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Mahazabin
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Rajshahi, Rajshahi Division, Bangladesh
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What should i do for my career ?
What should I do for my career?
Hello everyone, I don't know what to do with my life now, what should I study to get a degree? I like solving math problems, but I got the lowest marks in my higher secondary exams. My parents want me to do nursing. But my brain for memorization is very bad. I don't know what to study, what to do. If I study for a degree in university, my career will be better later, I will be able to do well, please help me
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Dr H
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Hi there Mahazabin, first, I just want to give you the biggest, warmest, squishiest hug right now! 💛
Take a breathe and can we take a second to celebrate how brave you are for even asking this question? Because honestly... not knowing what to do is the most normal thing in the whole universe (even the stars probably sit there like, "Hmm, should I shine today or just chill?").
Okay, let's start with the math part — because girl, you like solving math problems?? That's already a superpower right there! Not everyone has that little spark for math, even if your exam marks didn't show it. Marks only show what happened on one day — not what you're actually capable of.
If your brain lights up when you're solving math, that means your heart is giving you a little hint. You might not need to memorize pages and pages of facts like nursing would require — maybe you're someone who loves logic, patterns, and figuring out puzzles.
Here's a little secret 🔥Math doesn't always mean becoming a math professor or accountant. It can lead to...
Data Analyst (solving problems with numbers for companies — and they PAY WELL 👀💸)
Graphic Designer (Wait what? Yes! Math helps with design layouts and animations)
Digital Marketing (Analyzing social media numbers and turning them into strategies)
Web Developer (Coding is like solving a math puzzle every day but with fewer tears)
Cybersecurity (Basically being a secret spy but with computers)
Finance or Banking jobs (if you like money and making MORE money)
But what if your parents want nursing?
Okay, let's talk about that pressure cooker of expectations. I totally understand it. So, on my Doctory family line, my parents expected all their children to become doctors. Though my brother is in computer science however he is also into the AI and Robotics so he is planning to maybe to the neurological part, however he is doing his own side projects which makes my parents satisfied enough.
I know how heavy it feels when your parents have their own dreams for you. They love you and just want to see you safe and successful — but this is YOUR life, not theirs. As I always say parents don't mean harm they are doing just from their experience and this makes them forget that each person even their children may have interests and passions.
If memorizing things feels harder for you, that's already a little sign that nursing might not be your happiest place. And you know what? That's perfectly okay. Becauze, Nursing needs dedication and passion, if you don't have that you won't be able to hang onto it, it will start feeling like a loose thread that has to be gone. I am telling you this, because I have seen nurses not dedicated to their job and they wouldn't do well. However, Mahzaben, 😇 I don't want you to get discouraged either, so I am really bad at memorization but I still went towards becoming an MD, and I am still in it. I suck at memorization and I love maths like you Mahzaben, so what I do is pursue the medicine because I love helping people, being around them, making them happy, and healing the, it's exciting for me to see them stand straight after they couldn't even sit up proparly. This is why I pursued my passion, and I am also dedicated to it, so I know that no matter how hard those memorization can be it's not an issue, because it's only the first and second year that's tough. The next year's they are all gonna be work ethics and practical work, clinic work and all so you will be actively working and as for nursing just the first year will be the tough memorization. If you are passionate about becoming a nurse but you are scared just because of the memorization, don't let it stop you. Because trust me, that little obstacle will run away soon.
But if it is not what you wnat then just try gathering up the path you do want.
Maybe you could sit down with your parents and say something like: "Amma, Abba... I know you want the best future for me, and I love you for that. But I feel happiest when I'm solving problems and working with numbers. Can we find a career where I can use my brain, not just memorization?" 😅 and they will hear you out, unless gbey are like my parents 🤪 then you gotta start proving it before they can accept! 👀
Now here's the magical part: There is no one perfect career waiting for you out there. The real magic is that whatever path you choose, you'll be the one who makes it perfect.
Here's your little roadmap:
First, explore new careers for a few weeks
Try free courses to see what clicks
THEN tell your parents you're researching what makes your heart happy
And if nothing makes sense yet?
That's okay too.Take your time. Explore. Fail. Try again.
You're not behind, Mahazabin — you're just at the very beginning of your own beautiful story. And something tells me your future self is going to look back and say:
"Wow, I had no idea I'd end up here... but this is exactly where I'm meant to be."
