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My name sunnia , I’m quite but when it’s time to talk I’m going to participate . I don’t like groups n crowds . I’m independent but struggle sometimes . I’m a lesbian and my label is a stem .. I like whatever is going to get me to the money .. I like being active . #money #lgbtq #nonchalant
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Dexter’s Answer
Hi Sunnia,
I think it's totally fine to focus on your financial objectives to find a career for yourself. I always grew up without much money, and so financial security was my top goal after I graduated from college. Now, I will say that working on a job that you actually enjoy doing will help you earn even more money though, as your natural joy for the work will allow you to outpace your peers, which will lead to you out earning them.
For me, I'm also an introvert, but I had to start my career at my company's helpdesk. I faked the extrovert/super-social personality until I found my home as a web developer. I've found that programming allows you to be as anti-social as I'd like, and still do well in my career. If you find joy in designing (UI/UX work), programming (developer), system administration (computers), or influencing others (program manager), I'd recommend this line of work. It's a natural fit for introverts like ourselves.
I wish you the best of luck, Sunnia. If you have any additional questions, just add a comment and I'll do my best to answer!
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I think it's totally fine to focus on your financial objectives to find a career for yourself. I always grew up without much money, and so financial security was my top goal after I graduated from college. Now, I will say that working on a job that you actually enjoy doing will help you earn even more money though, as your natural joy for the work will allow you to outpace your peers, which will lead to you out earning them.
For me, I'm also an introvert, but I had to start my career at my company's helpdesk. I faked the extrovert/super-social personality until I found my home as a web developer. I've found that programming allows you to be as anti-social as I'd like, and still do well in my career. If you find joy in designing (UI/UX work), programming (developer), system administration (computers), or influencing others (program manager), I'd recommend this line of work. It's a natural fit for introverts like ourselves.
I wish you the best of luck, Sunnia. If you have any additional questions, just add a comment and I'll do my best to answer!
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Thank you dexter
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Tara’s Answer
Hey Sunnia, it’s a great thing to know what your top priority is! This often takes years to figure out. As others have already mentioned, being quiet and more of an introvert is a great strength. The professional world is changing, and employers are increasingly aware that they must build diverse teams to achieve maximum potential. This means that the things that differentiate you from the crowd will be seen as great attributes, adding value to your colleagues, team, employer (be they private or public).
As non binary trans masculine and rather introvert myself, it took me a long time to figure out my own place in the professional world. For the majority of my professional career, I tried to fit in with the crowd, play by the rules, and made decisions based on what was expected of me, not based no what I truly wanted. Being at peace with yourself, figuring out what you want and going after it can take time. I got a masters in international law, but worked in company management first, then founded nonprofits and lead nonprofit projects in the humanitarian and gender equality sector. I also dabbled in entrepreneurship; being your own boss is fun, exciting, but can be a tougher challenge than working for an employer.
I had always shy’d away from the corporate world, due to its reputation of being heteronormative, gender conforming and sexist. But, I stumbled across a job opening on Linkedin for an entry level sales role (Business/Sales Development Representative) for a tech company that seemed to “walk the talk” of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion. I gave it a try and was immediately impressed. The company culture, colleagues and day to day of the job were such a fun discovery, and the money was great too. What’s more, their social impact arm was the perfect home for my career ambitions and passion for humanitarian/environmental advocacy.
I would never have expected to find my place in this world, but the shoe fits. And I think that’s what it comes down to. You can’t really plan where you will feel like home, but setting your priorities (as you’ve done) going with your gut (and trusting your instinct) and being true to yourself (do not change who you are for others, your difference is your strength) are recipes for success. And, in my experience, once you’ve found something you like/love doing, money will follow.
Best of luck!
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As non binary trans masculine and rather introvert myself, it took me a long time to figure out my own place in the professional world. For the majority of my professional career, I tried to fit in with the crowd, play by the rules, and made decisions based on what was expected of me, not based no what I truly wanted. Being at peace with yourself, figuring out what you want and going after it can take time. I got a masters in international law, but worked in company management first, then founded nonprofits and lead nonprofit projects in the humanitarian and gender equality sector. I also dabbled in entrepreneurship; being your own boss is fun, exciting, but can be a tougher challenge than working for an employer.
I had always shy’d away from the corporate world, due to its reputation of being heteronormative, gender conforming and sexist. But, I stumbled across a job opening on Linkedin for an entry level sales role (Business/Sales Development Representative) for a tech company that seemed to “walk the talk” of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion. I gave it a try and was immediately impressed. The company culture, colleagues and day to day of the job were such a fun discovery, and the money was great too. What’s more, their social impact arm was the perfect home for my career ambitions and passion for humanitarian/environmental advocacy.
I would never have expected to find my place in this world, but the shoe fits. And I think that’s what it comes down to. You can’t really plan where you will feel like home, but setting your priorities (as you’ve done) going with your gut (and trusting your instinct) and being true to yourself (do not change who you are for others, your difference is your strength) are recipes for success. And, in my experience, once you’ve found something you like/love doing, money will follow.
Best of luck!
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Rebecca’s Answer
Hi, we would behave differently under different circumstance. Some people may talk more when in front of people they are familiar with and quiet when in front of strangers . Sometimes, it also depends on our mood or energy level.
I would suggest you to be honest to yourself. Don't push yourself too much if you do not really to be talk a lot. Having said that, you have also to be open minded and optimistic. If you really do not want to talk too much, you just feel relax and try to keep some smile on your face and relax. This still can show you are friendly.
Also, don't label yourself on anything and care how people label you. Just be yourself and live an a way you are comfortable. You are unique in this world.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
I would suggest you to be honest to yourself. Don't push yourself too much if you do not really to be talk a lot. Having said that, you have also to be open minded and optimistic. If you really do not want to talk too much, you just feel relax and try to keep some smile on your face and relax. This still can show you are friendly.
Also, don't label yourself on anything and care how people label you. Just be yourself and live an a way you are comfortable. You are unique in this world.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
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Tammy’s Answer
Hello Sunnia,
I think you have a wonderful opportunity to explore your interests and find out what will make you happy. Not everyone is an extrovert although it may seem that way. The book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain was a very freeing read. It helped me to recognize the advantages that introverts offer.
In terms of finding what will bring you the money, it is time to roll up your sleeves and do some research. What careers or jobs can you think of and learn about them; the education requirements, the benefits, what person best fits the job, etc. If you cannot identify what it is that you would like to do, than the next step is to dip your toe in the water. Try things. Ask people currently doing them - by email so you can craft the message on your terms. Apply for entry level positions. Do volunteer work in the field. Read as much as you can about the field.
Good luck!
I think you have a wonderful opportunity to explore your interests and find out what will make you happy. Not everyone is an extrovert although it may seem that way. The book "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain was a very freeing read. It helped me to recognize the advantages that introverts offer.
In terms of finding what will bring you the money, it is time to roll up your sleeves and do some research. What careers or jobs can you think of and learn about them; the education requirements, the benefits, what person best fits the job, etc. If you cannot identify what it is that you would like to do, than the next step is to dip your toe in the water. Try things. Ask people currently doing them - by email so you can craft the message on your terms. Apply for entry level positions. Do volunteer work in the field. Read as much as you can about the field.
Good luck!