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How did you become who you are today?
I just had a friend who gave me amazing advice and I was wondering. if you can ask a question then really It can change a whole persons life. So who made you what you are today? And what made you be that kind of person?
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Robert’s Answer
Jazzy - I think your question is profound and I congratulate you for asking it. As I’m sure you’ll hear from many others, setting goals and working hard are basic components of a happy and successful life. For me, the greatest gift I ever received was being mentored by an individual I both respected and admired. He told me “no” when I needed it and pushed me to find my own answers instead of providing them to me - and that made me grow stronger and more confident in myself. … so try to find yourself a mentor that will challenge you and help you grow.
Thank you so much for the advice. I appreciate it :].
Jazzy
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Tina’s Answer
Hi Jazzy,
My advice is for you to believe in your self, set goals, and work harder than every one else to achieve your goals. You have the POWER to be great. Remember this:
P: Discover Your Passion
O: Find the opportunity to be Optimistic
W: Cultivate wisdom by surrounding yourself with knowledgeable people and literature.
E: Empower & Encourage Yourself.
R: Be Resilient. Fall down but get right back up.
My advice is for you to believe in your self, set goals, and work harder than every one else to achieve your goals. You have the POWER to be great. Remember this:
P: Discover Your Passion
O: Find the opportunity to be Optimistic
W: Cultivate wisdom by surrounding yourself with knowledgeable people and literature.
E: Empower & Encourage Yourself.
R: Be Resilient. Fall down but get right back up.
I appreciate this, thank you for the advice.
Jazzy
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Robert’s Answer
I believe that having confidence on one's self is extremely important. Too many of us don't believe in ourselves enough to take advantage of opportunities that present themselves out of fear of failure. One of the most important thing I've learned in life is to just do it, work hard and it may surprise you how successful you can be.
I appreciate you taking the time to answer this.
Jazzy
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Rash’s Answer
Despite not pursuing formal education beyond high school, I've managed to amass a wealth of work knowledge through hands-on experience and by seizing every training opportunity presented at work. It's important to remember that in the ever-evolving business world, adaptability, a readiness to embrace change, and an unquenchable thirst for knowledge are some of the most prized qualities an employer seeks. Always stay on the lookout for chances to acquire new skills and participate in projects. This proactive approach will not only enhance your career but also make you an invaluable asset in any work environment.
I appreciate this, thank you for the advice.
Jazzy
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Jade’s Answer
Hi Jazzy, this is an excellent question. I would not be the person I am today without my friends and colleagues who provided a strong support network for me. As you embark on your career journey, I would advise that you lean on those around you and take as many interesting opportunities as you can, because you never know who you'll meet! I have also had several mentors throughout my life and they have had a profound impact on my career path. I would recommend joining organizations that can set you up for mentorship opportunities. It's incredibly fulfilling to learn from others' experiences.
Loved reading this, thanks!
Jazzy
James Constantine Frangos
Consultant Dietitian & Software Developer since 1972 => Nutrition Education => Health & Longevity => Self-Actualization.
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James Constantine’s Answer
Hello Jazzy!
The passing of my Uncle and Dad due to cardiovascular disease deeply affected me. I initially planned to delve into the world of astronomy, inspired by the telescopes I received as presents. This led me to take up physics in grade 11. Our physics teacher introduced us to programming on the colossal PDP-10 at the Physics Department of the University of Queensland.
A turning point came when my Uncle's academic mentor from 1960, the renowned biochemistry Professor Colin Masters, joined our university as a lecturer. This sparked my interest in biochemistry, which later evolved into a fascination with nutrition. In 1988, I officially became a dietitian-nutritionist and began to apply my programming skills to nutrition education.
For more information, visit my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@JAMES_CONSTANTINE_FRANGOS.
May God bless you!
JC.
The passing of my Uncle and Dad due to cardiovascular disease deeply affected me. I initially planned to delve into the world of astronomy, inspired by the telescopes I received as presents. This led me to take up physics in grade 11. Our physics teacher introduced us to programming on the colossal PDP-10 at the Physics Department of the University of Queensland.