Sending you a million little stars to light your way ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐💛 and a last H him before I go, so since you didn't have the counselor facility, and your friend suggested to take English. I think that you could start with that. Because if you are living in Bangladesh then English will give you a prior and a lot more door openings, you will also be able to get abroad scholarships as well. So just start with that now that is a every good start. All the best and good luck dear! 🤗
Take a career quiz 👉 careerexplorer.com It will literally give you a list of jobs based on what you like!
Go on YouTube and search: "Careers for people who love math but hate memorizing" — you'll find tons of ideas.
Try FREE short courses on websites like: Coursera (for Data Analysis or Digital Marketing) Khan Academy (to sharpen your math skills) Udemy (for graphic design or coding)
Go with English since you have graduated don't waste time but take action and start!
Take a breathe and can we take a second to celebrate how brave you are for even asking this question? Because honestly... not knowing what to do is the most normal thing in the whole universe (even the stars probably sit there like, "Hmm, should I shine today or just chill?").
Okay, let's start with the math part — because girl, you like solving math problems?? That's already a superpower right there! Not everyone has that little spark for math, even if your exam marks didn't show it. Marks only show what happened on one day — not what you're actually capable of.
If your brain lights up when you're solving math, that means your heart is giving you a little hint. You might not need to memorize pages and pages of facts like nursing would require — maybe you're someone who loves logic, patterns, and figuring out puzzles.
Here's a little secret 🔥Math doesn't always mean becoming a math professor or accountant. It can lead to...
Data Analyst (solving problems with numbers for companies — and they PAY WELL 👀💸)
Graphic Designer (Wait what? Yes! Math helps with design layouts and animations)
Digital Marketing (Analyzing social media numbers and turning them into strategies)
Web Developer (Coding is like solving a math puzzle every day but with fewer tears)
Cybersecurity (Basically being a secret spy but with computers)
Finance or Banking jobs (if you like money and making MORE money)
But what if your parents want nursing?
Okay, let's talk about that pressure cooker of expectations. I totally understand it. So, on my Doctory family line, my parents expected all their children to become doctors. Though my brother is in computer science however he is also into the AI and Robotics so he is planning to maybe to the neurological part, however he is doing his own side projects which makes my parents satisfied enough.
I know how heavy it feels when your parents have their own dreams for you. They love you and just want to see you safe and successful — but this is YOUR life, not theirs. As I always say parents don't mean harm they are doing just from their experience and this makes them forget that each person even their children may have interests and passions.
If memorizing things feels harder for you, that's already a little sign that nursing might not be your happiest place. And you know what? That's perfectly okay. Becauze, Nursing needs dedication and passion, if you don't have that you won't be able to hang onto it, it will start feeling like a loose thread that has to be gone. I am telling you this, because I have seen nurses not dedicated to their job and they wouldn't do well. However, Mahzaben, 😇 I don't want you to get discouraged either, so I am really bad at memorization but I still went towards becoming an MD, and I am still in it. I suck at memorization and I love maths like you Mahzaben, so what I do is pursue the medicine because I love helping people, being around them, making them happy, and healing the, it's exciting for me to see them stand straight after they couldn't even sit up proparly. This is why I pursued my passion, and I am also dedicated to it, so I know that no matter how hard those memorization can be it's not an issue, because it's only the first and second year that's tough. The next year's they are all gonna be work ethics and practical work, clinic work and all so you will be actively working and as for nursing just the first year will be the tough memorization. If you are passionate about becoming a nurse but you are scared just because of the memorization, don't let it stop you. Because trust me, that little obstacle will run away soon.
But if it is not what you wnat then just try gathering up the path you do want.
Maybe you could sit down with your parents and say something like: "Amma, Abba... I know you want the best future for me, and I love you for that. But I feel happiest when I'm solving problems and working with numbers. Can we find a career where I can use my brain, not just memorization?" 😅 and they will hear you out, unless gbey are like my parents 🤪 then you gotta start proving it before they can accept! 👀
Now here's the magical part: There is no one perfect career waiting for you out there. The real magic is that whatever path you choose, you'll be the one who makes it perfect.
Here's your little roadmap:
First, explore new careers for a few weeks
Try free courses to see what clicks
THEN tell your parents you're researching what makes your heart happy
And if nothing makes sense yet?
That's okay too.Take your time. Explore. Fail. Try again.
You're not behind, Mahazabin — you're just at the very beginning of your own beautiful story. And something tells me your future self is going to look back and say:
"Wow, I had no idea I'd end up here... but this is exactly where I'm meant to be."
