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Why choose a career?

I don't really know what career to choose as 1) I don't want a career and 2) nothing really interests me.

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Karin’s Answer

Hi Felix,

That's an interesting question to ponder.
There are several aspects to it.

What is it about a career or a job that makes it so unappealing to you? Is it how much time is spent working that you would rather spend doing something else? Is it the focus our societies place on buying and having "stuff"? Are you just overwhelmed by the choice and the pressure to be "a success" (like we all are at times)? Are you bored at school?

I take it, money is not very important for you. But, unless you are rich or have support, someone needs to pay for the dog food as they say. So, at some point you'll need to have at least a job if not a career. As you get older you might also feel different about money.

I don't believe that nothing interests you. Everyone is interested in something even if it is playing video games all day.

Are you still in school? Is there any subject you find interesting and you are good at?

Do you have any hobbies? Are you an artsy type? Do you like to work with your hands? Do you like to be outdoors?

What are your friends and classmates doing/planning to do? What kind of jobs are your parents/neighbors/your friends' parents doing? Is there nothing where you think "I wish I knew how to fix cars/work with wood/own a restaurant/fly an airplane like they are doing"?

Please consider these questions and take it from there. If you are still in school, meet with your guidance counselor to help you identify jobs/careers that might suit you. It's all about matching your unique personality and talents with something you would like to do (or at least not hate).

Maybe you can find a job that pays enough that you can take off several months to travel. I have met people who taught English or worked as a skiing instructor in a high-paying country for half a year which allowed them to travel the remaining 6 months. That would leave you time for other pursuits.

Maybe you have some artsy/crafty talents that you could sell?

Don't start university unless your heart is in it. It's too expensive for that. Take a time-out, get some perspective. When you know what you want, you can go back to school.

Also, you don't need to do the same job all your life.

I hope this helps! All the best to you!

KP
Thank you comment icon I don't know, I just don't want to work some big important job and I feel I won't be good at it. I don't find any subjects interesting and I'm good at none of them, sometimes I barely scrape by with D's and C's. No to all three of those questions. No, again all the jobs seem too boring and maybe even overwhelming. No, I'm not artistic at all unfortunately. Thanks Felix
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Chinyere’s Answer

Hi Felix,

Good question! It’s okay to feel uncertain about choosing a career—it’s a big decision, and not everyone knows exactly what they want right away. Here are some things to consider if you’re feeling stuck:

1. Why Choose a Career?
Having a career doesn’t necessarily mean tying yourself to one thing for life. It’s more about finding a way to:
- Support Yourself Financially: A career helps you afford the life you want, whether it’s traveling, hobbies, or just independence.
- Create Opportunities: A job can open doors, even if it’s not your “dream job.” It gives you skills and connections for future options.
- Grow as a Person: Work often teaches you new skills, builds confidence, and helps you discover what you enjoy (or don’t enjoy).

2. What If Nothing Interests You?
If you’re unsure what you like, try this:
- Explore Through Experiences: Take on part-time jobs, internships, or volunteering in different fields to see what clicks. Even if you don’t love it, you’ll learn what you don’t want, which is just as valuable.
- Think About Your Values: What matters most to you? Helping people? Creativity? Stability? Adventure? A career can align with those values.
- Start with Skills: Focus on learning skills that are in demand (like communication, tech, or trade skills). These can lead to opportunities later.

3. You Don’t Have to “Choose” Right Now
Instead of trying to pick a career for life, focus on what’s next:
- Get a Job: Even if it’s temporary, working can teach you about yourself and what you want in a career.
- Try New Hobbies or Courses: You might discover interests you never thought about before.
- Take a Gap Year: If possible, spend time exploring your interests through travel, volunteering, or short-term jobs.

4. Focus on Flexibility
If committing to one path feels overwhelming, look into careers that offer variety and flexibility, like freelancing, remote work, or jobs in creative industries. These allow you to pivot and grow as your interests evolve.

It’s okay not to know what you want right now. Many people take time to figure it out, and there’s no one “right way” to build a career. Focus on small steps—learning, exploring, and building confidence. Even if you’re not passionate about a job, it can still be a stepping stone to something better. You’ve got time—don’t stress!

Best wishes!
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Racheal’s Answer

Hello, and thank you for your question. I think when it comes to a career, it all comes down to what interest your, pay, value and personality.
The interest you have can induce your innovation which is much needed in any career. Being able to set a trend is helpful.
When it comes to pay, that seems obvious. You should consider your worth and be compensated for your output just like anyone else. Moreso, the world values money so how will you live without it. Considering value, what are the internal characteristics that you can add to the others and your career? What do you want to look back on to determine looking back on life? Lastly, consider the type of personality you have and the way you flex it in different settings and around others.
Hope this helps
Thank you comment icon I don't have interests but thanks for trying Felix
Thank you comment icon Understand, however keep that in mind regarding interview questions Racheal Noble, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC, NCC
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James Constantine’s Answer

Good Day Felix!