A turning point came when my Uncle's academic mentor from 1960, the renowned biochemistry Professor Colin Masters, joined our university as a lecturer. This sparked my interest in biochemistry, which later evolved into a fascination with nutrition. In 1988, I officially became a dietitian-nutritionist and began to apply my programming skills to nutrition education.
For more information, visit my YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/@JAMES_CONSTANTINE_FRANGOS.
May God bless you!
JC.
God bless. And I am sorry about your dad and uncle. Prayers!
Jazzy
We Will See People In Heaven! - James.
James Constantine Frangos
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Marco’s Answer
Hi Jazzy,
Important is be yourself. Be influenced be others but don’t forget your principles. Learn from others, get the best out of it and accept making mistakes.
Important is be yourself. Be influenced be others but don’t forget your principles. Learn from others, get the best out of it and accept making mistakes.
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Kim’s Answer
What made me be the kind of person I turned out to be? A potentially fatal car accident, at the age of 31. No, not the accident itself, but the way the sheriff's deputy conducted himself at the scene of the accident. He was rude and obnoxious, even though he knew I was a fellow law enforcement officer. I had been a police officer for 8 years, and, those first 8, I didn't have compassion for other peoples' situations. But, seeing how that looked from the other side totally changed the way I conducted myself as an officer, and later, as a career counselor at a state workforce office.
good question!
good question!
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Jerome’s Answer
The realization that you don’t have to compete with everyone and you just need to run your race. Be better tomorrow that you were today and keep moving forward.
The other thing is asking myself if I can change or control something. If I can’t, should I spend time worrying about things. We have 24 hours per day and worrying isn’t the best use of our time.
The other thing is asking myself if I can change or control something. If I can’t, should I spend time worrying about things. We have 24 hours per day and worrying isn’t the best use of our time.
Thanks for the advice.
Jazzy
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Jennifer’s Answer
Every manager and leader I have had has taught me something. It could be positive or negative, but every experience helps with growth and development and shapes the person/leader you become. On a personal level, my father had the greatest impact on who I am and how I think as a person. He passed away when I was very young which caused me to have to jump into leading my family and learn new things which helped me throughout my life.
Thank you for giving me advice.
Jazzy
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Carla’s Answer
I would have to say it started with being raised by strong women but also by life experience. Of course we when things are good we enjoy the rewards however, I have found, the best leasons learned have come from times when things were tough. So my advise to you is to know your strength. Be confidant and be kind. Stay positive. Life is full of surprises
Thank you, Carla for the advice.
Jazzy
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Ryan’s Answer
While it may seem that success in life is largely dependent on luck, it's important to remember that luck often occurs at the intersection of preparation and opportunity. To enhance your own luck, stay inquisitive, forge strong connections with those around you, and commit to lifelong learning. When a promising opportunity arises, don't hesitate to seize it wholeheartedly.
Take my own experience as an example. The start of my career was sparked by a job fair that I happened upon during my college years. It may seem like a stroke of luck that I noticed the sign for the event, but it was my readiness to seize the opportunity and my suitable background that enabled me to engage with the recruiters, ultimately leading to a job offer.
So, remember, luck isn't just about chance; it's about being ready and willing to take advantage of the opportunities that come your way.
Take my own experience as an example. The start of my career was sparked by a job fair that I happened upon during my college years. It may seem like a stroke of luck that I noticed the sign for the event, but it was my readiness to seize the opportunity and my suitable background that enabled me to engage with the recruiters, ultimately leading to a job offer.
So, remember, luck isn't just about chance; it's about being ready and willing to take advantage of the opportunities that come your way.
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Joseph’s Answer
The path to becoming a construction manager is filled with many moving parts, but two stand out in particular: mentors and experiences. I've been fortunate enough to have mentors who have supported me, offered me helpful criticism, and inspired me to keep going. Along with the technical aspects of building, these individuals—who might have been professors, senior managers, or even coworkers—taught me the importance of leadership, problem-solving, and communication.
My decision to pursue a career in construction management was influenced by my passion for building and my need to see tangible outcomes from my work. I've always enjoyed seeing a project through to completion, so I was drawn to the challenges of managing a construction site.
