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Angie
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I suck at math and I want to get better but I don’t know how.
I suck at math and it’s genuinely embarrassing. Like there’s some topics that I get but it’s a matter of remembering for me. I always forget what’s taught to me in math class. And this is specifically only for the math subject and not others like Biology, Anatomy, history, English, government and etc..
I’ve tried to teach myself but every time I do, I forget. I don’t remember key equations and I don’t remember how to go about solving it, so when presented with one on a test I freeze up. I’m a junior so I’m taking the SAT’s this year and the math portion terrifies me. I see equations and I know I can solve it but I never remember how to!
I’ve always been bad at math from a young age also, it took me a while in 3rd grade when we learned our multiplication tables to actually memorize it.
I think math is such a fascinating subject and I truly believe it’s very interesting but, I just suck at it. I don’t even know where to start when it comes to memorization and remembering. I’m willing to learn.
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Andrew Au
Professor of Mathematics & Statistics, Retired
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Andrew’s Answer
Mathematics is a language. But it is a foreign language for most of us in the sense that it is a logical, precise, and concise language. Hence, most of us are not comfortable with it, at least at the beginning of the engagement process.
I was not comfortable with mathematics when I was a young kid too. Since it is a language, it takes a lot of practice to attain competency and proficiency. It takes time and patience. Yes, it takes patience to build a solid foundation.
Your patience may be manifested in the form of a slow and methodological approach to a math problem. It is important not to skip steps and not to do some of the steps in the head. Write it down so that you can audit your thoughts afterward, especially if you get stuck or get the problem wrong. You can improve your thought process this way. Slowly, your language skills in mathematics will improve. You are better in mathematics than you think.
I was not comfortable with mathematics when I was a young kid too. Since it is a language, it takes a lot of practice to attain competency and proficiency. It takes time and patience. Yes, it takes patience to build a solid foundation.
Your patience may be manifested in the form of a slow and methodological approach to a math problem. It is important not to skip steps and not to do some of the steps in the head. Write it down so that you can audit your thoughts afterward, especially if you get stuck or get the problem wrong. You can improve your thought process this way. Slowly, your language skills in mathematics will improve. You are better in mathematics than you think.
Patrick Meyer
Executive - Data Analytics and AI
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Naperville, Illinois
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Patrick’s Answer
Angie, I want to start by saluting your grit and readiness to enhance your skills, which is the crucial first step towards conquering math. It's entirely common to find math challenging—many students are in the same boat—and it's inspiring to see your appreciation of its importance and your desire to excel. Here's a well-structured strategy to boost your confidence and memory in math:
• Regular Practice: Math is a craft that gets better with regular practice, so dedicate some time every day to tackle math problems, even if it's just for brief periods. This repetition will solidify key concepts and equations. As you work on problems, concentrate on comprehending the *method* rather than just cramming formulas.
• Simplify Complex Problems: Begin with basic problems and slowly ramp up the difficulty. If you encounter something you can't comprehend, dissect it into smaller, more manageable chunks. This will prevent you from feeling swamped and foster a deeper grasp of the concepts.
• Adopt Active Learning Techniques: Rather than passively flipping through examples or notes, employ active learning tactics like writing out equations step by step, explaining the material to someone else, or solving problems out loud. This active involvement bolsters your memory and comprehension.
• Develop Visual Aids: Utilize visual tools like cheat sheets, flashcards, or mind maps to aid in memorizing equations, rules, and formulas. Viewing the material in a different format can help cement it in your memory. You can also devise mnemonic devices to assist in remembering steps or concepts.
• Engage a Tutor: If you discover that self-study isn't sufficient, think about engaging a tutor—either face-to-face or via online platforms. A tutor can offer you tailored guidance and simplify complex concepts in a manner that resonates with you. Sometimes, a fresh explanation or approach can make a world of difference.
• Practice in Test Conditions: To gear up for the SAT and future exams, mimic test conditions by taking practice tests. This will not only acquaint you with the format but also help you grow comfortable with working under time constraints. The more you practice, the less likely you'll be to panic on the actual test day.
