Should you strive for a high paying occupation or what you like to do?
I really want to be a high school teacher, but my mom always tells me how they do not make enough money, and to go for something that pays more like a doctor. I have no interest in being in the medical field or law. What should I do?
#teacher #doctor #career #money
4 answers
Ken’s Answer
The most important thing that you must remember is to be true to yourself. Determine which are your strengths and weakness and your personality traits that you want to and need to fit into a career to make it productive and satisfactory for you as an individual. There are too many people trapped in high paying jobs who hate going to work every day. That is no way to live. During my years in Human Resources, College Recruiting, and setting up and running a program to help laid off workers return to work, I have developed the following plan which has helped many.
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Mazdak’s Answer
You could do both Rabekka, if your passion is to impact students you can still pursue a high paying job and make it a point to engage the youth while in your profession. We cant tell you which path to take, that ultimately will be your choice but I hope you respect and take to an account what your mother is telling you and think outside the box to check both boxes. Just FYI I used to be an elementary ed major but ended up switching to business because I realized I couldn't live the lifestyle I wanted with the income given in that profession. I have spent time volunteering in several youth organizations and impact youth in my own way while maintaining a job that pays for a life that I enjoy.
Haley’s Answer
Rabekka, You're not alone in this conversation. Many people disagree with their parents on which direction to take their career. A good way to go about this may be to create a hypothetical long term financial plan (approx 20 years) to show your mom the upfront costs of education and medical degrees and discuss the earning power over time. While doctors, on average, may make more money than teachers, there are also significant upfront costs and time that should be considered before pursuing a career in the medical industry. After you lay out your plan, talk to your mom about the other reasons why she thinks being a doctor would be a good job for you - is it because you communicate well with people and enjoy working for the betterment of others? Those sound like good characteristics for a teacher, too! The most important thing to remember is, in the long term, it will be your job that you have to go to every day, so you should find something that makes you happy.
Karen’s Answer
Easy answer -- do what you like to do! If you have tons of money but are unhappy in your career, the $ won't help. Think about what's important to you and make a plan to live within your means. Being successful and living a gratified life is usually not about how much you earn.
With every good wish!