I became the construction manager I am now because of the several projects I worked on over the years. I now know how to manage unanticipated challenges, oversee teams, and adhere to timelines. Every project taught me something new, from technical expertise to the importance of developing strong relationships with my clients, contractors, and team.
In the end, I believe that a mix of great mentoring, real-world experience, and a genuine love for what I do has molded my identity in this field. And I put in a lot of effort every day to share what I've learned with others, just like my mentors did for me.
My decision to pursue a career in construction management was influenced by my passion for building and my need to see tangible outcomes from my work. I've always enjoyed seeing a project through to completion, so I was drawn to the challenges of managing a construction site.
I became the construction manager I am now because of the several projects I worked on over the years. I now know how to manage unanticipated challenges, oversee teams, and adhere to timelines. Every project taught me something new, from technical expertise to the importance of developing strong relationships with my clients, contractors, and team.
In the end, I believe that a mix of great mentoring, real-world experience, and a genuine love for what I do has molded my identity in this field. And I put in a lot of effort every day to share what I've learned with others, just like my mentors did for me.
Thank you so much for sharing. I'll put your advice to work. :]
Jazzy
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Adrienn’s Answer
Excellent query, Jazzy! I hail from a disrupted family due to divorce, and I had very minimal guidance growing up. Unlike me, all my high school pals chose to go to college straight away. I, on the other hand, decided to work at the local luncheonette. Fortunately, one of my friend's father believed I'd be a great fit for "the telephone company" and brought me an application to fill out. I was thrilled, but also petrified about not completing the form because I was worried about what Mr. Albert would think of me. Little did I realize that filling out that application would turn out to be a pivotal moment in my life. I was employed by what is now Verizon, promoted twice, met a host of fantastic people, had multiple careers within the same company, witnessed the technology surge, and my proudest accomplishment was finishing 4 years of college (always on the Dean's list too)!
Here's what I believe...
You have the power to achieve anything you set your mind to! Visualize it, contemplate it, feel it, and understand that nothing is impossible.
Treat our earth and its creatures with respect. Carry yourself with confidence. Stay positive. Be grateful. Be courteous and considerate towards others. Maintain honesty.
Rely on yourself - you are the architect of your own life!
I wish you all the best on your journey.
Here's what I believe...
You have the power to achieve anything you set your mind to! Visualize it, contemplate it, feel it, and understand that nothing is impossible.
Treat our earth and its creatures with respect. Carry yourself with confidence. Stay positive. Be grateful. Be courteous and considerate towards others. Maintain honesty.
Rely on yourself - you are the architect of your own life!
I wish you all the best on your journey.
Thank you so much for your advice!
Jazzy
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Jerod’s Answer
Keep pushing yourself to learn and improve. There's always more to learn and plenty of resources to help you do so. Don't let societal norms or external distractions stop you from pursuing your goals. The saying "nobody is perfect" can sometimes hinder your pursuit of excellence. Do you believe that someone can have a perfect life? Or that someone can be the best at what they do? The answer is yes, proving that perfection and being the best are achievable. So, aim for the top, and you might just achieve perfection along the way. Collaboration is also key. A team environment, where everyone is motivating each other to achieve shared goals, can be incredibly beneficial. Teamwork can help you and your teammates reach your objectives more efficiently and quickly. So, when the chance for collaboration arises, don't dismiss it. Remember, you always have the option to go solo; it's your decision.
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Biplab’s Answer
This is a great question.
I think being influenced by motivated peers, having a strong support network both at home and at school, and developing a strong sense of self and being intrinsically motivated were the foundation for my growth in both my personal and professional life.
The day you stop learning will be the day you start dying.
Do good and do better not because someone is watching, but because you yourself would not be satisfied otherwise.
The rewards will come to you in time.
Also, this may sound odd, but Master Chief, the main character of the Halo video game series, was an inspiration for me as well. He stays calm, stays positive, and gets the job done. Always. I strived and still strive to model Master Chief every day in my interactions at work and at home. It's not always perfect, but it is genuine, and that's good enough.
I think being influenced by motivated peers, having a strong support network both at home and at school, and developing a strong sense of self and being intrinsically motivated were the foundation for my growth in both my personal and professional life.