MY OPINION:-

Maybe you will have a change of the way you feel about this decision. What could make you feel different? Maybe step back from the deciding process for awhile until you feel you can do this! Take your time at this process, because you feel you are not equipped to do this at present! There are People that can counsel you out of the way you feel, but you are need to desire their assistance first! So when and if you are ready!

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ARTIFICIAL INTELLIGENCE'S OPINION:-

[WHEN YOU FEEL YOU CAN MAKE THE DECISION!]

Why Choose a Career?

Choosing a career is a significant decision that can shape your future in various ways. It involves considering your interests, values, skills, and the opportunities available in the job market. Here are some key points to consider when contemplating why one might choose a career:

1. Understanding Personal Interests and Values

The first step in choosing a career is self-reflection. Understanding what you enjoy doing and what you value can help guide your decision. For instance, if you have an interest in helping others, careers in healthcare or education might be appealing. Conversely, if you enjoy problem-solving and technology, fields like engineering or computer science could be suitable.

2. Skills Assessment

Evaluating your skills is crucial in determining which careers may be a good fit for you. This includes both hard skills (like technical abilities) and soft skills (like communication and teamwork). Identifying your strengths can help narrow down potential career paths where you can excel.

3. Exploring Career Options

Once you have an understanding of your interests and skills, researching different careers is essential. This can involve looking into job descriptions, required qualifications, salary expectations, and growth potential within various fields. Online resources such as the Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) provide comprehensive information about different occupations.

4. The Importance of Job Satisfaction

A fulfilling career can lead to greater job satisfaction, which contributes to overall happiness and well-being. Engaging in work that aligns with your interests and values often results in higher motivation and productivity levels.

5. Financial Considerations

While passion is important, financial stability is also a critical factor when choosing a career. Researching average salaries for potential careers can help ensure that the chosen path meets your financial needs.

6. Long-Term Goals

Consider where you see yourself in the future—both personally and professionally. Setting long-term goals can provide direction as you explore different career options.

7. Seeking Guidance

If you’re feeling uncertain about your career choice, seeking guidance from mentors, career counselors, or professionals in fields of interest can provide valuable insights and support.

In conclusion, while it may seem daunting to choose a career when nothing particularly interests you at the moment, taking time for self-reflection, exploring options based on your skills and values, considering financial implications, setting long-term goals, and seeking guidance can all contribute to making an informed decision about your future.

Top 3 Authoritative Sources Used:

1. U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS)
The BLS provides extensive data on employment trends across various industries including job descriptions, salary information, educational requirements, and projected growth rates for different occupations.

2. National Career Development Association (NCDA)
The NCDA offers resources related to career development theories and practices that assist individuals in making informed decisions about their careers through self-assessment tools and guidance materials.

3. American Psychological Association (APA)
The APA provides research-based insights into factors influencing job satisfaction and personal fulfillment in careers which helps individuals understand the psychological aspects of choosing a profession aligned with their interests and values.

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Thank you comment icon I don't feel I'll ever be ready Felix
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Thank you comment icon I hope so but for now I don't want any careers Felix
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Rebecca’s Answer

Thank you for your question.
Below are my suggestions:
1. I believe you have something you have interest, eg your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc. and then you can identify the related careers
Eg if you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music composer, music producer, etc
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an accountant, engineer, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counselor, your parents, etc
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges
Hope this helps! Good luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Thank you comment icon I don't really have hobbies or favorite subjects. I don't have any careers I'd like to pursue. Felix
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John’s Answer

Hi Felix,

Great question. Why choose a career? My answer is simple: DON'T.

Most people would love to not work and just enjoy life, but having stable income makes it much easier to enjoy life instead of suffering through it.

Young people in high school and even college are still in the process of discovering who they are, what's important to them, and what their interests are. How can you be expected to choose a career path before even knowing enough about yourself to make an informed decision?

Instead here's what I would recomend.
1. Take lots of different courses about subjects that you are interested in.
2. Travel, network, and meet lots of different types of people. Ask them about their values, motivations, interests, what they do for work, what makes them good at it, and what they like/dislike about it.
3. Experience many different things until you find something that calls to you.
4. Inventory your strengths, interests, and think about how those intersect with needs in the world or what people are willing to pay for.
5. Develop your weaknesses. Sometimes people's weakness can become one of their greatest strengths.
6. Read a lot of books. This is another great way to gain perspective, live vicariously through other people, learn about new things, and understand people.
7. Think about your skills and where they could be applied in a work setting that would make you a valued asset.
8. Consider what kind of things you do and don't like to do.
9. Keep hobies as hobies. For instance if you love gaming you might enjoy being a professional gamer, or game tester. However, having to play games all day would make them less fun. I recommend having a few passion hobies and not trying to turn them into careers. That way you can always enjoy them in your spare time.

