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Estelle’s Answer
Rita’s Answer
Hi Preia,
I am a member of a sorority that continues after college. I think it is important first to consider the type of sorority you are interested in and conduct your research. Sororities can be different individually; this includes requirements and processes. The common Fraternity & Sorority Councils are:
Interfraternity Council
Multicultural Greek Council
National Pan-Hellenic Council
Panhellenic Association
They are all unique in their own ways.
I would recommend that you ask your student life office about the various sororities on campus and obtain brochures and websites for the ones onsite. I also suggest researching and attending any events of sororities on your campus so you can learn more about what they do.
Make sure you keep up your grades, be active on campus and help with the communnity.
Good luck!
Rita
Courtney’s Answer
Hi Preia,
I was in a sorority in college, and I found it to be one of the most rewarding experiences. I met many friends who I am still close with 15 years later! I would recommend that you ask your college what sororities there are and how to become a member of one. Sororities are usually focused on ensuring members get good grades and are open and social people. I'd encourage you to keep up your focus on studying in school and when it comes time to join a sorority, be open and honest and your true self.
Best of luck to you!
Courtney
Grace’s Answer
Sororities for the most part can also have a bad rap due to the movies or media so research is key. Good luck and I hope you will find a great, supportive, fun sorority.
Johanna’s Answer
You will want to look for an organization that has a high chapter GPA (they focus on academics) as well as a positive social image on campus. You won’t be able to tell that until you are actually a student on campus, however, you can check out general stats for the organizations beforehand. You can ask questions during campus visits about fundraisers held, participation level of the campus with the Greek organizations’ activities, the overall feeling of Greek life, and whether any of the organizations are on probation or have been sanctioned recently.
Also, while joining a sorority can be a positive experience that lasts a lifetime, if you are ever asked to do any activity that makes you uncomfortable (these acts are called hazing and are banned by the national and campus organizations), refuse and report. There are still exceptions where some groups break that rule.
Also, know going in that pledging a sorority is a time and financial commitment. Some women join only to find that they can’t balance work, sorority activities, and/or academics. Understanding your limits going in can save you lots of disappointment and stress later.
Mostly, though, pledging a sorority gives you a lifelong connection to others, as well as offering endless options for leadership and growth, well past your college years. I was initiated in 1991 and still serve as a volunteer for my sorority’s chapter on my alma mater’s campus, as well as with the alumnae and national organizations.