The day you stop learning will be the day you start dying.
Do good and do better not because someone is watching, but because you yourself would not be satisfied otherwise.
The rewards will come to you in time.
Also, this may sound odd, but Master Chief, the main character of the Halo video game series, was an inspiration for me as well. He stays calm, stays positive, and gets the job done. Always. I strived and still strive to model Master Chief every day in my interactions at work and at home. It's not always perfect, but it is genuine, and that's good enough.
Thank you so much!
Jazzy
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Kevin P’s Answer
Jazzy, first I want to thank you for the vulnerable enough to ask this question. I appreciate the deeper questions that allow me to reflect a little bit as well. I could name the names of the people that have shaped me to be the person I am but I think giving some context as to why they made me who I am is more appropriate for this question. Throughout my life, I have been fortunate to encounter leaders, mentors, and trusted 'truth tellers' that have parted wisdom I share today. When I was in banking, I had a partner I worked with to close many deals, this man was the single most positive individual I have ever met. He would always say, "... the power of positive thinking". I always asked him how he can be so positive, he simply asked me in return why I was so negative. This was over 10 years ago, this made one of the strongest impressions on me. He was not my boss, he was a coworker who was really smart. I am in the military, another 'leader' that made me who I am today was terrible at leading people. He was not a good person. He was my boss for about 18 months. Every day I made notes on what I never want to do or be when I am in his position. This person taught me more than anyone, except my dad, has ever taught me. However, he taught me this by allowing me to witness all of the things I never want to be or do.
My advice to you, although you may not have asked, be the person you wish you had. Always be appropriately positive. And allow yourself to learn from people you do not admire, this will help you be better for the people that deserve you.
I do agree, one simple question can change the path for you, the person that asked, and the person you share the answer with. This makes me think that by you asking such a deep question, you are going to do some great things. Good luck.
My advice to you, although you may not have asked, be the person you wish you had. Always be appropriately positive. And allow yourself to learn from people you do not admire, this will help you be better for the people that deserve you.
I do agree, one simple question can change the path for you, the person that asked, and the person you share the answer with. This makes me think that by you asking such a deep question, you are going to do some great things. Good luck.
Thank you for sharing your perspective.
Jazzy
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Sharon’s Answer
For me, life experiences. I can remember the impact of my teachers and their love of teaching and connecting but more importantly, their caring attitude impressed upon me the need to always try and do my best. Failure helps too. It teaches you to be humble but also provides you with a determination to get up, shake it off and do better. Just remember every day we have an opportunity to make a choice to do better, try again or let it go. Just understand whatever the choice, let it always be a teaching moment.
Thank you for giving me advice.
Jazzy
Thomas O'Shea
Music Producer, Composer, Live Sound Engineer, Musician
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Thomas’s Answer
I think a lot contributed to who I am today and I think that's something people need to realize more- the outside world has an affect on you. I was a completely different person in high school and didn't think I would ever do the kinds of things I do almost on a daily now. The biggest push for me was going to college during the heat of the pandemic. I had to learn independence while also being as cautious as possible because I didn't want the corona.
As for "who", I would say a lot of friends, teachers, and professors shaped me into who I am today including my closest friends and (specifically) my professors in the music department at my college.
I think it's also important to note that EXPERIENCE is an even bigger thing that can affect who you are. All my collective experiences from everything I've done, worked on, saw, participated in, walked through, and performed all made me who I am (and I would say my experiences had an even bigger affect than the outside world and professors/ friends/ teachers.
As for "who", I would say a lot of friends, teachers, and professors shaped me into who I am today including my closest friends and (specifically) my professors in the music department at my college.
I think it's also important to note that EXPERIENCE is an even bigger thing that can affect who you are. All my collective experiences from everything I've done, worked on, saw, participated in, walked through, and performed all made me who I am (and I would say my experiences had an even bigger affect than the outside world and professors/ friends/ teachers.
Thanks for your encouragement!
Jazzy
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Samuel’s Answer
Jazzy, that's an excellent question! I'm confident you'll get a wide array of responses, each reflecting how diverse influences and life-altering events have shaped people's lives. My perspective, however, is slightly unique. While I'm profoundly thankful for the individuals who've helped mould me into the person I am today, and for the pivotal moments that have steered my life's course, I believe the most influential factor in my personal development is a single concept: unwavering commitment.
