How hard is it to have a family and work while working on your BSN? #continuinged
Trying to decide to keep going or not?? #family #work-life #work-life-balance #nursing #healthcare
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Karen’s Answer
It is very hard to work when you are working and trying to go back to school. Then if you have children that depend on you for the survival, It is even more difficult.
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Carmen’s Answer
You have to set boundaries, rules, and hold others accountable. As women, we think we have that S on our chest and buy into those articles in the magazines that we have to be Supermom, Superwife, Superwoman. I would let my family know that I was going to be unavailable and in a room doing homework and not disturb me. I had to set the rules that I was not the only one who could do household chores and cook.
I also was blessed with supervisors and coworkers who supported and encouraged me throughout my schooling. They would cover tasks and trade on-call with me based on my school schedule and clinical hours.
Sit down and write out what you think is doable and what you can let go in order to reach your goals, i.e., going out with friends on the weekend, laundry getting done every other week rather than weekly, living with a bit more dust on the furniture because you are studying. Keep striving and do not stop, if it becomes overwhelming, ask for help. We have so many people who love us and want to see us succeed, but we just do not want to ask for help. Do it, you will be pleasantly surprised at who steps up to the plate! Good luck!
Lisa Suiter
Lisa’s Answer
Hi Camille, It can be very challenging. It depends on you as an individual. I would also say that you have to consider the age of the children if any as a toddler will make it a challenge to study especially if they are in the clingy Velcro to Mom stage. Hopefully you have a really good support system to help with the demands of trying to keep a home, and quality family time. It can be done, sometime you have to take longer to complete the classes, but in the end you will find it to be very rewarding. The most important thing is to remember to take time for yourself. If you don't reward yourself and allow some time for you, you will find it too difficult and often times the person will drop out of school. By going to school and the challenges of a family you will ultimately learn time management skills. That is a quality that will be invaluable in the workforce. It also depends on the number of credit hours you take per semester. 12 hours vs 22 hours. It also depends on the class and how intense it is, for example chemistry, anatomy, pharmacology classes are usually very intensive and require a lot of homework and studying. A lot of nursing students will work as a nursing tech in the hospital or nursing homes to not only get additional bedside experience, but to also supplement their income. A lot of the schools are associated with a particular hospital, and that hospital will usually have limited hour positions for the nursing students. Often times that will Segway into a position upon graduation. Nursing is the best profession there is in my opinion, 33 years and counting.
Good luck Lisa
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Melissa’s Answer
I went to nursing school with a breastfeeding newborn, a 3 year old, and a 6 year old...by myself with no help.
I went back for the BSN when they were 4, 7 and 10...
I went back for the MSN- FNP when they were 10, 13 and 16...
Because when we have a goal, we are totally capable of making it happen. The only problem ends up being second- guessing our capability to handle life and school.
The hard thing would have been to NOT go back, and living with the regret of not doing what I knew I wanted to do. Which was get more education, so that I had more choices for me and my family.
If you already are a nurse, and you are going back for the BSN: The BSN is nothing like nursing school! Nothing. Like. It. I was very scared to go back to nursing school because I thought I would be encountering the same difficulty as the ADN program. I was wrong.
If you are talking about a BSN program in which you don't already have an RN: Just do it if this is something that has been put on your heart to do. Don't look back, and don't ask others for their opinions. Make a decision and go all in.
Best of everything to you and yours,
Melissa
Jessie’s Answer
I hope some of these examples help you! I post daily on my instagram about my life as a travel nurse, in and outside of work, if you'd like a better idea of how I manage my time, give me a look-see.
Good luck!
Jessie Johnson
@messyjessielee
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Carly’s Answer
Hi Camille,
It is challenging to work, juggle a family and work on your BSN. It is more possible than ever though with the flexibility of online schooling. Your dreams can be reality.
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Daniel’s Answer
I was still able to eat well, keep up my fitness, work full time for the government, and even do a small amount of volunteering as a paramedic for a local agency. All while undergoing the full time nursing school life and clinicals and competency psychomotor testing modules like everyone else.
I would recommend getting a support network of in the program. I was part of the Veteran Group program and found that being part of a group actually helped decide the work and you can draw strength from the collective experience as everyone has strengths in certain areas.
I will not promise that it is easy or for the faint of heart but if you are passionate enough about it, I have no question whether it is possible! Good luck!
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