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Alex
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How do you know that what you want to do ?
What do I want to look out for?
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Afifa Khan
Business Content writer / pharmacy student
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Hi Alex!
I wonder what stage you are now because I think it quite depends on age. If it's a teen age, there are multitudes of possibilities, try everything that intrigues you , show your full potential. As you age, coming in your 20's you kind of shrink with certain certain choices and you get a bit of idea of what you're good at, I might suggest for this age to explore possibilities within that spectrum and add your creative spark to it. Most of the time you explore what you want to do in your teenage (high school) but if you don't take some more time by your 20's and you'll get there.
I wonder what stage you are now because I think it quite depends on age. If it's a teen age, there are multitudes of possibilities, try everything that intrigues you , show your full potential. As you age, coming in your 20's you kind of shrink with certain certain choices and you get a bit of idea of what you're good at, I might suggest for this age to explore possibilities within that spectrum and add your creative spark to it. Most of the time you explore what you want to do in your teenage (high school) but if you don't take some more time by your 20's and you'll get there.
Michelle M.
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How you know what you want to do and what you look out for is your perceived inspiration. That will let you know what you are drawn to . You already know what you don't like, so you can eliminate those things as possibilities, and what's left ? Things you like, love and are good at. If it helps to make a list of all the things that you enjoy, make the list and engage yourself in those things and things that are related to them.
Many people do not even find their passion till mid-life, believe it or not. No one can tell when they will make a decision as to what career they will have, so it's fine that you do not know now. Other people know when they are very young and some people even start out with one interest and transition into a totally different interest. You find your answer to this by simply living life, exploring things you love as well as new things. Eventually, you will discover your calling.
Keep in mind whether or not you like working around crowds, working indoors or outdoors, working with a few co-workers or in a large company with many people. These are structural decisions that come from your unique personality and preferences.
Once you decide what you want to do, don't let anyone discourage you because that's just their opinion and negativity shouldn't have any bearing on your ability to create your own future. Just ignore any naysayers and build the confidence knowing you are in control of pursuing your life's dream.
Many people do not even find their passion till mid-life, believe it or not. No one can tell when they will make a decision as to what career they will have, so it's fine that you do not know now. Other people know when they are very young and some people even start out with one interest and transition into a totally different interest. You find your answer to this by simply living life, exploring things you love as well as new things. Eventually, you will discover your calling.
Keep in mind whether or not you like working around crowds, working indoors or outdoors, working with a few co-workers or in a large company with many people. These are structural decisions that come from your unique personality and preferences.
Once you decide what you want to do, don't let anyone discourage you because that's just their opinion and negativity shouldn't have any bearing on your ability to create your own future. Just ignore any naysayers and build the confidence knowing you are in control of pursuing your life's dream.
Daniela Cesconetto
Technical Support Engineer
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Hi Alex,
I work in technology, and I love it, but it took me a long time to figure out what I really wanted to do!
My advice to you is to study and get involved in the things that interest you. Don't be afraid to explore or change your mind.
For example, I studied Psychology in college and then worked with autistic kids. After a while, I realized it didn't actually bring me joy, so I went looking for different opportunities where I still worked helping people, but in a different way. Eventually I got a job working for a large technology company, and found what I really like to do.
Now, as a more experienced professional, I've been using the Japanese concept of "Ikigai" to help me narrow down my future path. In Ikigai, you think of four major questions; What you love, What you are good at, What the world needs, and What you can get paid for. Whatever intersects, or shows up, in all four lists, are the things (or thing) you pursue.
I hope this helps you find your path. I'm sure it will be a bright one!
I work in technology, and I love it, but it took me a long time to figure out what I really wanted to do!
My advice to you is to study and get involved in the things that interest you. Don't be afraid to explore or change your mind.
For example, I studied Psychology in college and then worked with autistic kids. After a while, I realized it didn't actually bring me joy, so I went looking for different opportunities where I still worked helping people, but in a different way. Eventually I got a job working for a large technology company, and found what I really like to do.
Now, as a more experienced professional, I've been using the Japanese concept of "Ikigai" to help me narrow down my future path. In Ikigai, you think of four major questions; What you love, What you are good at, What the world needs, and What you can get paid for. Whatever intersects, or shows up, in all four lists, are the things (or thing) you pursue.
I hope this helps you find your path. I'm sure it will be a bright one!
Jacob Taylor
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Jacob’s Answer
Discovering what you want to do in life can be a rewarding yet sometimes challenging journey. Here are some steps and considerations to help you gain clarity about your aspirations:
1. **Self-Reflection:** Take time to reflect on your interests, passions, and values. What activities make you feel excited and fulfilled? What causes or issues are you deeply passionate about? Your true calling often aligns with your passions.
2. **Skills and Strengths:** Identify your strengths and skills. What are you naturally good at? What do others commend you for? Recognizing your talents can guide you toward careers that utilize them.
3. **Goals and Values:** Consider your long-term goals and personal values. What kind of lifestyle do you envision? What values are most important to you, such as creativity, independence, or social impact?
4. **Exploration:** Don't be afraid to explore different interests and career options. Try internships, part-time jobs, or volunteer work in areas that intrigue you. Practical experience can clarify your preferences.
5. **Research:** Investigate various careers, industries, and educational paths. Attend career fairs, informational interviews, and networking events to learn from professionals in different fields.