This concept implies that no matter the circumstances or choices I face, if I'm fully committed to a goal, I'll achieve it, no ifs, ands, or buts. Unwavering commitment means braving any storm, acting with a real sense of urgency, and maintaining a laser-like focus on your objective.
I hope you find this insight beneficial,
Sam
This concept implies that no matter the circumstances or choices I face, if I'm fully committed to a goal, I'll achieve it, no ifs, ands, or buts. Unwavering commitment means braving any storm, acting with a real sense of urgency, and maintaining a laser-like focus on your objective.
I hope you find this insight beneficial,
Sam
Thank you! I wish you the best of luck!
Jazzy
Dimitar Radichev
Working as a Senior Pricing Professional for IBM EMEA Region, helping the deal teams to be shaping the key opportunities within our Consulting business from a financial and commercial perspective.
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Dimitar’s Answer
Hi, I have worked very hard, often 3-4 times harder than the others, in order to excel and become a preferred business partner for colleagues and outside my company. I have learned on how to communicate in a proper way, as communicating adequately is a must in nowadays and the better you are in communication, the more success you would be entitled to.
Congrats! Cheering you on!
Jazzy
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guillaumine’s Answer
The journey to gaining discipline is much like the process of fostering self-compassion or bravely confronting our fears. It might seem daunting at first, but it's crucial to know that improvement is always within reach. By committing to regular practice, you'll learn how to use your unique strengths and the resources at your disposal to develop a sense of self-discipline that aligns with your goals. It's unhelpful to berate ourselves or measure our discipline against others. Instead, discard the notion that discipline is a natural characteristic and concentrate on honing your self-discipline to achieve the life you dream of. This mindset has been instrumental in shaping who I am today.
Thank you for giving me advice.
Jazzy
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Brian’s Answer
I've had 20 jobs in my life and each one gave me something I use today in my personal and professional life. I have become a Mr. Fix-It and have honed superior problem solving skills. My knowledge crosses over may industries and help in many fields.
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Kim’s Answer
This question is indeed thought-provoking! As a coach and leader, I've devoted considerable time to pondering it. My response is rooted in self-discovery and introspection. It's all too easy to jump from one task or challenge to the next without taking a moment to reflect on your achievements, the lessons you've learned, and the knowledge you still seek. I make it a priority to weave reflection into my weekly routine, with more substantial reflections taking place quarterly or annually, to purposefully take a breather and look back.
Here are some of the questions I pose to myself:
1. What new knowledge have I gained recently, and what more do I aim to learn?
2. What keeps me in my current job?
3. What am I eagerly anticipating each day?
4. When did I last contemplate a job change, and what triggered that thought?
5. What kind of support do I need to enrich my everyday experience?
6. How can I make a significant positive impact on the lives or experiences of those around me?
Next, I dig a bit deeper. For example, I scrutinize the reasons I remain in my job or what sparks enthusiasm in me each morning, searching for recurring themes. Is there a core belief or value that I cherish and should pay more attention to?
While some of these questions are more career-oriented, they can also be relevant to life as a whole.
This method, coupled with the priceless advice I've received about securing a mentor and pinpointing traits I admire and strive for, has proven invaluable over time. It has helped me stay true to myself in every facet of my life.
Here are some of the questions I pose to myself:
1. What new knowledge have I gained recently, and what more do I aim to learn?
2. What keeps me in my current job?
3. What am I eagerly anticipating each day?
4. When did I last contemplate a job change, and what triggered that thought?
5. What kind of support do I need to enrich my everyday experience?
6. How can I make a significant positive impact on the lives or experiences of those around me?
Next, I dig a bit deeper. For example, I scrutinize the reasons I remain in my job or what sparks enthusiasm in me each morning, searching for recurring themes. Is there a core belief or value that I cherish and should pay more attention to?
While some of these questions are more career-oriented, they can also be relevant to life as a whole.
This method, coupled with the priceless advice I've received about securing a mentor and pinpointing traits I admire and strive for, has proven invaluable over time. It has helped me stay true to myself in every facet of my life.
