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How understanding do you think you must be when you are talking with your patients, and trying to help them?
I'm in 8th grade, and I would like to know how understanding you have to be in this job field of a psychologist.
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Margaret’s Answer
Hi Jacob, as a Licensed Mental Health Counselor for a number of years, this is a great question as you think about going into the helping professions (counseling, psychology). It is vital in my work as a counselor that I "meet people where THEY are" and not where I think they should be. When I step into my office to work with a person requesting counseling, stigma and judgement have to be left at the door. By being non-judgmental, we become more compassionate and accepting of ourselves and others. Hope this is helpful and good luck to you!
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Annette’s Answer
Hi Jacob, that’s a very thoughtful question. I am assuming that you are thinking of psychologists who sees patients for therapy, as opposed to a researcher or the like. I think this has to be one of the most understanding jobs. To be successful you must earn your patient’s trust. So it is critical that you are understanding and patient even if you feel their behavior or thought processes are detrimental/harmful/counter- productive. You must accept them for who they are and show that you are on their side so they will come to trust you and open themselves up to you for healing.