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What do I need to do to even like anything about school?

Name is hayle I'm in 10th grand an don't like school that much

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Vivek’s Answer

Hello Hayley!

I completely understand where you're coming from, having experienced both the highs and lows of school life myself. However, it's important to remember that school serves as a stepping stone towards success. And by success, I'm not only referring to your career or financial stability, but also your personal growth. A useful strategy could be to identify what aspects of school you enjoy and the reasons behind it. Similarly, pinpoint what you dislike and understand why. By addressing these factors, I assure you, you'll soon discover elements of school that you genuinely appreciate. If you have any specific queries, don't hesitate to ask here. This way, you'll gain a variety of viewpoints, personal stories, and motivation.

Keep pushing forward!
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Ravichandran’s Answer

Simply finish your essential education, and it will pave the way for you to chase your dreams with confidence.
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Hira’s Answer

Hey Hayle! It's completely normal to feel that way about school sometimes, but there are definitely things you can do to start enjoying it more. Here are some tips to help you like school:

Discover your interests and focus on subjects you enjoy.
Set clear goals for yourself, both academically and personally.
Build positive relationships with teachers and classmates.
Participate in extracurricular activities to make friends and develop skills.
Visualize how education can help you achieve your long-term goals.
Break tasks into smaller steps to make studying more manageable.
Don't hesitate to ask for help when needed.
Stay organized to reduce stress and manage time effectively.
Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small.
Embrace a growth mindset and see challenges as opportunities for learning.
Take breaks and practice self-care to maintain a positive outlook.

Remember, it's okay to have bad days or moments when you don't feel like enjoying school, but implementing these tips can gradually make the experience more enjoyable and rewarding. Give them a try, and best of luck with your 10th grade journey!
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Destinee’s Answer

In today's fast-paced world, remember that education is a key stepping stone to success. Even if it's not a college degree, a high school diploma can give you an edge over others. Education often paves the way to a job, which in turn, helps you afford life's necessities. Remember, learning is an ongoing process. The knowledge you gain in school is applied every single day, from math calculations to reading and writing, like we're doing right now on this platform.

If you're finding school uninteresting or too repetitive, it's important to dig deep and understand why.

But here's an exciting thought - challenge yourself! You have the power to learn anything you set your mind to. Discover your interests, pursue them, and expand your knowledge. Dreaming about a specific career? Keep in mind that it probably requires certain educational qualifications.

And one last thing to remember: a higher level of education often leads to higher pay, and higher pay means being able to afford more than just the basics. So, keep learning, keep growing, and remember - your education is your ticket to a brighter future!
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Adam’s Answer

I can totally relate to how you're feeling right now, because I was in your shoes once. My first two years of high school were pretty tough, and my grades weren't the best. But let me tell you, it's all about working hard and making the most out of every moment, even if you're not a fan of school. One day, you'll look back at these times and feel proud of all the things you've achieved. Life can seem challenging in the moment, but when you reflect on it later, you'll realize that it was filled with amazing experiences. You'll also learn that you're capable of accomplishing tasks, even if they're not your favorite ones.

Let me share a bit of my own story. School wasn't exactly my favorite place, and my grades during sophomore year were far from impressive. I barely managed to pass three subjects: History, an elective, and P.E. I then attended a continuation school during my junior year. It was there that I realized, with the help of some fantastic teachers, that I had all the tools I needed to succeed. All I had to do was apply myself, even to tasks I didn't particularly enjoy. This realization helped me appreciate the value of hard work, and I returned to regular high school for my senior year.

What I'm trying to say is, the effort you put in now will shape your future. High school might seem like it's dragging on forever, but trust me, if you give it your all, it'll pass by in the blink of an eye. Use this time to grow and discover more about yourself.

If you're finding things tough, don't hesitate to reach out to your counselor. They might be able to help you adjust your schedule or switch up your classes. And remember, it's okay if you don't have it all figured out yet. Just keep pushing yourself, and you'll learn so much about who you are and what you're capable of.
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Katy’s Answer

Hello Hayley,

I encourage you to open up and share your thoughts with those closest to you. This could be your best friends, your teachers (whether they're from your old school or your new one), your parents, or anyone else you trust. They are there for you, ready to lend an ear and listen to what you have to say. Whether they have advice to offer or not, their support can be invaluable. Together, you can explore why this school year isn't sparking your interest and brainstorm ways to make it better.

Remember, you have the power to turn things around.