• Maintain a Positive Attitude and Patience: It's natural to feel vexed when things aren't falling into place immediately, but don't let those feelings deter you. Math is a subject that builds upon itself, so the more you practice, the more self-assured you'll become. Be patient with yourself and applaud your minor victories along the journey.
Finally, bear in mind that progress takes time, and stumbling blocks are part of the journey. It's commendable that you find math intriguing—it's simply about cultivating the right habits and allowing yourself time to evolve. Your hard work and tenacity will bear fruit, and you'll witness improvement over time.
• Regular Practice: Math is a craft that gets better with regular practice, so dedicate some time every day to tackle math problems, even if it's just for brief periods. This repetition will solidify key concepts and equations. As you work on problems, concentrate on comprehending the *method* rather than just cramming formulas.
• Simplify Complex Problems: Begin with basic problems and slowly ramp up the difficulty. If you encounter something you can't comprehend, dissect it into smaller, more manageable chunks. This will prevent you from feeling swamped and foster a deeper grasp of the concepts.
• Adopt Active Learning Techniques: Rather than passively flipping through examples or notes, employ active learning tactics like writing out equations step by step, explaining the material to someone else, or solving problems out loud. This active involvement bolsters your memory and comprehension.
• Develop Visual Aids: Utilize visual tools like cheat sheets, flashcards, or mind maps to aid in memorizing equations, rules, and formulas. Viewing the material in a different format can help cement it in your memory. You can also devise mnemonic devices to assist in remembering steps or concepts.
• Engage a Tutor: If you discover that self-study isn't sufficient, think about engaging a tutor—either face-to-face or via online platforms. A tutor can offer you tailored guidance and simplify complex concepts in a manner that resonates with you. Sometimes, a fresh explanation or approach can make a world of difference.
• Practice in Test Conditions: To gear up for the SAT and future exams, mimic test conditions by taking practice tests. This will not only acquaint you with the format but also help you grow comfortable with working under time constraints. The more you practice, the less likely you'll be to panic on the actual test day.
• Maintain a Positive Attitude and Patience: It's natural to feel vexed when things aren't falling into place immediately, but don't let those feelings deter you. Math is a subject that builds upon itself, so the more you practice, the more self-assured you'll become. Be patient with yourself and applaud your minor victories along the journey.
Finally, bear in mind that progress takes time, and stumbling blocks are part of the journey. It's commendable that you find math intriguing—it's simply about cultivating the right habits and allowing yourself time to evolve. Your hard work and tenacity will bear fruit, and you'll witness improvement over time.
Martha Kramer
Corporate Training, Communications
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Stamford, Connecticut
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Martha’s Answer
Hi, Angie - you have asked a very relatable question and already have received excellent advice. I commend you for recognizing an area for improvement and seeking help. A few more thoughts:
- I just doublechecked, and the SAT provides common equations on the instruction sheet. So you don't have to worry about that.
- If you have trouble remembering math but not other subjects, I wonder if anxiety about math is hurting you. Being in nature for a few minutes or taking some deep breaths before starting on math problems could help. Notice as your performance improves with practice - which I am confident it will. That will help reduce anxiety over time.
- You said you have tried teaching yourself. Have you tried studying with someone else? The camaraderie could be motivating, and exploring concepts out loud could be reinforcing.
- Michelle mentioned college general ed requirements. Many colleges / universities have a math requirement but don't worry because their definition is usually broad. For example, a music theory course counted for one of my children.
Wishing you good luck!
- I just doublechecked, and the SAT provides common equations on the instruction sheet. So you don't have to worry about that.
- If you have trouble remembering math but not other subjects, I wonder if anxiety about math is hurting you. Being in nature for a few minutes or taking some deep breaths before starting on math problems could help. Notice as your performance improves with practice - which I am confident it will. That will help reduce anxiety over time.