So take your time. Travel. Explore. Get to know yourself. In time a career might end up chosing you or becoming apparent. There's no rush to choose a career. I've done lots of different types of jobs and they've all given me skills and experience that is valuable to me now in my career.

That said, there is something unique you have that the world needs. The world is literally waiting for you to share your gifts with it. Better get into what you've got to get into. And for God's sake, enjoy the ride!

I hope this helps. All the best,
-John
Thank you comment icon I don't have strengths or interests. My weakness is everything. I don't have any skills. I don't like to do anything. Good news, I don't have any hobbies. No there's not, I supply nothing new or "unique" to this world. Felix
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Zoheb’s Answer

Time is an interesting concept. When we are younger, time seems to move so slowly, and what we find interesting is often short-lived. We rush to find the next best thing that might give us a feeling or even the hope of a feeling of being truly interested in something. Looking back, I know that as a teenager, I didn’t give many opportunities a genuine attempt to see if I actually liked something, especially if it was difficult to do. Putting yourself out there to explore what you might like—and hopefully become passionate about—takes courage.

Whatever you attempt, even if it doesn’t work out or you’re no longer interested in it, shouldn’t feel like a failure or just another unchecked item on your to-do list. Instead, think of it as getting one step closer to finding something you truly love. That being said, as I mentioned above, it is hard. It should be hard. It should be challenging. But with each attempt, you’ll know you are up for the challenge, and you’ll feel more confident in yourself. You can honestly tell yourself that you’ve tried. Consider these words and reevaluate the idea that nothing currently interests you. I promise there is definitely something out there for you—a passion waiting for you to discover and pursue.

That said, there’s another reality for many people: sometimes, what you do isn’t exactly what you love, but it serves as a means to an end. Speaking from personal experience, when I was a teenager, I had zero idea of what I wanted to do. Even during university, I often felt lost. I wasn’t aware of the opportunities around me and truly felt stuck. However, one thing I did know was that I wanted to have a family and be a father.

Looking back now, I feel blessed. I have an amazing career as an Architect working at Salesforce in IT, and I am also fortunate to be a husband and a father. I will tell you this: my number one job is to be a father, this no matter what is my "ends". If I were to lose interest or passion for my paying job, it wouldn’t matter because I would still need to find another job, "my means", to support my primary role as a father—something I am incredibly passionate about.

Hope this helps!

Cheers,
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Jade’s Answer

Hi Felix,

There's already some great answers on here but just to add to that, I am from and living in Dublin, Ireland. I lived abroad for oronto Ontario when I was 27 for 2 years. This put me in a position where I couldn't be too picky about where I work as I went over with little savings and needed to pay rent and eat and therefore travelling abroad forced me to really think about my priorities. In Canada, I initially thought I would work as an animation artist as I had always wanted to work in that area and had a creative background educationally, but I took a job at a Recruitment agency and ended up really enjoying the HR space as I like helping people. I tried out a couple of weeks at an animation studio also and realised that I hated the hours (late nights) and really low pay starting out, working in a dark room most of the time I knew wouldn't suit me long term. The job at the recruiting agency got me thinking more about People Operations and my current job is in HR on a Benefits team and I've worked at different tech companies since moving home to Ireland in 2019. I got another qualification specific to this in 2022 during lockdown and HR is where I see myself staying long term, but who knows - life might have other plans.

HR was never what I thought I would end up doing as like I mentioned, I had a creative background, but it's a steady job, and financially allows me to still work on creative projects when I have time, I also love helping employees as much as I can so it's rewarding in that sense + the working hours are really beneficial if you're someone who likes to have a 9-5 type structure.

What I will say is finding the right industry is more important than finding the right job because if you find the right industry that suits your personality - you can be yourself there and narrow it down by finding the best company to match that and even if you just take any job at first there (could be entry level or receptionist for example) you can move around internally and progress.

Please see my next steps below and I'm happy to help anytime.

