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Abraham
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Manchester, Connecticut
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What is the difference between a woman and man police?
I have always wanted to become a woman police but my friends are against it.
Should I be worried?
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Kevin Czora
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Amherst, New York
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Kevin’s Answer
Abraham,
There is no difference between a policeman and a policewoman. They are both police officers. As far as your concerns, let me explain the culture and job.
Being a police officer is a very physical job. Law enforcement is considered paramilitary. Our front line soldiers are almost exclusively men. The main reason for this is the physical demands of soldering. Being a police officer requires physical strength. It is not uncommon to be in physical altercations, sometimes full out fist fights with suspects. With this in mind, you must also consider that in every fight you might be in, there is a gun...yours. I had at least 3 times when a combative suspect tried grabbing my gun. If you are not physically capable of retaining your gun, it could lead to your death, or the death of others. Guns aside, being seriously physically assaulted is a possibility if you are not in proper physical shape.
Aside from the physical requirements of being a police officer, I believe having female officers is a great asset to any department. Many times, a female can de-escalate a situation better than a male. They also provide a unique comfort to female victims, and often children too.
I've worked with a number of policewomen that were outstanding officers. I encourage you, or any woman, to pursue the position. However, for your safety, and the safety of your fellow officers, you must be physically prepared for the potential threats that you will most likely face.
I hope this answers your question, and helps guide you.
Best of luck,
Kevin Czora
There is no difference between a policeman and a policewoman. They are both police officers. As far as your concerns, let me explain the culture and job.
Being a police officer is a very physical job. Law enforcement is considered paramilitary. Our front line soldiers are almost exclusively men. The main reason for this is the physical demands of soldering. Being a police officer requires physical strength. It is not uncommon to be in physical altercations, sometimes full out fist fights with suspects. With this in mind, you must also consider that in every fight you might be in, there is a gun...yours. I had at least 3 times when a combative suspect tried grabbing my gun. If you are not physically capable of retaining your gun, it could lead to your death, or the death of others. Guns aside, being seriously physically assaulted is a possibility if you are not in proper physical shape.
Aside from the physical requirements of being a police officer, I believe having female officers is a great asset to any department. Many times, a female can de-escalate a situation better than a male. They also provide a unique comfort to female victims, and often children too.
I've worked with a number of policewomen that were outstanding officers. I encourage you, or any woman, to pursue the position. However, for your safety, and the safety of your fellow officers, you must be physically prepared for the potential threats that you will most likely face.
I hope this answers your question, and helps guide you.
Best of luck,
Kevin Czora
Kevin, thank you for recognizing women's ability to de-escalate situations. In 25 yrs, I was never in a full-out fight. A few scuffles, that's it. Policing requires a lot of applied psychology!
Kim Igleheart
Kami Scheer
Detective
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Houston, Texas
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Kami’s Answer
Dear Abraham,
The roles and responsibilities of a female police officer are identical to those of a male police officer. In essence, there is no distinction between them; they are both simply referred to as police officers.
A career in policing can be an exhilarating and gratifying journey of service, especially for those who are drawn to this path.
Being a police officer involves extensive training and the development of essential skills such as patience. Moreover, it's crucial to know when to assert authority in various situations.
Choosing a career in law enforcement should be a thoughtful decision, based on one's individual ambitions and life goals.
I trust this information will be beneficial to you!
The roles and responsibilities of a female police officer are identical to those of a male police officer. In essence, there is no distinction between them; they are both simply referred to as police officers.
A career in policing can be an exhilarating and gratifying journey of service, especially for those who are drawn to this path.
Being a police officer involves extensive training and the development of essential skills such as patience. Moreover, it's crucial to know when to assert authority in various situations.
Choosing a career in law enforcement should be a thoughtful decision, based on one's individual ambitions and life goals.
I trust this information will be beneficial to you!
