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Prince
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What should I do in life?
How should I develop my mind in myself to know what I’m going to do in life and why should I work in that as a career? Do I do happy things in life for 10 years and struggle for the next 70 I years or do I do hard work for 10 years and have a happy life for the next 70 years!
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seyed hamid hosseini raviz
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seyed hamid’s Answer
Hello!
Choosing a lifestyle is perhaps one of the most significant decisions in a person’s life. This decision is influenced by various personal abilities and talents, so it can vary from one individual to another. One of those responses is my personal opinion. I like to wake up every morning and say, “Oh, let’s get to work, and today, let’s create something new.”
Congratulations on asking this question during your adolescence and seeking an answer. In my view, a form of self-awareness can help you make the best decision. It means honestly identifying your talents and interests and choosing based on the real possibilities available to you. However, I recommend always being joyful and using life’s moments for learning and enjoyment. All your good wishes are my wishes too. Be successful!
Choosing a lifestyle is perhaps one of the most significant decisions in a person’s life. This decision is influenced by various personal abilities and talents, so it can vary from one individual to another. One of those responses is my personal opinion. I like to wake up every morning and say, “Oh, let’s get to work, and today, let’s create something new.”
Congratulations on asking this question during your adolescence and seeking an answer. In my view, a form of self-awareness can help you make the best decision. It means honestly identifying your talents and interests and choosing based on the real possibilities available to you. However, I recommend always being joyful and using life’s moments for learning and enjoyment. All your good wishes are my wishes too. Be successful!
Aninda Majumder
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Aninda’s Answer
My friend, it's good to see you seeking answers to the most valuable question of life, that is, how to live it right.
Despite the fact that, it is highly subjective and different for each other, so only you have the perfect answer to your question.
However, what I have learnt from my exploration, life is not about the destination, it's about the journey.
Ask yourself what do you love doing the most, (don't just say sleeping, I meant something productive). Find your niche, how? Just explore a lot of subjects, if you're here asking questions that means you have access to the internet, use it in the best way possible. Deep dive into various topics and find what interests you the most, let's say until you're 30. (For me it's art and philosophy). Set your goal for the next 10 years to be at the top of that field.
I believe there is nothing like working hard for 10 years and have fun for 70 years or vice versa. Your heart is working, your vital organs are working, so why would you stop working? Work everyday until your soul leaves your body, you might work more or work less that's upto you.
Again, don't worry about the destination, focus on the journey. It's perfectly fine not to know "how", instead, ask yourself "why"?Why would you do whatever you do, why are you living anyway. That doesn't mean don't live your life, thats a terrible idea. Life is beautiful out there, enjoy it the fullest.
I wish you all the best and I am sure you'll provide great service to this world. Take good care of you and your closed ones. Spread love, keep smiling (yes, I can see you right there).
Despite the fact that, it is highly subjective and different for each other, so only you have the perfect answer to your question.
However, what I have learnt from my exploration, life is not about the destination, it's about the journey.
Ask yourself what do you love doing the most, (don't just say sleeping, I meant something productive). Find your niche, how? Just explore a lot of subjects, if you're here asking questions that means you have access to the internet, use it in the best way possible. Deep dive into various topics and find what interests you the most, let's say until you're 30. (For me it's art and philosophy). Set your goal for the next 10 years to be at the top of that field.
I believe there is nothing like working hard for 10 years and have fun for 70 years or vice versa. Your heart is working, your vital organs are working, so why would you stop working? Work everyday until your soul leaves your body, you might work more or work less that's upto you.
Again, don't worry about the destination, focus on the journey. It's perfectly fine not to know "how", instead, ask yourself "why"?Why would you do whatever you do, why are you living anyway. That doesn't mean don't live your life, thats a terrible idea. Life is beautiful out there, enjoy it the fullest.
I wish you all the best and I am sure you'll provide great service to this world. Take good care of you and your closed ones. Spread love, keep smiling (yes, I can see you right there).
Jerome Dees Jr.
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This is a big question and a great one to be asking. I see too many people floating through life; just content with what come.