Jade recommends the following next steps:

Write down a list of 5 things you value in life
Write down 5 different industry's you're interested in
Register with 5 different Recruiting Agencies and sign up for Temp work. This way you can try different things with no commitments and will be paid quickly for the hours you do
Write down 5 things you know you definitely would hate to do
Last piece of advice is, remember that you can change lanes anytime, no one has to know 100% what they're happy to do or be good at from the get go, life is about trying new things and figuring it out :)
Thank you comment icon I value nothing, life has no meaning to me. I am not interested in any industry. I would hate to do everything. Thanks for trying to help but I don't want you to waste your time Felix
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Dr’s Answer

Alright Felix, let’s map out a *step-by-step plan* to get you rolling as a Professional Shopper in Eagle Mountain, Utah! 🛍️🦸‍♂️

### **Skills You Need to Build**
You don’t need to be a fashion expert, but you *do* need a few key skills to make this gig work:

1. **Basic Style Sense**:
Even if you’re not all about high-end fashion, just knowing what looks good on different body types or for different occasions will help. Start paying attention to the stuff people wear around you—what’s trending? What looks comfy and stylish?

2. **Customer Understanding**:
Think of this like being a *shopping therapist*. You need to know your client’s needs, style, and budget. Is someone looking for a chic look for a wedding, or do they need something cozy for the weekend? Listen, ask questions, and match their vibe.

3. **Time Management**:
As a personal shopper, you’ll be juggling different clients and their shopping needs. Being organized with your time and efficient at picking out items is a big plus. You don’t want to be wasting hours hunting down the perfect hoodie when someone’s only willing to spend 30 minutes at the mall.

4. **Social Media Savvy**:
If you want to grow your personal shopper business, social media is your friend. It’s how people will find you! You don’t need to be a pro photographer—just take decent pictures of the outfits you pick out or the things you’re recommending. Use Instagram or TikTok to show off your finds and give style tips. This helps build trust with your audience.

5. **Negotiation and Communication**:
You’re basically working with a client and helping them make choices, so being able to explain why a piece of clothing works for them (or not) is key. Also, you’ll be setting prices, so knowing how to negotiate and communicate your value will be helpful.

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### **How to Start as a Professional Shopper in Eagle Mountain, Utah**

1. **Identify Your Niche**
What type of shopping do you *actually* enjoy? Maybe you're into:
- Casual wear for everyday people
- Outdoor gear for hikers and adventurers (Utah’s got some amazing outdoor spots)
- Work-from-home wardrobe updates (sweatpants, but make it stylish)
- Special event outfits (like weddings or family photoshoots)

Find out what area interests you the most, and dive in! You can start small and expand as you go.

2. **Create a Simple Portfolio**
You don’t need a fancy website to get started. Just snap some pics of outfits you've put together, or if you're just starting, create mock outfits based on what you know looks good. Post them on Instagram, Facebook, or even Pinterest. You could also offer free consultations to a few friends to get some positive testimonials!

3. **Sign Up for Platforms**
Since you're based in Eagle Mountain, you can start local and expand as you get the hang of it:
- **Stitch Fix**: You can apply to become a stylist (and get paid to pick outfits for people who sign up for the service).
- **Trunk Club**: This is another platform where you pick out clothes for people, and they get shipped to their door.
- **Poshmark** or **ThredUp**: These are great for reselling clothes, and if you're really good at finding *gems* at secondhand stores, you could build a business flipping clothes.

4. **Local Networking**
In Eagle Mountain (and Utah in general), there are a ton of people into outdoor and adventure gear. Partner up with local stores that sell outdoor clothing, or see if there are local boutiques that need a personal shopper. You could also put up flyers at local gyms, coffee shops, or coworking spaces. Word of mouth goes a long way!

5. **Offer Virtual Shopping**
For clients outside your area, you could set up virtual shopping services! This way, you help people shop from the comfort of their home—whether that’s picking out items for them or simply sending them links to great finds. Plus, you could do this without leaving your couch. Win-win!

6. **Pricing Your Services**
Start by offering competitive pricing:
- If you’re new, you could charge by the hour (think $20-40/hour), or you could charge per shopping trip (say $50-$100 depending on the time commitment).
- Once you get some testimonials and a few repeat clients, you can increase your rates.

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### **Where to Begin: A Simple First Step**

- **Start by Offering Free Consultations**:
Go on Facebook groups or local community boards and offer a free shopping consultation for the first 3-5 people who sign up. Help them find an outfit for a specific event, a wardrobe overhaul, or something they’ve been struggling with.
**Why?** This lets you practice the job, get some real-world feedback, and get those first reviews without having to worry about making mistakes. Plus, the people you help might recommend you to others!

- **Promote Local Businesses**:
Reach out to local shops in Eagle Mountain (or nearby areas like Saratoga Springs or Lehi) and offer to help them create curated outfits for their customers. Some stores might let you post about their items on your social media in exchange for a commission or a small fee.