- You said you have tried teaching yourself. Have you tried studying with someone else? The camaraderie could be motivating, and exploring concepts out loud could be reinforcing.
- Michelle mentioned college general ed requirements. Many colleges / universities have a math requirement but don't worry because their definition is usually broad. For example, a music theory course counted for one of my children.
Wishing you good luck!
Kathie Zhao
Sr Analyst
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New York, New York
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Kathie’s Answer
Hi Angie,
That can be very stressful! I was not very good at math, and I was really bad at memorizing my multiplication tables as well. I would highly recommend looking on Youtube for educational content (Khan Academy, was a great resource when I was in school) and sometimes you just need someone who is explaining things a bit differently. People learn in so many different ways, and there is nothing wrong with that.
That can be very stressful! I was not very good at math, and I was really bad at memorizing my multiplication tables as well. I would highly recommend looking on Youtube for educational content (Khan Academy, was a great resource when I was in school) and sometimes you just need someone who is explaining things a bit differently. People learn in so many different ways, and there is nothing wrong with that.
Tysm! I use khan academy sometimes for studying. It does help me but it still struggle with remembering otherwise. But I’ll definitely start using it more frequently.
Angie
Lisa Pourmaleki
Capabilities Specialist
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Hartford, Connecticut
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Lisa’s Answer
While math might not be everyone's cup of tea, don't worry! To ace your SATs, consider enrolling in an SAT study class. Your school counselor should be able to guide you to nearby options. Alternatively, team up with a study buddy who excels in math, they might be able to teach you some handy tricks.
Remember, it's crucial to recognize your strengths. Identify the subjects you're naturally good at and think about pursuing a career in that field. However, if you're determined to improve your math skills, consider taking a few classes online or at a local community college. Seek out a mentor or tutor who can provide you with personalized guidance.
Remember, success is within your reach. Good luck, and believe in yourself! You can absolutely do this!
Remember, it's crucial to recognize your strengths. Identify the subjects you're naturally good at and think about pursuing a career in that field. However, if you're determined to improve your math skills, consider taking a few classes online or at a local community college. Seek out a mentor or tutor who can provide you with personalized guidance.
Remember, success is within your reach. Good luck, and believe in yourself! You can absolutely do this!
Ethan Sontay
Drafter/Designer
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Moreno Valley, California
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Ethan’s Answer
I want to start off by saying, it doesn't sound like your giving yourself enough credit. You said yourself that you know you can do these problems, you just feel a little uncertain when the test comes. If it helps, try seeing if your teachers can give you practice tests, or quizzes to help with getting comfortablewith taking "tests", and I'd ask ever question I can, even if you have to stay at lunch or a little after school. But yes as the other person has stated, sometimes it takes a new person to explain something for it to click. I'd try YouTube, tik tok, your friends, anyone. Flash cards are always great. I remember for notes, I'd write down as much as I could in school, and when I had free time, I'd re-write the notes, highlight them, and add sub notes. When a question would come on the test, sometimes I could picture that equation in my notes, thanks to the colors/the moment I was writing it down again. Lastly it's never too late, you can always get better, and just know as long as your giving it everything you got, you shouldn't be so hard on yourself. YOU GOT THIS!!!!
Ask your teacher for tips/extra test to take.
Look online for help
Try re-writing notes
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Thank you so much! I have started trying to practice more, because I know math is mostly about practice. I do agree with rewriting things as that has also worked in the past. I’ll definitely implement your advice into my life and hopefully I can improve!
Angie
Nyair Washington, M.A., LGPC, NCC
School-Based Therapist
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Upper Marlboro, Maryland
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Nyair’s Answer
Hey Angie,
First off, let's figure out how you learn best. Are you a visual learner who likes pictures and diagrams? Or maybe you learn by listening (auditory)? Perhaps you prefer reading and writing? Or do you learn best by doing things (kinesthetic)? Once we know that, we can tailor your study methods accordingly!