I think as you go through life, you will have different seasons. I put my head down and worked hard during my 20's/30's and it's let me live a pretty comfortable life in my 40's while taking care of my 4 kids.
Do you want material wealth? Do you want to improve the world around you?
I think trying to understand the impact you want to have on the world might help you answer your question.
I think as you go through life, you will have different seasons. I put my head down and worked hard during my 20's/30's and it's let me live a pretty comfortable life in my 40's while taking care of my 4 kids.
Do you want material wealth? Do you want to improve the world around you?
I think trying to understand the impact you want to have on the world might help you answer your question.
Rebecca Tang
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Rebecca’s Answer
Thank you for your question. This is a good question. The most important is find out what you have interest now.
Below are my suggestions :
1. Think about what you have interest, e.g your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc. and identify the related careers
E.g. If you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music producer, music composer, etc.
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an engineer, accountant, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc.
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counsellor, your parents, etc.
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges
Bear in mind that your interest may change in your lifetime. This is very common and happen to many people. At that time, you may consider to change to another career.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Below are my suggestions :
1. Think about what you have interest, e.g your hobbies, favourite subjects, etc. and identify the related careers
E.g. If you like music, would you like to be a musician, singer, musical artist, music producer, music composer, etc.
If you have interest in maths, would you like to be an engineer, accountant, banker, financial analyst, maths teacher, etc.
2. Find out more on these careers and determine what you have interest
3. Speak to someone who are working in these careers. Seek guidance from your mentor, school career counsellor, your parents, etc.
4. Shortlist 1-2 careers you would like to pursue
5. Explore the entry criteria of relevant subjects in colleges
Bear in mind that your interest may change in your lifetime. This is very common and happen to many people. At that time, you may consider to change to another career.
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
May Almighty God bless you!
Avirup Ray
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Avirup’s Answer
Life is different for everyone. I would say live it in the way you see fit but without any regrets. Try everything you want to try and the things you want to accomplish as long as they seem reasonable. At the end of the day and beginning, you are the only one with the experiences you've had and will have.
Patrick Meyer
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Patrick’s Answer
Prince, remember that choosing your life's path and your career is a monumental decision. It's a journey that requires you to deeply consider your interests, values, strengths, and dreams. Gaining clarity and direction in life is a blend of self-reflection, exploration, and practical planning. A key method to uncover your passion and purpose is to delve into self-assessment, pinpointing what brings joy, satisfaction, and purpose to your life. This could mean exploring hobbies, interests, and activities that spark excitement and a sense of purpose, as well as looking back at past experiences and achievements to identify recurring themes that resonate with you.
Moreover, exposing yourself to various career options and exploring different fields can offer precious insights and perspectives on potential career paths. This could mean conducting informational interviews, shadowing professionals in different industries, or seeking internships or volunteer opportunities to gain firsthand experience and insight into different roles and environments. Lifelong learning and personal development, through formal education, professional development courses, or self-directed study, can also help you broaden your knowledge, skills, and abilities, paving the way for new opportunities and paths for growth.
When you're deciding on a career path, it's crucial to align your professional goals with your personal values, interests, and long-term dreams. Reflecting on the impact you want to make in the world, the values you cherish, and the lifestyle you envision for yourself can provide clarity and direction in choosing a career path that is both personally rewarding and meaningful. Also, considering factors like financial stability, work-life balance, and potential for growth and advancement can help you make informed decisions about your career path and prioritize your overall well-being and happiness.
In the end, the balance between seeking happiness now and investing in hard work for future rewards is a complex and deeply personal matter. While the appeal of immediate gratification and pursuing present happiness may be strong, it's crucial to strike a balance between short-term desires and long-term goals and dreams. This balance often requires sacrifices, hard work, and dedication to achieve meaningful goals and create a fulfilling life. However, it's equally important to prioritize self-care, well-being, and quality of life along the journey, ensuring that the path you're on is sustainable and rewarding in the long run. By fostering self-awareness, exploring different possibilities, and aligning your actions with your values and dreams, you can confidently navigate life's choices, creating a path that leads to a rewarding and meaningful career and life journey.