- **Take Advantage of Utah’s Outdoor Scene**:
If you’re a fan of the outdoors, you can specialize in helping people find the best hiking clothes, gear, or shoes for local adventures. People love Utah’s natural beauty, and they often need someone to help them shop for gear!

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### **Remember**:
This job is all about *helping others* and offering a service they can’t easily do themselves (or don’t want to). You don’t have to be a shopping wizard, but if you’re good at picking things out that people would like or feel comfortable in, you’ll succeed! You can start small with local clients and grow your network with online platforms, social media, and word of mouth.

And the best part? You don’t have to like *everything*—you just need to help people find what works for them. If you’re picking out the perfect jeans that someone else wants, you’ve already won. 🏆
Thank you comment icon I just said it might be interesting. I'm not reading all that and I doubt I have the skills to pull of being lazy as a job Felix
Thank you comment icon Just grab your passport, a handful of pocket change, and boom—instant wanderer status. Who needs a job when you can “work” as a professional snack-taster and beach-dweller? 🌍✈️ Trust me, I’ve been there, just sitting around wondering if napping could become an Olympic sport (spoiler: it hasn’t yet). But hey, sometimes the road teaches you things you didn’t know you needed, like how to barter with coconuts or how to expertly dodge tourist traps. So go out there, be a wandering guru, and who knows, maybe you’ll find the secret to the lazy job after all! 😆 Dont kill your brain reading all the above!!! Dr H
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Éverton’s Answer

Hi Felix! Here I'm going direct to the subject, whatever you want or not, choose a career is something that you need to do. It is simple, because the system works that. Your parents provided you a education and helped you understand the wourld and you need to do the next step. Take care, keep the right track!
Thank you comment icon I've got no idea what "the right track" is, and honestly college seems like a waste Felix
Thank you comment icon Ok, but at some moment you'll need to choose. Look around and see something that is possible. Éverton Backes
Thank you comment icon I don't really want to do anything though Felix
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John’s Answer

Hi Felix,

I'm commenting here in response to all of the comments you've made on this post. First, can I ask why are you posting here? What are you hoping to get out of these interactions? Next, I'd like to challenge some of your statements.

"I don't have any strengths or interests" - This is not true. You are able to use a computer and socialize online. You are writing questions and comments using correct punctuation, grammar, and capitalization. You can read, write and type.

"I don't feel I'll ever be ready" - Start before you're ready. If you wait to do anything until you think you're ready, you'll never start anything. Also, when you think you're ready, that is only your opinion, which may or not be correct. That's OK. Starting is more important than being ready.

"I don't have interests" - What do you do in your spare time? Are there any particular shows you enjoy watching or movies you like? Do you like talking with people - if so about what? Do you stare blankly at a wall? If so, you might be interested in meditation and minfulness. There's nothing in the world or space that you think is interesting? History, cultures, food, medicine, plants, animals, biology, geology, marine life, psychology, comedy, music, art, religion, philosophy, evolution, automobiles, planes, quantum mechanics, aliens, ghosts, psychics, dreams, motivtions, fear, insecurity, ego, identity, sex, politics, economics.... Nothing is interesting?

"I just don't want to work some big important job and I feel I won't be good at it." - You don't have to work some big important job, and wont at first anyway. You could work at a plant nursery, fast food, car wash, lawn care, deliver food, wash dishes, etc. That's totally OK, but it will give you something to do. Fear of not being good is common even among professionals. That's what pushes people to continually improve their skills.

"all the jobs seem too boring and maybe even overwhelming" - Every job will be boring if you have no interests. Every job will be overwhelming if you have no skills. Luckily, you do have skills as I noted above. However - news flash: it's called "work" for a reason. It's not always fun and exciting. I love my job but you have no idea how many meetings I have to attend in a week.

"I'm not artistic at all unfortunately" - You were created. You are part of creation. You are creating words and messages in everything you're typing here. You are creative. Do you ever play? Did you ever practice "make believe" when you were a child? That is creativity. It may come more easily to some people but it is a skill that can be developed just like any other.

"I've got no idea what "the right track" is, and honestly college seems like a waste" - Nobody knows what the "right track" is at first. Lots of people change career paths half-way through their life, and that's totally OK. College may be dull and grueling if you only go to a community college or online school. However, if you're able to go to a university and live there it's the most fun you'll ever have in your life. It's the time when you'll have the most freedom and the least amount of responsibility. I would go to college forever if I could.

"I supply nothing new or "unique" to this world." - I've never seen a post or comments so hopelessly defiant. That makes it unique.