Aman Kumar
Software engineer
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Hyderabad, Telangana, India
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Aman’s Answer
Hi Abraham,
It’s great to hear about your aspirations to become a police officer! There’s a common misconception that becoming a female police officer somehow differs from being a male police officer, but in reality, the core job responsibilities and training are the same, regardless of gender. Both women and men are given the same rigorous training, engage in similar duties, and work towards the same goal of ensuring community safety. The key differences may lie in the experiences they bring to the job. Female officers often bring unique perspectives that can be incredibly valuable in a diverse community.
As for your friends being against your ambition, it’s important to remember that choosing a career path is a personal decision. Their concerns might stem from stereotypes or traditional views about gender roles in law enforcement. One way to address their worries is to share information about how women in law enforcement are making significant strides today. For example, in Connecticut, many successful female officers, like Captain Aimee Gelineau from the Stamford Police Department, have risen through the ranks and serve as role models.
Ultimately, your career should reflect your passion and interests. If becoming a police officer is what you genuinely desire, then remain true to your goals, research pathways, and consider speaking with current officers about their experiences. Pursue what feels right for you, and over time, perhaps your friends will come to support your ambition.
Best of luck on your journey!
It’s great to hear about your aspirations to become a police officer! There’s a common misconception that becoming a female police officer somehow differs from being a male police officer, but in reality, the core job responsibilities and training are the same, regardless of gender. Both women and men are given the same rigorous training, engage in similar duties, and work towards the same goal of ensuring community safety. The key differences may lie in the experiences they bring to the job. Female officers often bring unique perspectives that can be incredibly valuable in a diverse community.
As for your friends being against your ambition, it’s important to remember that choosing a career path is a personal decision. Their concerns might stem from stereotypes or traditional views about gender roles in law enforcement. One way to address their worries is to share information about how women in law enforcement are making significant strides today. For example, in Connecticut, many successful female officers, like Captain Aimee Gelineau from the Stamford Police Department, have risen through the ranks and serve as role models.
Ultimately, your career should reflect your passion and interests. If becoming a police officer is what you genuinely desire, then remain true to your goals, research pathways, and consider speaking with current officers about their experiences. Pursue what feels right for you, and over time, perhaps your friends will come to support your ambition.
Best of luck on your journey!
Kim Igleheart
Career Counselor | Police Officer
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San Antonio, Texas
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Kim’s Answer
Abraham,
As others pointed out, an officer is an officer.
What I liked about my shift is we all had different strengths, and weaknesses, but together, there was nothing we couldn't handle. I might ask a fellow officer (former truck driver) to help me make sense of a trucker's log book. He might ask me for help on how to word a part of a report. But, the ultimate thing your fellow officers will judge you by is your ability, and willingness, to help out in a fight. Because, they are putting their lives in your hands.
As a female police officer, once I "proved myself" I had the respect of my peers. All rookie officers, not just women, are unofficially evaluated by the senior officers. You prove yourself by the way you carry yourself and how you do your job. They are watching how you handle your calls. I got into a pretty good scuffle early-on, and that was all it took for me to earn their respect.
I cannot speak for your friends. They may be concerned for your safety, or, they may not respect the job. I hope they will become more supportive, because, that's what friends are supposed to do!
As others pointed out, an officer is an officer.
What I liked about my shift is we all had different strengths, and weaknesses, but together, there was nothing we couldn't handle. I might ask a fellow officer (former truck driver) to help me make sense of a trucker's log book. He might ask me for help on how to word a part of a report. But, the ultimate thing your fellow officers will judge you by is your ability, and willingness, to help out in a fight. Because, they are putting their lives in your hands.
As a female police officer, once I "proved myself" I had the respect of my peers. All rookie officers, not just women, are unofficially evaluated by the senior officers. You prove yourself by the way you carry yourself and how you do your job. They are watching how you handle your calls. I got into a pretty good scuffle early-on, and that was all it took for me to earn their respect.
I cannot speak for your friends. They may be concerned for your safety, or, they may not respect the job. I hope they will become more supportive, because, that's what friends are supposed to do!