Sending you all the best and positive vibes,
Cheers, Katy H.
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Justin’s Answer

Hi Haley, I'm going to give a little bit of a different answer than many of the other people here. It's very important to graduate high school, and focus on learning the basics that they teach you. Reading, writing, spelling, math, and science are all things you'll use in the future whether you realize it or not. My grades were good but I didn't like high school either. It was boring to me. I didn't like the idea of having to come home and do homework, I just wanted to be a kid and have fun. I didn't go to college because I didn't want 4-8 more years of homework and studying. I spent 5 years after high school going from warehouse to warehouse to machine shop making just decent money. At 23 I got tired of doing that so I went to trade school for HVAC.

Basically my whole point here is this. Don't be nervous about having to go to college. You can figure all that out when the time comes. Life is a long journey. Just remember that trades are a very good option and they don't require as much classroom time as other careers.

Justin recommends the following next steps:

Finish high school and focus on learning the most you can about the core subjects.
Decide whether you'd like to sit in an office someday (lots of college/networking required) or if you'd rather work with your hands
Live life a little bit. Don't be afraid of not going to college, there's many paths in life that can lead to success
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Briana’s Answer

Hi, Hayley,

I'm sorry to hear you're having a bad time in high school. The good news is, you're already halfway done. However, it's a good idea to use some self-reflection to see what, if anything, can be done to make the rest of your time better.

You say you "don't really like" school? Okay, why? "Because it sucks" is not an answer- you need to be much more specific. What specific aspects of it do you not like? Getting up early? Being there for 8 hours for most of the week? Are the classes too difficult? Are they too boring? Do you wish you were doing something more useful with your time? Are your classmates easy or hard to get along with? These specific questions are important because they help you figure out what parts of high school you just have to grin and bare and what parts you can personally work make better.

For example, you're not going to change the 8-3, Mon-Fri school schedule. But you can take classes that you find more interesting or more useful, especially going into junior and senior year. If your school offers it, consider dual enrollment or certification courses with a local college so you can have a larger breadth of classes to pick that may be more interesting to you, and help you get off of the high school campus more often. These options can also help you graduate high school early. These can include things like health training and pre-CNA classes, cosmetology, computer science, and welding.

I also like the advice already given about using high school as an avenue to join clubs and other student organizations that focus more on things you enjoy doing and help build more positive relationships. The previous advice about practicing self care also rings true.

I also encourage you to look for more perspectives on this. It's easy to dislike high school. I didn't like high school. But other perspectives are out there. Malala Yousafzai was almost killed because she wanted to go to school. She has an entire book- and many short interviews if reading isn't your thing- about why she values school and primary education. I'm not saying you have to agree with her, but it's always good to listen to someone with a very different perspective than yours to see if you can get anything out of it and improve your own experience.

Briana recommends the following next steps:

Give this a listen: https://youtu.be/qu3aQMxkrc4
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John’s Answer

There are lots to unpack here. It's very subjective.
School is more than a place to sit in class.
It's where you meet people, finding friends and have fun too.
Consider school as a place where you can be yourself. Find like-minded folks who share your same interests.
Try thinking about what you are interested in as a career. School is where you get your basic academic start.
Try to view your time in school as a place to help you with your aspirations and even the types of jobs you might be interested in.
It's not all about class subjects. They are important, but school is an opportunity to learn and experience much more than books can teach.
Lots of extra curricular activities including sport, music, drama, which are great opportunities to get involved in also.

John recommends the following next steps:

Ask about clubs or groups to join
See if there are other student who feel like you
Talk to your teacher
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Tiarra’s Answer

Hey Hayley, I can relate to how you feel. When I was going into 10th grade, my mother abandoned my family and my father took it very hard. Things got so hard that I wondered if I was going to be homeless and even an orphan, juggling all of that plus school was extremely difficult. In high school, I shut down and felt so hopeless and it got to the point that I let my grades slip and my teachers required students to buy classroom supplies as extra credit and I could not afford to do so. As a result, I took everything one day at a time and when I was about your age, I realized I was nearing adulthood and that I was sure about attending college. So I began focusing more on my school work and got my grades back up to A's and B's and eventually back to all A's. Let's face it, much of what you learn in high school may not apply to everyday life, but college introduces you to more coursework and experience that you will need to achieve your dreams. So let's do our best and get through these next few years of high school and get into college. Once you get into college, if you want to attend, you will start doing school work that is more aligned with your interests after and it won't feel like work because you'll be studying a subject you love.
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