In all seriousness, step one for you is to stop this negative self-talk. Words have power, and the more you tell yourself this garbage, the more you'll believe it. Perception becomes reality. Start saying the opposite things and you'll start developing skills and interests. If you're not able to break this pattern, talking with your parents or a trained professional might help. You owe it to yourself to tell a better story. All the best,

-John
Thank you comment icon I don't know why I'm posting here. How am I supposed to apply that to a job? I watch shows but it's a waste of time, I don't do anything productive. None of those are interesting and 4 of them I don't even believe in. I'm going to work small jobs but not just at first, I'm probably going to be stuck at a minimum wage job all my life. I never had much of a childhood and I don't know if I used to make believe because I can't remember that long ago. I doubt it, college is too expensive and the grades I would probably get there would be like D's F's and maybe C's. How am I supposed to apply being defiant to a career? I'm in therapy but I don't think it helps, it's another thing I don't believe in. Saying something doesn't make it true, just look at conspiracy theorists. Felix
Thank you comment icon Thanks for trying to help but it's no use, don't waste your time Felix
Thank you comment icon Find something that's worth getting out of bed for. Best of luck- John Hand
Thank you comment icon Nothing really is, much less a career Felix
Thank you comment icon Everyone here wants to see you succeed. Defiance makes history. Give yourself some grace and keep an open mind. Everything you need is already within you. You'll never find it if you don't look. In the grand scheme of things, we are quite insignificant, so nothing really matters and everything is a waste of time. If you find a way to enjoy wasting time, your existence will be much more peasant. Maybe even fun. The helpless card won't get you very far. You wouldn't be posting here and commenting if something wasn't driving you. I hope you find it! John Hand
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Bright’s Answer

This is the advice I can give. Be encouraged as well. f you're unsure about choosing a career because you don't feel interested or motivated, here's a summarized approach to help:

Explore Interests: Try new hobbies, volunteer, or take short courses to discover hidden passions.
Focus on Skills: Identify things you’re naturally good at or skills you can develop that could lead to practical opportunities.
Consider Practical Needs: Look for jobs that meet your financial goals or offer flexibility without requiring a long-term commitment.
Set Small Goals: Instead of aiming for a “dream career,” focus on short-term work or projects that help you grow and learn.
Take Your Time: It's okay to not have a clear path. Focus on self-discovery and experimenting with different roles or fields.
Thank you comment icon I don't have a hidden passion or skills, thanks for the advice though Felix
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Dr’s Answer

Hey Felix! First off, I just want to say— It’s totally okay to not have it all figured out yet. So let’s put on our explorer hats (I’ll even give you a compass... metaphorically!) and start figuring this out together, step by step!

1. What Do You Enjoy Doing Right Now? 🎮🍕

Okay, so this might sound like a trick question, but hear me out. Even though you're like “I don’t really care about careers,” there’s gotta be something you enjoy in your day-to-day life, right? Whether it's gaming, watching movies, chilling with friends, or maybe something like organizing things (don’t underestimate your passion for tidying up your room!), these hobbies can help point us in a direction! Sometimes, what we love doing as a hobby can be turned into something you never imagined would be a career!

2. Try Stuff Without Pressure 📅

Don’t stress about making the "perfect" choice—try different things to see what clicks. Whether it’s doing an online course, volunteering, or just reading about random jobs (weirdly, I bet you’ll find something you never knew existed!), testing things out is the key. So, sign up for some random online courses or maybe join a local club or group. You might find your interest in something you never thought about before. Plus, it’ll keep things fun! Maybe you’ll discover you’re a wizard at coding, or you might secretly love baking cakes. You never know until you try!

3. Don’t Ignore the Side Hustles 💡

Not every job has to be your “career” from day one. You could start small with a side hustle. Maybe you’re into graphic design but didn’t think about it as a career? Or you like making crafts and could sell them online? Side jobs can be a fun way to dip your toes into different interests without the pressure of “picking a career.” You might just end up making extra money while figuring out what you really want to do!

4. Think About What You’re Curious About 🤔

Is there something you’re super curious about but just haven’t explored yet? It could be anything from the way cars work to how people become expert storytellers on TikTok. Explore those interests. Dive deep into something that catches your attention—even if it’s a totally random YouTube rabbit hole. Curiosity is one of the best ways to discover your next obsession!

5. Talk to People Who Do Things You’re Curious About 🗣️

Sometimes, all it takes is talking to someone who has a job you’ve never considered. Maybe your friend’s cousin is a marine biologist, or your neighbor is an archaeologist who digs up old stuff for fun (seriously, this is a thing!). Ask them about their job. Learning about different careers can open your eyes to things you might never have thought about before!