Sending you a million little stars to light your way ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐💛 and a last H him before I go, so since you didn't have the counselor facility, and your friend suggested to take English. I think that you could start with that. Because if you are living in Bangladesh then English will give you a prior and a lot more door openings, you will also be able to get abroad scholarships as well. So just start with that now that is a every good start. All the best and good luck dear! 🤗
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Lisa Rodriguez
Registered nurse
8
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Catonsville, Maryland
Updated
Lisa’s Answer
Hi Mahazabin,
I wish I was as self aware as you are at your age. I was a terrible student plus I had a math disability and ADHD. I was an art major and my parents pressured my to do something else. I became a nurse and hated it at first. I finally made peace with it and I am a good nurse. Don't let anyone pressure you. Don't be afraid to do something you think you can't do. There is always help. You can be tutored in you wak subjects. Deciding on a career at a young age is tough. Some people know their whole lives what they will do and others can't seem to find their place easily. I suggest you go online and there are free tests you can take to see what kinds of jobs you are suited for and would enjoy. Look up some careers you might be interested in and read about what they do and what education is needed to pursue that career. When you find something, write the pros and cons of that career. That way you can make an honest decision. You will find something. It is never too late and you are already thinking about your own strengths and weaknesses which is more then some people do when they are choosing a profession. Good luck to you.
I wish I was as self aware as you are at your age. I was a terrible student plus I had a math disability and ADHD. I was an art major and my parents pressured my to do something else. I became a nurse and hated it at first. I finally made peace with it and I am a good nurse. Don't let anyone pressure you. Don't be afraid to do something you think you can't do. There is always help. You can be tutored in you wak subjects. Deciding on a career at a young age is tough. Some people know their whole lives what they will do and others can't seem to find their place easily. I suggest you go online and there are free tests you can take to see what kinds of jobs you are suited for and would enjoy. Look up some careers you might be interested in and read about what they do and what education is needed to pursue that career. When you find something, write the pros and cons of that career. That way you can make an honest decision. You will find something. It is never too late and you are already thinking about your own strengths and weaknesses which is more then some people do when they are choosing a profession. Good luck to you.
I appreciate your support , Lisa.Can u help me with telling which online site can help me to take Free online career test?
Mahazabin
Srinidhi Srinivasan
Fictional writer in Pratilipi and Wattpad
4
Answers
Thiruvarur, Tamil Nadu, India
Updated
Srinidhi’s Answer
Hi according to your statement I can understand that you are now entering University . I would like to tell you something .
First of all don't under estimate yourself . Learning doesn't need memorization it needs only understanding . Since math need understanding and if you are good at it , you are capable to do any degree related to math or else . So first build confidence and express your desire to your parents and if they are okay with that proceed .
First of all don't under estimate yourself . Learning doesn't need memorization it needs only understanding . Since math need understanding and if you are good at it , you are capable to do any degree related to math or else . So first build confidence and express your desire to your parents and if they are okay with that proceed .
Thank you so much, Srinidhi!
Mahazabin
Nick Velazquez
Senior Product Manager
1
Answer
Silver Spring, Maryland
Updated
Nick’s Answer
Hi Mahazabin, thank you for taking the time to share your questions. What you're experiencing is *completely* normal! There were often times when I felt the same as you when I was in high school or thinking about college. I too had a passion for mathematics, but I actually didn't do too well with my math exams at times. One thing to keep in mind is that taking exams can be stressful and learning how to take tests can mean learning how to get better at slowing down, reading carefully and putting your stress to the side or even working through it. I got better at taking math tests through repetition and that meant signing up to take twice as many math classes as my peers when I was younger just to help me get in the groove of thinking in a way that would help me excel with taking math exams and breaking down math problems. All this is to say I applaud you for having an interest in math and sometimes the best way to pursue this as an interest is to keep pushing through and working through your mistakes with math without judging yourself or getting caught up with the scores in the beginning. Not everyone is interested in math, so if that's something that is important to you, I highly encourage you not to give up and to keep going until you get better! I went from being bottom of my class to studying engineering in school and then starting a successful career after university, but if I had given up on math, my success would look *very* different and I would be doing something completely different. There wouldn't be anything wrong with that, but I am very happy with my choice to keep. pushing through with math, even though I wasn't doing well at first.
