What is the best course for an introvert person?
I am an introvert person. I know to myself that I am not Good in public speaking or facing a huge crowd. I am a shy type. Entering college is not easy for me. Choosing a course is a very hard decision because it will be your future someday. So, can you help me about this confusing question? Hoping for your answer Mr/Ms/Mrs. This will help a lot . Thank you. #business #engineer #teacher #professor #accounting #lawyer #accountant #politics
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Helena Wong
Helena’s Answer
Hi Jeama,
First off, "Hello, fellow introvert!" :) I hear your struggle, just trying to get out there and be out of your comfort zone can seem scary. Especially when it seems that more 'successful' people or leaders are ones who speak fearlessly in front of others. They seem to know what to say and when to say it. They stay relaxed and in control even in the limelight.
I'd like to first answer your question on "What is the best course for an introvert person". Let's see, some of the world's great public figures, leaders and game-changers are introverts and their profession ranges from physicists, to movie directors, founders of large corporations, teachers, book authors and sportsmen. The list includes Albert Einstein, Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Steven Spielberg, JK Rowling and Michael Jordan. My advice: Don't limit yourself to possibilities. And more importantly, pick a course that YOU are interested in, because at the end of the day, that interest is what will be driving you beyond college, and through the working world. Read this article to see 23 of the most amazingly successful introverts in history
I encourage you to be proud of who you are, and be comfortable in your introvert skin. If you are not comfortable talking the way extroverts naturally do, that is perfectly OK. You don' t have to be who you are not. However, there will be times when you need to whip out good "People skills" to make sure your opinion is heard (because you care, and therefore you speak. I'm an introvert, I understand you), or to negotiate with difficult people. You can learn tips from plenty of books out there. Here are some good books which I have read that may be helpful to you too: How To Instantly Connect with Anyone, Getting More and Egonomics.
"Networking" is also another reason to have "People skills" because in reality it "gets you places" :). If you're like me, and you are not comfortable with starting small talks with strangers just to "network" then that is fine. With that, all the best, Jeama, and I do hope my answer helps. Go forth and be a force that will positively impact this world. :)
Babita’s Answer
Whether you are an introvert or not, stage fright or fear of public speaking is a challenge for many.
Retrospect and ask yourself what you are happiest doing. Nobody can pinpoint what is best for you unless you let us know what are your interests. At best, we would give you just a generic reply and am sure that is not what you are looking for.
Let me give you an example : Say you are an introvert but writing/animation/comic illustrations interest you. So your being an introvert will in no way come in the way of you expressing yourself through your illustrations/writing. Focus on your key interest area and develop an expertise in that particular field. Just follow your heart. Introvert you may be, but your heart knows how to speak its mind, if you listen to it. All the best :-)
ritesh’s Answer
Are you an introvert? Do you find expressing yourself difficult? Well, you are not the only one. When you feel being introvert is being a hurdle in choosing the right career, then it’s time to think on a different tangent. Why not choose a career where being silent doesn’t hamper you and your professional growth? There are several careers for introverts, to know about them, keep reading.
Introverts have keen observation power, a great ear for listening, and an exemplary skill when it is time to prepare details. Here we share a list of jobs for introverts where you can portray your strength.
1) Astronomer:
The footsteps of Galileo, Copernicus, and Newton and what do you need more? With a well-paying, solitary job studying the stars or working on satellites.
2) Programmer:
Coding is also suited to introverts because it also happens to be quite a solitary profession. Moreover, it’s a kind of job that really doesn’t need you to be in an office, as well.
There is also the freedom to work remotely as a programmer; you don’t have to be confined to a working environment and culture which takes lower your energy reserves. Rather, you can work wherever you feel and offers the perfect stimulation, be it your room, a coffee shop, a library or a co-working space.
Read full article here : 12 Best Careers For Introverts You Would Love To Know
Dang’s Answer
Don't view your introversion as a limitation when choosing college courses. :) I would advise you instead look to what interests you most as a college course usually would be your starting point for a career and you'd want to be in a career that reflects your passion. If your passion is in marketing, go for it! There are many entry-level jobs in marketing where you don't necessarily have to speak in public all the time.
