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Is it okay to feel scare to start working?

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Racheal’s Answer

What an excellent question. Absolutely it's okay to be scared to start working. In fact, I would be concerned if a person wasn't scared. I think the beauty in starting a new job and determining all the things that are unknown is what keeps us grounded, humble and teachable.
Your confidence will grow overtime once you get acclimated into the process, however, it is totally fine to be scared and vulnerable because that's part of human nature.
Best of luck!
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Mia’s Answer

Hello Adamar
Yes it's normal to feel a little apprehensive when started a new job or anything new. You will do well. Take advantage of every training opportunity that the job offers!


Hope this helps!
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Jaclyn’s Answer

Yes, it is ok to feel scared and completely normal. But, with starting something new you might find that its not so scary and that you might be great at what you will be doing. So just listen, take notes, and I am sure everyone will help you to become better.
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Kinsey’s Answer

Of course! Trying new things can be daunting, and this absolutely includes working a new job or even taking a different position within the same employer. If you feel intimidated, I recommend observing and practicing whatever you can as much as you can. The more you learn about and practice anything, the more comfortable and confident you will become. At some point, new things become the usual and you will gain confidence.

I remember when I was in college and began waiting tables; I was horrible at balancing my tray and spilled two drinks on the same person… at different times. I was nervous trying a new job to begin with, and making a mistake made it worse. However, I practiced and figured out ways of working that led me to be successful. Over time I built confidence and ended up working my way into management.


Years later, I still remember that learning curve and the humility that comes with it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nervous; sometimes feeling uncomfortable means you are actually acting upon the opportunity to grow, and you will be proud of yourself looking back!
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Koji’s Answer

It is completely normal to feel scared after all this is something new to you. Trust me, the fear will go away once you have settled in and as you get familiar with your new surroundings, co workers and your job.
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Brandon’s Answer

Of course it is fine to feel scared when you first start out on a job. When you start out, it is normal to be scared of the new environment, especially if you are trying really hard not to mess up on something. For some people, they can get really stressed out, mostly because they are not used to all of the new responsibilities required in performing the job!
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Ed’s Answer

It is okay to feel scared and completely normal. Face your fear, don't let it prevent you from working or trying new things. The fear will quickly dissipate as you become familiar with the new experience. Enjoy your independence!
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Howard’s Answer

ABSOLUTELY!! Most people experience various level of anxiety when staring a new job or thinking being in a new environment.The key is to not let your fear or anxiety prohibit you from being able to learn, observe, ans ask questions in regard to your new job. these things will help you deal with and control your anxieties.
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Kevin’s Answer

Yes, I am sure most people were nervous and/or apprehensive about starting to work!

take a deep breath, try your best, listen and learn, everything will work out just fine

Good Luck
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Yasemin’s Answer

Hi Adamar! Yes of course it's completely normal! I can relate to what you are saying because when I was in high school I applied to many places and couldn't find a job then college came and suddenly I had three jobs! My third job came later on, which was when I was a tutor but for each of them I was scared because for the first time I was actually going to make my own money and learn to navigate my world along with going to college. I think it takes time to really adjust to new settings, I forget the professional term but even in psychology there is a concept where if you are in a new role, such as working in a job you didn't before, it can feel weird and out of place. Just take your time because soon you will definitely start to adapt to the new changes happening and hopefully even be happy with them!

Best of luck!
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Brett’s Answer

Hello,
Of course its ok to feel scared, I think we all are scared of new situations (whether we admit it or not). Put your best foot forward and realize that once you do what it is you are scared of it is no longer new and you have no reason to be scared. Good Luck!
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Kruti’s Answer

New things are scary – and it's totally natural to feel anxious about starting a new job. But remember: it will pass. If your fear is getting out of hand, remember that new things always turn into familiar things. It just takes time.
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Aparna’s Answer

Everyone at one point in their life, just like you must have felt that way. It's ok to feel scared as it is something you have never done before but believe me you will overcome your fear once you step into it. Think about swimming as an analogy, water can be scary at first, but as you learn how to swim you will enjoy water and swimming. Good luck! Believe you can do and take a deep breath and count 100 backwards, you will relax and take your first steps.

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Natasha’s Answer

Yes, it's all right to be scared or unsure. It's like the 1st day of school or collage. But know that the work environment is going to support you. There will be people around to help and as long as you have a smile on your face and a positive attitude, YOU will do well.
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Alejandro’s Answer

Oh man! Of course! There are questions like "What if I get fired for not knowing how to do something right away?" and "Every other employee there will know much more than I!", and that's normal. Just remember they all know you're new, they are not expecting you to learn it all in the first day, let alone the first few weeks. All those other employees were in your exact same position. Don't worry, everyone will make sure you know how to complete the tasks properly and also you can always ask questions. Always ask, it's better to ask rather than assume.
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