Sheetal Aggarwal
Data Engineer, Manager
7
Answers
Tampa, Florida
Updated
Sheetal’s Answer
It sounds like you're at a crossroads, and it's completely normal to feel uncertain about your future career path. Here are some steps and considerations that might help you make a decision:
### 1. Explore Your Interests
Since you enjoy solving math problems, consider fields where mathematical skills are valuable. Here are a few options:
- **Mathematics or Statistics**: Despite your previous exam results, if you genuinely enjoy math, a degree in mathematics or statistics could be fulfilling. It offers diverse career opportunities in fields like data analysis, finance, and academia.
- **Computer Science**: This field often involves logical problem-solving and can be a great fit if you enjoy math. It also offers strong career prospects in areas like software development, data science, and cybersecurity.
- **Engineering**: Various engineering disciplines, such as civil, mechanical, or electrical, rely heavily on mathematical skills and problem-solving.
### 2. Consider Your Learning Style
Since you mentioned that your memorization skills aren't strong, focus on fields that emphasize understanding concepts and problem-solving over rote memorization. Degrees in technical or analytical fields often prioritize these skills.
### 3. Research and Reflect
- **Career Research**: Look into different careers that interest you. Websites like the Occupational Outlook Handbook can provide insights into job prospects, salaries, and required skills.
- **Self-Assessment**: Consider taking career assessment tests to identify your strengths and interests. These can provide guidance on suitable career paths.
### 4. Talk to Others
- **Advisors and Teachers**: Speak with career advisors, teachers, or counselors who can offer guidance based on your skills and interests.
- **Professionals**: If possible, conduct informational interviews with professionals in fields you're considering. They can offer insights into their careers and the paths they took.
### 5. Balance with Parental Expectations
It's important to have open discussions with your parents about your interests and concerns. While they may have their own preferences, finding a middle ground that considers both your interests and their expectations can be beneficial.
### 6. Consider Alternative Paths
If you're not ready to commit to a degree, consider other educational options:
- **Diploma or Certificate Programs**: These can provide practical skills and may lead to immediate job opportunities.
- **Community College**: Starting at a community college can allow you to explore different subjects before committing to a specific degree path.
### 7. Stay Open-Minded and Flexible
Your first choice may not be the final one, and that's okay. Many people change their career paths multiple times. Focus on developing a strong foundation of skills and be open to new opportunities.
### 8. Build Skills Alongside Education
Regardless of your degree, focus on building transferable skills such as communication, critical thinking, and teamwork. These are valuable in any career.
Remember, your career path is a journey, and it's okay to take time to explore and discover what truly interests you. Ultimately, finding something that aligns with your passions and strengths will lead to greater satisfaction and success.
Good luck!
### 1. Explore Your Interests
Since you enjoy solving math problems, consider fields where mathematical skills are valuable. Here are a few options:
- **Mathematics or Statistics**: Despite your previous exam results, if you genuinely enjoy math, a degree in mathematics or statistics could be fulfilling. It offers diverse career opportunities in fields like data analysis, finance, and academia.
- **Computer Science**: This field often involves logical problem-solving and can be a great fit if you enjoy math. It also offers strong career prospects in areas like software development, data science, and cybersecurity.
- **Engineering**: Various engineering disciplines, such as civil, mechanical, or electrical, rely heavily on mathematical skills and problem-solving.
### 2. Consider Your Learning Style
Since you mentioned that your memorization skills aren't strong, focus on fields that emphasize understanding concepts and problem-solving over rote memorization. Degrees in technical or analytical fields often prioritize these skills.
### 3. Research and Reflect
- **Career Research**: Look into different careers that interest you. Websites like the Occupational Outlook Handbook can provide insights into job prospects, salaries, and required skills.
- **Self-Assessment**: Consider taking career assessment tests to identify your strengths and interests. These can provide guidance on suitable career paths.
### 4. Talk to Others
- **Advisors and Teachers**: Speak with career advisors, teachers, or counselors who can offer guidance based on your skills and interests.
- **Professionals**: If possible, conduct informational interviews with professionals in fields you're considering. They can offer insights into their careers and the paths they took.
### 5. Balance with Parental Expectations
It's important to have open discussions with your parents about your interests and concerns. While they may have their own preferences, finding a middle ground that considers both your interests and their expectations can be beneficial.
### 6. Consider Alternative Paths
If you're not ready to commit to a degree, consider other educational options:
- **Diploma or Certificate Programs**: These can provide practical skills and may lead to immediate job opportunities.
