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is it really hard to live on your own?

i just want to know before i graduate so i could be prepared

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Karen’s Answer

Good question! You can live on your own while sharing an apartment with others. My first experience living somewhere other than home with my parents was in an apartment with three girls I did not know. While uncomfortable at first, I learned a lot about how various people live through that situation. Later I was able to work toward living with just one roommate. So best if you don't limit yourself or have strict requirements on your living situation. This experience will help you to set goals for future living arrangements.

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Madi’s Answer

Hi Kierra,

Living alone for the first time can be an exciting adventure, but it may require some adjustments!

The level of difficulty in this transition largely depends on your current level of independence while living with others. For instance, when I first began living solo, I had no cooking skills and had to learn (plus, I ordered take-out quite often). In essence, you'll need to acquire various household skills, as you'll be the one and only person in charge now.

On the bright side, living on your own offers many benefits! You'll embrace your independence, have the freedom to personalize your living space, invite friends over, enjoy peaceful moments, and much more.

Good luck and a huge congratulations on your graduation!
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Becky’s Answer

Living by yourself can be as tough or as simple as you choose. If you're already taking care of daily tasks like cooking, cleaning, and going to appointments, work, or school, you're halfway there. When you move out on your own, you'll need to handle extra responsibilities like paying rent, buying food, and other essentials for daily life. All of these tasks require time. Focus on the important things first and then make time for what you enjoy. As you practice, you'll find it easier to balance your needs and wants.

To make living on your own more affordable, think about sharing a place with roommates who can help with the costs. If you pick the right ones, roommates can also be great for socializing. Set up a budget to manage your money and spending. Don't forget to save a portion of each paycheck for emergencies and your future retirement. The earlier you start saving for retirement, the less you'll need to put aside each time, and the more choices you'll have when it's time to retire. Having savings will help you handle unexpected expenses that everyone faces at some point.
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Shelia’s Answer

I wish more young people asked this question!
It is an exciting time after your graduate and start your first job. There are lots of things to consider. Is your job local to your family or out of state? Do you have a budget that would allow you to have your own apartment? Do you really want to live by yourself or would you be willing to share an apartment? Sharing an apartment will help with meal prep, splitting the house cleaning chores, and your monthly costs. And you may make a friend for life.
When I got my first job, I moved out of state and rented space in a house due to the high cost of living. There were times I enjoyed my solitude and others that I wished I had someone to share my space with. It all comes down to whether you want your privacy or whether you want a roommate to spend time with.
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A. Michelle’s Answer

Living on your own for the first time can be an adjustment, but it doesn’t have to be hard or unpleasant. Among the positives: you can decorate your space the way you want and you don’t have to worry about infringing on someone else’s time and space. Potential challenges include: having sole financial responsibility and loneliness. Make sure you have a budget that will cover your rent and other necessities and allow you to have some fun. Also, be sure to build a strong network of friends and acquaintances. Although they won’t live with you, they can support you and keep loneliness to a minimum.
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