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What to do if I have no APs/Honors/Extracurriculars (a shy homeschooled Junior in HS who wants to pursue either becoming a lawyer or something in the forensic science area)?
I feel very behind and stressed because though I do make good grades, I know that I should have at least a few of these things but I don’t. I know the best way is for me to just do something about it but I’m not sure on how to go about it. I also feel stressed because I’m not 100% for sure which career path I should pursue: law or forensic science. I will take any advice. Do you think that it would be a good idea if I take any APs/Honors next year or will it be too late? I was thinking of taking dual enrollment next year and some CLEP exams this year. And, what extracurriculars should I do as of now, and for my senior year—ones that match the careers i want to do or a variety of different things that interest me? (sorry if i got off topic!!!) Thank you in advance because any help/advice will be appreciated!
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Cliff’s Answer
S,
I can tell by the way you wrote this that you are a planner/thinker and you can get yourself worked up about things like your future. I have to say that's a GOOD thing as long as you channel it into action and don't let it paralyze or overwhelm you.
I think you're asking some great questions, which is also good. Do you have thoughts on where you want to go to college? I think CLEP tests or taking classes at a local college to earn college credits is an excellent idea and can help reduce overall costs. If you can sign up for those, I would do that as soon as possible.
Do you know anyone who is a lawyer or works in forensic science? If so, see if you can do some shadowing with them and ask them the questions about extra curriculars that can help. If not, see if a friend, family, school guidance counselor can help hook you up to someone so you can try to shadow or at least talk with someone about this. My son did some shadowing of doctors and that cemented his desire to do that - I think it can be very helpful.
Keep thinking about things like this, asking questions, and pushing yourself. The decisions and work you do over the next 5-7 years will greatly influence the course of your life. Spend time putting your plans in place and talk through it with friends and family you trust but remember to give yourself time to DESTRESS! If you don't, you can drive yourself crazy - my daughter is like you, but her husband keeps her in check with his silly humor.
Best of luck to you!
I can tell by the way you wrote this that you are a planner/thinker and you can get yourself worked up about things like your future. I have to say that's a GOOD thing as long as you channel it into action and don't let it paralyze or overwhelm you.
I think you're asking some great questions, which is also good. Do you have thoughts on where you want to go to college? I think CLEP tests or taking classes at a local college to earn college credits is an excellent idea and can help reduce overall costs. If you can sign up for those, I would do that as soon as possible.
Do you know anyone who is a lawyer or works in forensic science? If so, see if you can do some shadowing with them and ask them the questions about extra curriculars that can help. If not, see if a friend, family, school guidance counselor can help hook you up to someone so you can try to shadow or at least talk with someone about this. My son did some shadowing of doctors and that cemented his desire to do that - I think it can be very helpful.
Keep thinking about things like this, asking questions, and pushing yourself. The decisions and work you do over the next 5-7 years will greatly influence the course of your life. Spend time putting your plans in place and talk through it with friends and family you trust but remember to give yourself time to DESTRESS! If you don't, you can drive yourself crazy - my daughter is like you, but her husband keeps her in check with his silly humor.
Best of luck to you!
Thank you, Cliff for the advice.
S
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Martha’s Answer
Hi, S - I join Jerome and Cliff in trying to give you some reassurance. They have given you good advice; here are some additional thoughts:
- As a junior in high school, you aren't expected to have all the answers. Some have not focused as much as you have at that point or even during senior year. So don't worry.
- It is good to take an AP or Honors course to show colleges your intellectual curiosity and willingness to challenge yourself. But it is good to take them for the learning and to get the self-satisfaction of facing the challenge. Don't do something you don't want to do just because it might look good to colleges.
- Having extra-curricular activities (or a job) are good for you as well as for college applications. They help you grow as a person and can offer welcome contrasts to schoolwork. Pick something that interests you and helps you grow as a person. Everything does not have to support your career plans.