- **Community College**: Starting at a community college can allow you to explore different subjects before committing to a specific degree path.
### 7. Stay Open-Minded and Flexible
Your first choice may not be the final one, and that's okay. Many people change their career paths multiple times. Focus on developing a strong foundation of skills and be open to new opportunities.
### 8. Build Skills Alongside Education
Regardless of your degree, focus on building transferable skills such as communication, critical thinking, and teamwork. These are valuable in any career.
Remember, your career path is a journey, and it's okay to take time to explore and discover what truly interests you. Ultimately, finding something that aligns with your passions and strengths will lead to greater satisfaction and success.
Good luck!
Thank u so much, your word help me a lot.But there is not much that i can do in my position like taking career assessment test or talk to career advisor. So can u please help me with some website that will help me
Mahazabin
Sheetal really gave a whole buffet of options to explore! For websites to guide your career journey, maybe start with Coursera or edX for free career-related courses, or try 16Personalities for a fun career assessment test (no need for fancy counselors when the internet is your fairy godmother, right?). You're doing amazing. You can also check these:::: Khan Academy (https://www.khanacademy.org/) — Perfect for beginners, explains math concepts simply.
Brilliant (https://www.brilliant.org/) — Interactive learning, makes math fun with problem-solving.
MIT OpenCourseWare (https://ocw.mit.edu/courses/mathematics/) — Free university-level courses if she wants to go deeper.
Paul's Online Math Notes (http://tutorial.math.lamar.edu/)
Math is Fun (https://www.mathsisfun.com/)
Dr H
Thank you, Dr. H. I agree with your response. I think websites like Coursera and edX could be excellent starting points. Additionally, LinkedIn offers some free assessments.
Sheetal Aggarwal
You're welcome, Sheetal! It’s great to have your support, and I truly appreciate your insightful wisdom. It’s a pleasure to be on this journey together—keep sharing your brilliance!
Dr H
Thanks a lot all of u
Mahazabin
Natasha Rieder
Occupational Health Nurse
28
Answers
Wentzville, Missouri
Updated
Natasha’s Answer
Getting your nursing degree gives you countless career options making it a wonderfully versatile career choice! You can work for the Red Cross, work in manufacturing, work with the elderly, with babies, work at a middle school, do private home health care, the options are endless! As a current nurse, I can tell you that you won't be at a huge disadvantage for going to a state school vs a fancy private nursing school when it comes time to get a job. You of course want to pick the best option you have, but just don't let that stress you out too bad because no matter what school you go to, we all take the same test at the end (that'd be the dreaded NCLEX).
All that being said, I'd recommend you get at least your Bachelors degree in nursing (BSN). That's not to say you can't get your LPN (licensed practicing nurse) first if you choose, but most of these special opportunities and places that will pay their nurses higher than average will require at least a BSN. You also have to decide if you want to get an advanced degree or if the grueling four years for your BSN is as far as you want to go. If you want to get an advanced degree/training some common options are:
- Getting your Masters in a specialty (I have an MSN in Nursing Education but there are other options)
- CRNA (Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetist)
- specializing in another field such as pediatric emergency transport or becoming a flight nurse
- or obtaining your Nurse Practitioner license. If you were to get your NP you can specialize even further from there and that would also play a role in your salary. The easy way to think about being an NP is that you're a "doctor nurse", but in reality it's much, much more complex than that.
These are just a few common options, the nursing field has many branches to it that you can work from. If you ever have any other questions, you know where to go!
All that being said, I'd recommend you get at least your Bachelors degree in nursing (BSN). That's not to say you can't get your LPN (licensed practicing nurse) first if you choose, but most of these special opportunities and places that will pay their nurses higher than average will require at least a BSN. You also have to decide if you want to get an advanced degree or if the grueling four years for your BSN is as far as you want to go. If you want to get an advanced degree/training some common options are:
- Getting your Masters in a specialty (I have an MSN in Nursing Education but there are other options)
- CRNA (Certified Registered Nurse Anesthetist)
- specializing in another field such as pediatric emergency transport or becoming a flight nurse
- or obtaining your Nurse Practitioner license. If you were to get your NP you can specialize even further from there and that would also play a role in your salary. The easy way to think about being an NP is that you're a "doctor nurse", but in reality it's much, much more complex than that.
These are just a few common options, the nursing field has many branches to it that you can work from. If you ever have any other questions, you know where to go!
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