6. Take the Pressure Off 🎈

It’s okay if you don’t have the perfect answer right now. Life’s not a race, and the more relaxed you are, the more likely you are to stumble upon something that clicks. Even if you’re just doing things that make you happy now, that’s already a great start! Plus, figuring things out doesn’t have to be serious business all the time. You’ve got time to explore, and no one says you have to choose your “forever career” today!


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So, Felix, my friend, take a deep breath and embrace the fact that it’s okay to not know yet. Try stuff, keep it lighthearted, and you’ll eventually find what sparks that little fire inside you. And remember, you’re not alone on this journey—I’m here to help you brainstorm whenever you need it! 👊💥

As for your career, maybe start by asking yourself, “What’s the worst thing that could happen if I just tried something random today?” Spoiler alert: the answer is nothing—and you might have fun along the way. Keep it fun, keep it chill, and you’ll figure it out! ✨

Alright Felix, let’s break it down with some career ideas and make it a fun adventure! Buckle up, because you might find your future job without even trying—sometimes, it’s all about the journey, and hey, who knows, you could end up discovering something you never expected (and we’re going to have a blast doing it). So, here’s a list of careers to think about, with pros, cons, and a little bit of humor to spice it up. Ready? Let's dive in!

1. Professional Napper (Yes, It’s a Thing) 💤

Pro: Getting paid to sleep sounds like the dream. Just imagine—someone saying, “Take a nap for work,” and you just nod while secretly thinking, “I was born for this.”

Con: They might wake you up and ask you to actually do something when you’re just so comfortable in your bed.

Fun Factor: 10/10, honestly. Who doesn't want to make money while snoozing?

Motivation: You’ll be a champion of sleep. Just don’t fall asleep during the interview. 😴

Don't ask me I am not in this field 🤣😪

2. Professional Video Game Player 🎮

Pro: You get to play games all day, every day. Who doesn’t love that? Get paid to explore different worlds, fight dragons, or build your dream house.

Con: Your thumbs might get sore. Also, parents might not be super thrilled if you're "playing games" 12 hours a day. 👀

Fun Factor: Off the charts! It’s like being paid to live in a virtual reality.

Motivation: Stay focused and maybe one day you’ll have your own gaming channel! (Cue the adoring fans!) 👾

3. Biscuit (or Cookie) Taste Tester 🍪

Pro: You eat cookies for a living. Need I say more? It’s like the job of your dreams (and your stomach’s dreams).

Con: Too many cookies = sugar rush. Too many sugar rushes = maybe not the best idea for long-term health.

Fun Factor: You'll definitely be the most popular person at the office.

Motivation: Think of it as your personal mission to save the world, one cookie at a time! 🍪

4. Stand-Up Comedian 🎤

Pro: You get to make people laugh for a living! Making jokes, talking about life in a funny way—it’s literally your job to make people smile.

Con: Not every joke lands. Sometimes the crowd will stare at you like you just told a potato joke in a room full of people who don't like potatoes. Yikes.

Fun Factor: If you love humor (like me), this one’s a winner. The stage is yours!

Motivation: If you can make people laugh, you can probably make them think, too. It’s a win-win!


5. Professional Swimmer (Just Swim!) 🏊‍♂️

Pro: Swimming all day long. Feels like a vacation. You’re basically Aquaman but without the fancy trident.

Con: You might get a little pruney from being in the water too long. Also, there's no Netflix underwater.

Fun Factor: Super fun, especially if you like the idea of being a water ninja!

Motivation: You’re not just swimming; you're swimming for glory (or at least to avoid swimming lessons). 🏅



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6. Pet Sitter 🐶🐱

Pro: Cuddling with puppies and kittens all day. If you love animals, this is the golden ticket!

Con: Some pets might have... let’s just say... "personal hygiene issues" that you have to deal with. 🐾

Fun Factor: Ultimate fun if you’re an animal lover! You might even get to hang out with the world’s most famous pets on Instagram. 🐕📸

Motivation: You’re helping pets live their best lives while avoiding drama (unless a dog tries to steal your sandwich, of course).


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7. Ice Cream Taster 🍦

Pro: You’re basically a human ice cream machine. You get to try flavors all day and enjoy your sweet job. (It’s like a dream, right?)

Con: If you have a lactose intolerance, maybe not your best bet. But hey, dairy-free ice cream exists now! 🍨

Fun Factor: Insane levels of fun. Free ice cream? Yes, please! 🍧

Motivation: Work hard, and you could be the next ice cream guru. Your name will be legendary in the world of desserts!



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8. Escape Room Designer 🔒

Pro: Designing puzzles for people to get trapped in! You’ll be the mastermind behind those tricky clues that leave people freaking out (in a fun way, of course).

Con: People might actually get too trapped. Be prepared to answer a lot of “how do we get out?” questions. 😅

Fun Factor: Crazy fun! It’s like creating your own mystery novel, except you get to watch it play out in real life.