- Use College Board or other resources to explore college options. Larger schools tend to be better known, but if you are shy, you may do better at a smaller school. Some of those are also well-known but you may find others that fit you well.
Good luck!
- As a junior in high school, you aren't expected to have all the answers. Some have not focused as much as you have at that point or even during senior year. So don't worry.
- It is good to take an AP or Honors course to show colleges your intellectual curiosity and willingness to challenge yourself. But it is good to take them for the learning and to get the self-satisfaction of facing the challenge. Don't do something you don't want to do just because it might look good to colleges.
- Having extra-curricular activities (or a job) are good for you as well as for college applications. They help you grow as a person and can offer welcome contrasts to schoolwork. Pick something that interests you and helps you grow as a person. Everything does not have to support your career plans.
- Use College Board or other resources to explore college options. Larger schools tend to be better known, but if you are shy, you may do better at a smaller school. Some of those are also well-known but you may find others that fit you well.
Good luck!
Thank you very much, Martha! This is great advice that I hope to put into action soon. Have a great day!
S
You're welcome and wishing you a great day, too!
Martha Kramer
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Patrick’s Answer
As a homeschooled student in your junior year with dreams of pursuing law or forensic science, you have the unique advantage of customizing your education and experiences to suit your ambitions. Remember, it's always possible to boost your academic standing, and your forward-thinking attitude is praiseworthy. Enrolling in AP courses or taking dual enrollment classes in your senior year can prove your readiness for college-level studies. Similarly, CLEP exams can highlight your expertise in specific subjects, thereby strengthening your college applications and possibly earning you college credits.
When it comes to extracurricular activities, choose those that match your interests and potential career choices. If law is your preference, consider joining debate clubs, participating in mock trial contests, or volunteering at legal aid clinics. If forensic science is your choice, you could participate in science fairs, attend crime scene investigation workshops, or secure internships at local labs. However, don't restrict yourself. Engage in activities you truly enjoy, as colleges appreciate genuine involvement.
If you're unsure about your career path, take time to investigate both fields in depth, shadow professionals when you can, and enroll in relevant courses to understand each area better. It's perfectly normal to feel unsure at this point. Many successful individuals have switched paths during or after their college years. Concentrate on developing a robust set of skills and gathering experiences that can be beneficial in either field, such as critical thinking, analytical abilities, and effective communication. Your commitment to self-improvement and readiness to seek guidance are admirable qualities that will benefit you in any career you decide to follow.
When it comes to extracurricular activities, choose those that match your interests and potential career choices. If law is your preference, consider joining debate clubs, participating in mock trial contests, or volunteering at legal aid clinics. If forensic science is your choice, you could participate in science fairs, attend crime scene investigation workshops, or secure internships at local labs. However, don't restrict yourself. Engage in activities you truly enjoy, as colleges appreciate genuine involvement.
If you're unsure about your career path, take time to investigate both fields in depth, shadow professionals when you can, and enroll in relevant courses to understand each area better. It's perfectly normal to feel unsure at this point. Many successful individuals have switched paths during or after their college years. Concentrate on developing a robust set of skills and gathering experiences that can be beneficial in either field, such as critical thinking, analytical abilities, and effective communication. Your commitment to self-improvement and readiness to seek guidance are admirable qualities that will benefit you in any career you decide to follow.
Thank you so much!
S
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Jerome’s Answer
Every journey begins with one step. I know it can be overwhelming; looking at the big picture and trying to figure out your whole life. When I get overwhelmed I try to simply do one thing and then another.
Just join 1 club or talk with one teacher about opportunities to improve your overall resume. You don’t have to have everything figure out today, but if you do one thing and then one more thing, you’ll get it sorted.
Just join 1 club or talk with one teacher about opportunities to improve your overall resume. You don’t have to have everything figure out today, but if you do one thing and then one more thing, you’ll get it sorted.
Thank you so much, Jerome!
S