For instance, if you're a visual learner, YouTube videos can be a great resource. If you're an auditory learner, why not make up a catchy song to help remember things? If you love reading and writing, highlighting key words or concepts could be your go-to method. And if you're a kinesthetic learner, using fidget tools or manipulatives might be just the thing for you.
Don't forget about practice tests either. They're one of the best ways to get used to what can sometimes be a pretty stressful experience, and they've been shown to really boost results for lots of people!
And remember, there's no shame in asking for help if you need it. Your school might even have free tutoring options you can check out. Just ask your counselor or teacher about it.
First off, let's figure out how you learn best. Are you a visual learner who likes pictures and diagrams? Or maybe you learn by listening (auditory)? Perhaps you prefer reading and writing? Or do you learn best by doing things (kinesthetic)? Once we know that, we can tailor your study methods accordingly!
For instance, if you're a visual learner, YouTube videos can be a great resource. If you're an auditory learner, why not make up a catchy song to help remember things? If you love reading and writing, highlighting key words or concepts could be your go-to method. And if you're a kinesthetic learner, using fidget tools or manipulatives might be just the thing for you.
Don't forget about practice tests either. They're one of the best ways to get used to what can sometimes be a pretty stressful experience, and they've been shown to really boost results for lots of people!
And remember, there's no shame in asking for help if you need it. Your school might even have free tutoring options you can check out. Just ask your counselor or teacher about it.
Michelle M.
Entertainment Industry
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Michelle’s Answer
Hello, Angie !
This is a good question and when you get the definitive answer, let me know ! I was also bad at math but unlike you, I held no interest in it. The best thing for me was memorizing the times tables which I found to be the only thing easy around math. I recently saw a great tee shirt that said, "4 out of 3 people are bad at Math", LOL.
In elementary, junior high and high school, I also looked at Math as memorization, but it's not and that's where I went wrong. Fortunately, my career didn't need math, but one has to look at it as understanding the steps, formula and path to get the answer. I could never do that. It just looked like a foreign language to me, and that can happen if you don't relate to numbers, rather are a person who relates to words.
Something that may help is to buy an actual SAT Study Guide book and practice the Math section as much as you can before you take the SAT. If you do not like your score the first time you take it, take it again in the Fall of your senior year. Colleges look at a lot more than just your SAT scores, too. There is no limit to how many times you can take the test, but I know that I took it being really horrific at Math and got a fairly decent score (don't leave any of the Math or other questions blank) and I had four years of great college experience with a good GPA. I went to college in California and at that ancient time, you had the choice to take either Public Speaking or Math for your general ed requirements. Naturally, I took Public Speaking and therefore avoided the Math. I am not sure if colleges anywhere do this anymore, give students a choice between Math and something else for general ed requirements, but you can do a search at some college websites to see if some still do that.
Perhaps if you watch some Math Instruction on You Tube videos, it may help. The instructors may have a different yet easier approach that you may find helpful. I have left a link for high school level instruction at a link below.
In the meantime, fill some time with extracurriculars, volunteer work and anything connected to what you have in mind as a career pursuit. These are some of the other things that colleges look at besides SAT scores. Also, just to let you know, but I advise taking the SAT, some colleges aren't even requiring the SAT scores anymore. But I would say to definitely plan to take it just in case you apply to a college that wants it. It is something that you can look into once you know which colleges you will be applying for.
I hope that this helps you and I wish you all the best !
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This is a good question and when you get the definitive answer, let me know ! I was also bad at math but unlike you, I held no interest in it. The best thing for me was memorizing the times tables which I found to be the only thing easy around math. I recently saw a great tee shirt that said, "4 out of 3 people are bad at Math", LOL.
In elementary, junior high and high school, I also looked at Math as memorization, but it's not and that's where I went wrong. Fortunately, my career didn't need math, but one has to look at it as understanding the steps, formula and path to get the answer. I could never do that. It just looked like a foreign language to me, and that can happen if you don't relate to numbers, rather are a person who relates to words.