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Dana’s Answer
Hi Jazzy,
What an incredible and thought-provoking question you've posed! Hats off to you for bringing this to light!
I'm a firm believer that every single experience I've gone through, be it good or bad, has played a part in shaping who I am today and will continue to do so. It's really important to pause, reflect on these experiences, and find the lessons they hold.
I grew up during the communist era in Romania, witnessed the revolution, and started experiencing democracy as a teenager. This pivotal time in my life ignited my love for learning and exploring new things, which I think is the bedrock of my personality.
Having a solid support system or partnership at home is key, so think carefully before deciding on marriage or a partnership. Juggling a thriving career with most of the housework and caregiving duties can be a tough act to balance.
Life is all about making choices. As a Romanian living in the UK and a woman in STEM roles, I've had my fair share of subtle discrimination, been under-credited for my abilities, and often felt overlooked or misunderstood. It's tempting to let these experiences dent your self-belief. But, you can choose to confront them, express their effect on you, and set the tone for future interactions. I've discovered that most of the time, these actions weren't meant to hurt, and addressing them helped build a relationship of trust.
So, how did I fast-track my career?
- I've been lucky to have mentors who recognized and had faith in my potential, sometimes even more than I did.
- I invested time in pinpointing my purpose and my values. Once I defined these, my path and the decisions I needed to make became a lot more straightforward.
- I changed the way I speak to myself. I quit being too hard on myself and embraced the fact that I am the best version of me. I stopped sizing myself up against others and instead concentrated on being better than I was yesterday. This change helped me to pause, celebrate, and recognize that I am enough.
I encourage you to strive to be someone others would aspire to be like. Don't be scared to be your true self, express your needs, and call out injustice. We often erect barriers that stop us from becoming the best version of ourselves.
What an incredible and thought-provoking question you've posed! Hats off to you for bringing this to light!
I'm a firm believer that every single experience I've gone through, be it good or bad, has played a part in shaping who I am today and will continue to do so. It's really important to pause, reflect on these experiences, and find the lessons they hold.
I grew up during the communist era in Romania, witnessed the revolution, and started experiencing democracy as a teenager. This pivotal time in my life ignited my love for learning and exploring new things, which I think is the bedrock of my personality.
Having a solid support system or partnership at home is key, so think carefully before deciding on marriage or a partnership. Juggling a thriving career with most of the housework and caregiving duties can be a tough act to balance.
Life is all about making choices. As a Romanian living in the UK and a woman in STEM roles, I've had my fair share of subtle discrimination, been under-credited for my abilities, and often felt overlooked or misunderstood. It's tempting to let these experiences dent your self-belief. But, you can choose to confront them, express their effect on you, and set the tone for future interactions. I've discovered that most of the time, these actions weren't meant to hurt, and addressing them helped build a relationship of trust.
So, how did I fast-track my career?
- I've been lucky to have mentors who recognized and had faith in my potential, sometimes even more than I did.
- I invested time in pinpointing my purpose and my values. Once I defined these, my path and the decisions I needed to make became a lot more straightforward.
- I changed the way I speak to myself. I quit being too hard on myself and embraced the fact that I am the best version of me. I stopped sizing myself up against others and instead concentrated on being better than I was yesterday. This change helped me to pause, celebrate, and recognize that I am enough.
I encourage you to strive to be someone others would aspire to be like. Don't be scared to be your true self, express your needs, and call out injustice. We often erect barriers that stop us from becoming the best version of ourselves.
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Geetika’s Answer
This is a truly commendable question. Drawing from my own journey, I can say that my friends have been instrumental in shaping my career path and accomplishments. During my high school years, a dear friend encouraged me to prepare for the Engineering entrance exam. This advice led me to obtain my Bachelor's degree in Electrical Engineering. Later on, while working as an Engineer, a workmate teamed up with me to study for the GMAT. Our combined efforts paved the way for me to earn my MBA from my dream school. I attribute a large portion of my success to the support and encouragement of my friends and colleagues. The impact of a nurturing circle of friends and a strong network is truly remarkable and can profoundly shape your life's course.