Moreover, exposing yourself to various career options and exploring different fields can offer precious insights and perspectives on potential career paths. This could mean conducting informational interviews, shadowing professionals in different industries, or seeking internships or volunteer opportunities to gain firsthand experience and insight into different roles and environments. Lifelong learning and personal development, through formal education, professional development courses, or self-directed study, can also help you broaden your knowledge, skills, and abilities, paving the way for new opportunities and paths for growth.
When you're deciding on a career path, it's crucial to align your professional goals with your personal values, interests, and long-term dreams. Reflecting on the impact you want to make in the world, the values you cherish, and the lifestyle you envision for yourself can provide clarity and direction in choosing a career path that is both personally rewarding and meaningful. Also, considering factors like financial stability, work-life balance, and potential for growth and advancement can help you make informed decisions about your career path and prioritize your overall well-being and happiness.
In the end, the balance between seeking happiness now and investing in hard work for future rewards is a complex and deeply personal matter. While the appeal of immediate gratification and pursuing present happiness may be strong, it's crucial to strike a balance between short-term desires and long-term goals and dreams. This balance often requires sacrifices, hard work, and dedication to achieve meaningful goals and create a fulfilling life. However, it's equally important to prioritize self-care, well-being, and quality of life along the journey, ensuring that the path you're on is sustainable and rewarding in the long run. By fostering self-awareness, exploring different possibilities, and aligning your actions with your values and dreams, you can confidently navigate life's choices, creating a path that leads to a rewarding and meaningful career and life journey.
Aisha Taylor
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Aisha’s Answer
Hello Prince,
The journey to finding your life's purpose is a process that involves self-reflection, exploration, and continuous learning. Begin by examining your interests, passions, and principles. What activities spark joy and satisfaction in you? What causes stir up your enthusiasm? Engage in experiences that enable you to delve into various fields, hobbies, and potential careers. This could involve internships, volunteer work, or furthering your education. Also, don't hesitate to seek advice from mentors, counselors, or professionals in areas you find captivating.
When contemplating a career, consider its long-term implications and the fulfillment it could bring. While personal happiness is crucial, it's also important to factor in aspects like financial security, personal development, and your contribution to society. Balancing your passions with practicality can lead to a satisfying career and a content life.
Bear in mind, achieving success often demands dedication and persistence. Dedicating time and energy to hone your skills and knowledge from the get-go can set the foundation for long-term contentment and stability. In the end, prioritize a career that resonates with your principles, brings you happiness, and lets you make a significant difference in the world.
The journey to finding your life's purpose is a process that involves self-reflection, exploration, and continuous learning. Begin by examining your interests, passions, and principles. What activities spark joy and satisfaction in you? What causes stir up your enthusiasm? Engage in experiences that enable you to delve into various fields, hobbies, and potential careers. This could involve internships, volunteer work, or furthering your education. Also, don't hesitate to seek advice from mentors, counselors, or professionals in areas you find captivating.
When contemplating a career, consider its long-term implications and the fulfillment it could bring. While personal happiness is crucial, it's also important to factor in aspects like financial security, personal development, and your contribution to society. Balancing your passions with practicality can lead to a satisfying career and a content life.
Bear in mind, achieving success often demands dedication and persistence. Dedicating time and energy to hone your skills and knowledge from the get-go can set the foundation for long-term contentment and stability. In the end, prioritize a career that resonates with your principles, brings you happiness, and lets you make a significant difference in the world.
Gregory Perez
Executive Chef
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Gregory’s Answer
What a fantastic question you've asked! It's really important to ponder about the activities that bring you joy. Sometimes, it's challenging to figure it out all by yourself, and perhaps you might need to dip your toes in the job pool, trying out a few entry-level positions to discover what really piques your interest. I found my calling as a chef just two weeks into culinary school. I discovered that cooking and food not only made me happy but also the sheer joy I felt when I whipped up something special for someone to relish was unparalleled. It's a feeling I yearned to experience over and over again. If it starts to feel less like work and more like a cherished pastime, then it's definitely a path worth exploring for you.