Take the time to overcome your fear of public speaking. Introvert or not, I think most people are afraid to speak in public and over time, and with practice, you can actually get good at it. I myself started in financial services and started as a junior product manager. As I progressed in my career, I had opportunities to deliver presentations and every time, I made sure I took note how I can improve in the next presentation. Another thing I did was to "prepare" for conversations with acquaintances. I know silence can be so awkward for us introverts so I made sure I had a few topics in my backpocket if I knew I was going to be in a meeting or a conversation with someone I didn't know well.
A few years ago, I made a big leap to sales (yes sales!) and I have not looked back since. It can be done, just have the heart and will to overcome your shyness so you can really show your mettle. :)
Good luck and I'm rooting for you!
Shiyoung (David)’s Answer
Have you ever watched the TED video "The power of introverts" by Susan Cain? It tells you about what is the real characteristic of introvert person and could change your view about introverts. We could easily guess which job is proper for extroverts or introverts. For example, we could easily think "extroverts would do better in marketing job" or "introverts would do better in writing". However, each characteristic could work differently in the same field. Even some marketing job could work well for introverts and writing could be the job for extroverts. Below is the example from the video.
"Interesting research by Adam Grant at the Wharton School has found that introverted leaders often deliver better outcomes than extroverts do, because when they are managing proactive employees, they’re much more likely to let those employees run with their ideas, whereas an extrovert can, quite unwittingly, get so excited about things that they’re putting their own stamp on things, and other people’s ideas might not as easily then bubble up to the surface. Now in fact, some of our transformative leaders in history have been introverts. I’ll give you some examples. Eleanor Roosevelt, Rosa Parks, Gandhi — all these peopled described themselves as quiet and soft-spoken and even shy."
As above, there is no limited space for introverts. I cannot tell you which jobs/courses are best for introverts in this writing, but hope this video could inspire you to find the proper course of your life!
https://youtu.be/c0KYU2j0TM4
Johanna’s Answer
Choosing a course is definitely a big and tough decision , which I think many people have struggled with. So don't feel bad if you're having a hard time. What is it that you enjoy doing? What is your passion? What problems do you enjoy solving? I think you should absolutely pursue whatever that is.
Good luck!
Amun’s Answer
All the best!
Hammad’s Answer
From personal experience I would suggest:
Accounting
Accounting is a profession which requires a great deal of independent work and concentration. While can expect to work with clients or other team members on certain briefs, accountants typically prefer to work autonomously.
Of course, to enter into a career in accounting you’ve also got be good with numbers. So, a degree in accountancy is ideal for people with strong mathematical and analytical skills. Although you don’t necessarily need to study a related subject at degree level, it will help you to gain the prerequisite knowledge and skills. Relevant subjects include maths, economics, accounting, and business.
I would suggest to research online for others.
Hope this helps.
Hammad Saeed
John’s Answer
First of all I think that someone can be a so-called introvert and still be a good public speaker. While you might not be a talk show host, it doesn't mean you can't have a career which involves public speaking. Public speaking is mostly about preparation and and knowing your subject matter - neither of which has anything to do with being "shy" in social settings. I would be considered a quiet/reserved person in social settings, but I think I am a very good public speaker and an even better panel moderator. Second of all I think people overuse the word introvert - simply not being a chatty person doesn't necessarily make you an introvert - the more important question is how good listener you are because communication is two way.
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Rachel’s Answer
It might help to start with a field you are interested in and then narrow it down to positions you're more comfortable with as an introvert. For me, I first decided to be an public accountant and then chose to specialize in tax accounting. Part of that decision was because I knew tax accountants tend to spend more time working on individual assignments than auditors who often work in teams. Not to say that I don't work in teams, because I do (everyone does), but it certainly seems less team based than audit work.
Find something you like to do, then talk to people in that field to figure out where you could fit in and/or research it online. Also, don't stress about your college courses too much, nothing is set in stone. You can change your major and courses later, and even if you don't, you don't need to work in the field you majored in.