another great option. Just do your research before talking to any recruiter and don't let them pressure you into signing up for a job you don't truly want. They're good people, but they have quotas.
Most importantly remember that whatever path you pick doesn't have to be permanent. You've got an entire life to live, and many, many people change their careers. Look at this situation more as an accidental side quest rather than a "waste of time". The skills you learned will be put to use, just maybe not when or in the way you thought. And you are definitely not "too old"; there were women in their 40s in my nursing classes who were getting their first degrees. Talk to your school counselor or the dean for the major you want to switch to and see what all your options are. This will help maximize use of the credits you already have and hopefully alleviate some of your concern.
Experience is never a waste. Do what you need to do to point yourself in the direction of the life you want, and start moving forward, no matter how long it takes you to get there. You've got this!
First off; take a nice big deep breath. You are putting a lot of pressure on yourself to make the exact right choice and there's no need for that! I doubt most of us knew with 100% certainty that the major we picked was "the one" when we picked it at the ripe age of 18. I wouldn't say you've made a mistake; you're taking the scenic route to the life that you want and while I can absolutely empathize with that not being ideal, it's not wrong or a waste. My vote; change your major if that is what will make you happiest in the end. Yes up front you may feel like you "wasted" your time and some of your college credits but you don't want to get into a career (or forever searching for a career) only to end up miserable just to hurry up and graduate.
Some good news; not all of those college credits have to go to waste. There's a very good chance that many of the classes you took to get where you are will transfer to a new school (if that's what you choose) or will qualify for your new program of study. I am a nurse myself and I love it! One of the concerns you voiced was experience and the anxiety of onboarding. Guess what? When you onboard as a nurse everyone already knows you have no clue what you're doing, and that's not a joke! There are so many facets to nursing they can't teach you everything in four years, so you'll be paired with someone to show you the ropes because it's expected that you have to learn a completely new way of thinking.
A critical note about a nursing degree; it gives you countless career options! You can work for the Red Cross, work in manufacturing, work with the elderly, with babies, work at a middle school, do private home health care, the options are endless! As a current nurse, I can tell you that you won't be at a huge disadvantage for going to a state school vs some fancy private nursing school when it comes time to get a job. You of course want to pick the best option you have, but just don't let that stress you out too bad because no matter what school you go to, we all take the same test at the end (that'd be the dreaded NCLEX).
Also, many nurses go on to managerial and administrative roles later on in their careers, so you very well may use all of your HR education, just not right away, and that's okay too! If there is an HR-esque position that opens up for you as a nurse, your previous education will put you leaps and bounds ahead of other potential candidates.
There's also the option of joining the military if that is something you're interested in, and most branches start people off at a higher rank if they already have a college degree. If you'd like more information on that I'd post that specific question so you can get more expert advice, but as someone who went that route, it is definitely another great option. Just do your research before talking to any recruiter and don't let them pressure you into signing up for a job you don't truly want. They're good people, but they have quotas.
Most importantly remember that whatever path you pick doesn't have to be permanent. You've got an entire life to live, and many, many people change their careers. Look at this situation more as an accidental side quest rather than a "waste of time". The skills you learned will be put to use, just maybe not when or in the way you thought. And you are definitely not "too old"; there were women in their 40s in my nursing classes who were getting their first degrees. Talk to your school counselor or the dean for the major you want to switch to and see what all your options are. This will help maximize use of the credits you already have and hopefully alleviate some of your concern.
Experience is never a waste. Do what you need to do to point yourself in the direction of the life you want, and start moving forward, no matter how long it takes you to get there. You've got this!
Hello! Thank you so much for this. Being that I am in my last semester of junior year, I am not sure if it would be wise to switch my major. I also am an online student, so that would require me to transfer and lose most of my credits. I don’t hate my major, I just sort of fear of job security due to the lack of entry level roles. I am however, going to job shadow my friend who is a nurse. I have found the accelerated BSN program in my area for non nursing bachelor degree holders. I just can’t imagine starting completely starting over, being pushed back 3 years to go to nursing school. Do you have any insights into an accelerated BSN program or other routes to become a nurse after I graduate w a different major? I would absolutely love to know if you do.
Nicole
Unfortunately I don't have much experience there, as I took a traditional BSN route. What I can say is that I can absolutely understand not wanting to "start over", but again, after talking with the dean of Nursing you may not have as much additional work to do. Shadowing your friend is a very good idea too! Just keep in mind that there are countless jobs an RN can have so you're only getting a very small sneak peak of one potential option. So definitely come back here if you have more questions after your shadow day!
Natasha Rieder
Ryan Libby
Security
8
Answers
Corpus Christi, Texas
Updated
Ryan’s Answer
Take time and travel. Something i can say that will drive your passions and help guide your will. Even domestically in the US. meet new people. Do you need a lot of structure in life or do you like to make on the fly decisions?