Something that may help is to buy an actual SAT Study Guide book and practice the Math section as much as you can before you take the SAT. If you do not like your score the first time you take it, take it again in the Fall of your senior year. Colleges look at a lot more than just your SAT scores, too. There is no limit to how many times you can take the test, but I know that I took it being really horrific at Math and got a fairly decent score (don't leave any of the Math or other questions blank) and I had four years of great college experience with a good GPA. I went to college in California and at that ancient time, you had the choice to take either Public Speaking or Math for your general ed requirements. Naturally, I took Public Speaking and therefore avoided the Math. I am not sure if colleges anywhere do this anymore, give students a choice between Math and something else for general ed requirements, but you can do a search at some college websites to see if some still do that.
Perhaps if you watch some Math Instruction on You Tube videos, it may help. The instructors may have a different yet easier approach that you may find helpful. I have left a link for high school level instruction at a link below.
In the meantime, fill some time with extracurriculars, volunteer work and anything connected to what you have in mind as a career pursuit. These are some of the other things that colleges look at besides SAT scores. Also, just to let you know, but I advise taking the SAT, some colleges aren't even requiring the SAT scores anymore. But I would say to definitely plan to take it just in case you apply to a college that wants it. It is something that you can look into once you know which colleges you will be applying for.
I hope that this helps you and I wish you all the best !
Michelle recommends the following next steps:
Priyanka Shah
Business Development Manager
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New York, New York
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Priyanka’s Answer
Hey Angie! It's fantastic that you're eager to better yourself! Remember, we're all one-of-a-kind and we process different subjects at our own pace. When it comes to math, the key is consistent practice! The more you work on it, the more familiar and at ease you'll become. There's no magic trick to it, it's all about dedicating a good amount of time to working through problems. I also suggest making use of resources like Khan Academy!
Patrick Meyer
Executive - Data Analytics and AI
750
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Naperville, Illinois
Updated
Patrick’s Answer
Angie, it's truly commendable that you're dedicated to enhancing your math skills. Identifying areas where you need help is the initial stride towards advancement. Given your struggle with remembering and recalling, it's beneficial to adopt a diverse strategy to boost your comprehension and recollection of math concepts.
Begin by establishing a robust base in fundamental concepts through regular practice. Use platforms like Khan Academy or Coursera for well-organized lessons and practice problems that match your current level. Include active learning methods such as making flashcards for crucial equations and concepts, and frequently review these to strengthen your memory. Solving a range of problems is vital; it helps apply concepts in various situations, which aids in retention.
Also, consider studying in brief, concentrated sessions instead of long, sporadic ones to enhance retention. Don't hesitate to get assistance from a tutor or participate in a study group where you can discuss and collaboratively solve problems. Lastly, incorporate math into your everyday life by identifying practical applications for the concepts you're learning. This can make the material more relevant and simpler to remember. With commitment and these tactics, you can gain confidence and improve your math performance.
Begin by establishing a robust base in fundamental concepts through regular practice. Use platforms like Khan Academy or Coursera for well-organized lessons and practice problems that match your current level. Include active learning methods such as making flashcards for crucial equations and concepts, and frequently review these to strengthen your memory. Solving a range of problems is vital; it helps apply concepts in various situations, which aids in retention.
Also, consider studying in brief, concentrated sessions instead of long, sporadic ones to enhance retention. Don't hesitate to get assistance from a tutor or participate in a study group where you can discuss and collaboratively solve problems. Lastly, incorporate math into your everyday life by identifying practical applications for the concepts you're learning. This can make the material more relevant and simpler to remember. With commitment and these tactics, you can gain confidence and improve your math performance.
Charlene Polite Corley
Market Research
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Clinton, Maryland
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Charlene’s Answer
Great advice already so I'll just add to shift your mindset. You don't suck at math, certain topics haven't clicked yet. You are capable and there are resources to help you--YouTube, TikTok and Instagram have great creators that break things down in creative ways and Duolingo just launched a math feature on their app. Math is indeed a language. Work on building your confidence just as much as you work on building your skillset. You got this!!!