6. **Education:** Pursuing further education or training may be necessary for certain careers. Research the educational requirements and consider whether you're willing to invest in the necessary qualifications.
7. **Mentorship:** Seek guidance from mentors, teachers, or career counselors who can offer insights and advice based on their experiences.
8. **Networking:** Connect with individuals in your desired field. Networking can provide valuable information, job leads, and a support system.
9. **Job Shadowing:** If possible, shadow professionals in careers you're interested in. This firsthand experience can help you understand the day-to-day realities of a job.
10. **Set Goals:** Establish clear short-term and long-term goals. What steps can you take to move closer to your desired career? Setting goals creates a roadmap for your journey.
11. **Resilience:** Be prepared for setbacks and challenges along the way. It's normal to face obstacles, but resilience and determination can help you overcome them.
12. **Listen to Feedback:** Pay attention to feedback from trusted friends, family members, and mentors. They may offer valuable insights and perspectives.
13. **Evaluate and Adjust:** Periodically assess your progress and satisfaction in your chosen path. It's okay to make adjustments or change direction if needed.
14. **Patience:** Finding your true calling can take time. Don't rush the process, and remember that it's normal for interests and goals to evolve.
15. **Balance Passion and Practicality:** While pursuing your passions is important, also consider the practical aspects of your chosen path, such as job availability and financial stability.
16. **Continuous Learning:** Be open to continuous learning and personal growth. The more you learn about yourself and the world, the clearer your path may become.
Remember that discovering what you want to do is a journey of self-discovery and exploration. It's perfectly normal to have doubts and uncertainties along the way. Be patient with yourself, stay open to new opportunities, and trust that with time and effort, you'll find a path that aligns with your true calling and brings you fulfillment.
1. **Self-Reflection:** Take time to reflect on your interests, passions, and values. What activities make you feel excited and fulfilled? What causes or issues are you deeply passionate about? Your true calling often aligns with your passions.
2. **Skills and Strengths:** Identify your strengths and skills. What are you naturally good at? What do others commend you for? Recognizing your talents can guide you toward careers that utilize them.
3. **Goals and Values:** Consider your long-term goals and personal values. What kind of lifestyle do you envision? What values are most important to you, such as creativity, independence, or social impact?
4. **Exploration:** Don't be afraid to explore different interests and career options. Try internships, part-time jobs, or volunteer work in areas that intrigue you. Practical experience can clarify your preferences.
5. **Research:** Investigate various careers, industries, and educational paths. Attend career fairs, informational interviews, and networking events to learn from professionals in different fields.
6. **Education:** Pursuing further education or training may be necessary for certain careers. Research the educational requirements and consider whether you're willing to invest in the necessary qualifications.
7. **Mentorship:** Seek guidance from mentors, teachers, or career counselors who can offer insights and advice based on their experiences.
8. **Networking:** Connect with individuals in your desired field. Networking can provide valuable information, job leads, and a support system.
9. **Job Shadowing:** If possible, shadow professionals in careers you're interested in. This firsthand experience can help you understand the day-to-day realities of a job.
10. **Set Goals:** Establish clear short-term and long-term goals. What steps can you take to move closer to your desired career? Setting goals creates a roadmap for your journey.
11. **Resilience:** Be prepared for setbacks and challenges along the way. It's normal to face obstacles, but resilience and determination can help you overcome them.
12. **Listen to Feedback:** Pay attention to feedback from trusted friends, family members, and mentors. They may offer valuable insights and perspectives.
13. **Evaluate and Adjust:** Periodically assess your progress and satisfaction in your chosen path. It's okay to make adjustments or change direction if needed.
14. **Patience:** Finding your true calling can take time. Don't rush the process, and remember that it's normal for interests and goals to evolve.
15. **Balance Passion and Practicality:** While pursuing your passions is important, also consider the practical aspects of your chosen path, such as job availability and financial stability.
16. **Continuous Learning:** Be open to continuous learning and personal growth. The more you learn about yourself and the world, the clearer your path may become.
Remember that discovering what you want to do is a journey of self-discovery and exploration. It's perfectly normal to have doubts and uncertainties along the way. Be patient with yourself, stay open to new opportunities, and trust that with time and effort, you'll find a path that aligns with your true calling and brings you fulfillment.
Melanie Boberg
Student Teacher
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Normal, Illinois
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Melanie’s Answer
Hi there! Focus first on what interests you most. There are so many job options out there suited to just about any interest you could think of. Once you've narrowed down your interests, research what types of jobs are available to you based on those interests. Then, find a program or school that can provide you the education or experience to reach your desired position. There may not be a job that is 100% always tailored to your interests, so be open to different options and if your high school offers opportunities to experience different career fields definitely take those opportunities!
Vasanth Kumar U
Principal Engineer International Product Support
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Bengaluru, Karnataka, India
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Vasanth’s Answer
My advice to you is to pursue what sparks your interest and where you can truly concentrate. Whether it's a small or big task, never let the chance slip away. Even if it's just for learning, it could prove to be beneficial in the future. Keep going!
Charly Rodriguez
DJ/producer
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Miami, Florida
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Charly’s Answer
Hi Good morning! Dig deep inside you and feel what do you love to do and go for it, be honest to your self. Good luck!