Motivation: Get ready to create the next “escape room of the century”! Your friends will never stop talking about your puzzles. 🕵️‍♂️



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9. Skydiving Instructor 🪂

Pro: You get to be the person who teaches others to jump out of planes. How cool is that?

Con: You have to jump out of a plane first. And, you know, that might be a little bit terrifying.

Fun Factor: You’re living life on the edge (literally).

Motivation: You’ll be the most thrilling person in the room. Just don't land in someone’s backyard. 😎



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10. Personal Shopper 🛍️

Pro: Getting paid to shop? Yup. If you’ve got good taste and enjoy picking out clothes, this is your job.

Con: Sometimes your clients might be really picky about their shoes. 😬

Fun Factor: It’s like playing dress-up for real, and you’re doing it with other people's money!

Motivation: You'll have the best fashion sense and maybe even become a style influencer. 🏆



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11. Cartoonist 🎨

Pro: Drawing cartoons all day. Who wouldn’t love making funny characters and making people laugh?

Con: People might ask for your "magical" drawing powers when you’re just trying to enjoy some pizza.

Fun Factor: Unlimited fun. You get to create weird, quirky worlds and characters!

Motivation: Imagine a world where YOU create the next SpongeBob. Or, well, something even weirder. 🌍



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12. Coffee Taster ☕

Pro: Tasting coffee all day. If you’re a coffee lover, this is the ultimate career. You’ll get paid to sip on your favorite brew!

Con: You’ll probably end up being awake all the time. Don’t worry, it’s worth it.

Fun Factor: Pure bliss if you’re a fan of caffeine!

Motivation: Your name could be synonymous with coffee. Imagine being known as the world’s top coffee expert. ☕🌍



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13. Travel Blogger 🌍

Pro: Traveling around the world while sharing your adventures with the world. Basically a paid vacation! ✈️

Con: Sometimes, you’ll be on 14-hour flights and have to eat mystery airplane food. Not glamorous, but worth it for the Insta pics.

Fun Factor: Ultimate fun, and you’ll see places most people can only dream of. You might even get paid to eat food you can’t pronounce. 😆

Motivation: You’ll be living life to the fullest—and making money while doing it. Can’t beat that!



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14. Wizard School Teacher 🧙‍♂️

Pro: You teach the next generation of wizards. You're basically Dumbledore, but with less drama.

Con: You might get turned into a frog by one of your students. Be careful.

Fun Factor: You’ll be a magical superstar. Plus, magic wands.

Motivation: Think about all the potions you’ll brew, and the amazing enchanted creatures you’ll discover!



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I could go on forever with this, but here’s the thing, Felix—whatever you choose, just remember it’s all about exploring what makes you sparkle! Whether it’s eating cookies, designing puzzles, or jumping out of planes, it’s okay to take your time figuring it out. So, grab your cape, your thinking cap, or your ice cream scoop, and start having some fun! 😎

The world is your oyster, my friend. Go ahead and crack it open—maybe you'll find a pearl, or maybe... a cookie. 😜
Thank you comment icon I don't really like anything. I do know, I don't want to do anything. I have no curiosity. No taste testing stuff, I don't like being fat (even though I'm not fat I still consider myself fat somewhat) and I don't have a strong enough opinion about things so I couldn't tell them what tastes good. I don't really like coffee, too bitter. Travel blogger? Why not travel for pleasure? Where would I even get money to start that? It'll probably fail anyways. Cartoonist? I'm not artistic in any way. Is this A.I? What is Wizard school teacher? The only one I might consider is professional shopper but I don't know how to start. Felix
Thank you comment icon Professional Shopper? Start small! Help friends pick out clothes, offer to shop for busy people (they love that), or check out platforms like Stitch Fix. You don’t need to be a fashion guru—just someone who knows how to make shopping easy for others. Plus, you get paid to not hate shopping. 😎 As for the rest—who says you can’t travel for fun and blog about it anyway? Even if it’s just your couch “travels.” Or make cartoon stick figures—no art skills needed. Wizards? Well, who wouldn’t want to teach magic? Start with baby steps, have fun, and see where it goes. You don’t need to love something right now, just try something. 🌟 Dr H
Thank you comment icon No such thing as magic. I'm probably only going to get a job when I'm 19, my mom doesn't want me to get a job right now because of grades 🙄 Felix
Thank you comment icon I totally undrstand you felix that's is moms😂 my mom didn't allow me either until I was 20, yea pal. So don't get hopeless you can do volunteer jobs virtually or jobs online like freelancing there is always ways. Just keep studying you got time. Dr H
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